I hate dogs, but my girlfriend loves them. How can we get along?
First of all, breaking up with her is not an answer I'm looking for. Obviously it's a solution to this kind of problem. I'm looking for alternate solutions that don't require us to separate. Okay, so I hate dogs, and I would never normally get one. They smell, they chew things up, they get fur everywhere, they have fleas, and they require a level of responsibility that I don't care to take on (at least not yet). My girlfriend loves animals, including and possibly especially dogs... We haven't talked about it, yet, but I'm afraid she's going to want to get a big dog, since she's probably never been able to have one before. Now, I'm willing to compromise to a degree, and the last thing I want is to try to change or control her, but I'm really afraid this is the one thing that's going to tear us apart. She's really very special to me, so I really want to make this work out, but I'm really at loss as to how to deal with something like this. And again, don't just tell me to find someone else. I want to try to make it work before I just give up on her. Beyond this, she's absolutely worth it. And as for those who would compare getting a dog to having children, I see them as very different things. No, I'm not ready for children right now, either, but I can see myself dealing with taking care of a child at some point in the future, if for no other reason than because I'd actually have wanted the child in the first place. And they're not animals... *sigh* Please help me... I love this girl so much and I really don't want it to end. How do I live with a dog lover?
My dog more attached to girlfriend than me even though i take good care of him. he thinks i hurt his feelings?
The basic truth is you are no longer the the one your dog has to listen to. I'm guessing if you are working then your GF is feeding, walking and spending time with your dog. You should be glad that your dog has someone about to meet all his needs and keep him happy :) If you want to get back in your dogs life you need to make yourself available and interesting. Get up early and walk your dog, feed him before you go. Try and set time aside a few times a week for training with him, this will reinforce his bond with you.
Can a boy and a girl be best friends after their break up?
My boyfriend and I broke up in December 2015. Ours was a long relationship, since school days. The reason he ended it was because he just didn't have the same feelings for me anymore.. After that, we didn't talk for a month.We're still besties though.I realized, I have known this person for sooo long. We know each other better than ourselves. I put myself in his position and found that...he did do the right thing. It wasn't like he didn't care about me anymore. He did. But he respected me enough to not let me fool myself.His best friend sent me screenshots of how he would ask many times if I would talk to him(best friend) and how I was. Not because he still loved me, but because he cared, as a friend. Things have never been awkward between us. We recall old times with laughter and annoy the shit out of each other.There have been more relationships in both our lives and we have helped each other get through them. Believe me, he is the best advisor for my relationships in these situations!!! So yeahhh. Totally possible.
How can I get over my ex BPD girlfriend?
This is a difficult scenario for any person to deal with. It doesnt matter how long you were with that person, it doesnt matter the age difference, it doesnt matter what profession you are in or if you are David Beckham or Hugh Hefner himself. Your looks, personality, traits, kindness, money or nothing else matters. It is of no significance. Which is why the first thing you have to realize is that THIS IS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU!!!!!! PLEASE TAKE NOTE OF THIS RIGHT NOW!Borderlines are selfish and impulsive. They care little about you or how you feel. They are so engrossed in thier own warped world that they create a false narrative of what happened. You mean less than nothing to them now. In fact, they have created a narrative that you are a bad person and they should never speak to you again. Its a defense mechanism for them because they cannot admit they are cruel or bad in any way. When really they are the meaning of cruel.The upside, women age like milk. Men age like fine wine. Borderlines are the sad old women, divorced or separated shopping in charity shops. No friend, sometimes no family and not even the enchanting looks which helped them get by. They are nothings.You on the other hand can move on and be happy. They can not. They dont get better. They can make symptoms less with ongoing therapy but they will always be trouble for whoever is unlucky enough to get involved.My advice. Run! Run now while you can and meet someone normal. they have no desire to get better until they are old and fat and cant use sex as a manipulation tactic.The lie, cheat, gaslight, smear and make you out to be the worst human being alive when really all you did was your best to help them. after mine left for finding a parking ticket in my rucksack (what the hell) she swanned off to Paris (a trip for my 30th birthday) and left me behind. Cleaned out the apartment and was never heard of again. Last I heard she hooked up with the mechanic! Tramps of the highest order my friend.I got the words “Res Ipsa Loquider” tatted on my chest after all this. It means “The facts speak for themselves. Move on and forget that scum ever came into your life.Feel free to private message me if you need support or answers. I am like a guru at this shit now after dealing with these tyrants.peace and healing to all nons who are unfortunate enough to be hampered by these filthy dogs.Peace
Is my Boyfriend choosing his friends over me?? :( help.
Im beginning to have a problem in my relationship. Im not sure if to make a big deal out of it just yet but i hope someone can advise me on what to do. I happen to live just down the street from my bf's best friend and thats where most of their friends hang out. The problem starts here, he comes to visit me but usually only stays for 2 hrs or so, three at the most then he leaves to hang out with his best friend and other friends, there are times where he doesnt even stop by and i wont see him for a day or two, and theres times when he stops by because hes over at his friends house already and just wanted to come say hi or stops by at my house before he heads over there, or just stops by to tell me hes going to be with his friends all day. Now i dont have a problem with him hanging out with his friends but im beginning to feel like im just on the side and it seems that being with his friends makes him happier than being with me thats why i feel he chooses to spend the majority of his time with them. Am i over analyzing the situtation or should i have the right to feel neglected because hes not spending any quality time with me?? What should i do? Anyone with useful advice let me know what you think, thanks.
I think she was attracted to me but I never made a move, and now we are just friends. Is it too late to tell her how I feel?
No, it is never too late. It might be too late to create a relationship -- i.e., she might have become involved with someone else, the most common "too late," -- but you won't know unless you communicate. You are afraid now, the same as before. Nothing has changed, really. At some point in your life, you'll need to have the courage to take a chance that you'll be rejected.Look, don't let another of those days go by. I don't care if you have to stutter and hem and haw, get it out! You might find it's much easier than you think.You were sending her a message that you didn't care. She's not a mind-reader. Your actions said, over, and over, that, at least something was more important to you than telling her how you feel.And it was. Protecting yourself from failure was more important.Or whatever stopped you was more important.But you can change your mind, and go for what you want. Or you can keep hiding, through this one and the next and the next.What's your choice?
Why do girls think I'm awkward?
Soo whats the question here? why do girls think youre awkward? I dont know probably because you are. But someones answer was they like awkward guys, so you just need someone who is outgoing and likes awkward people. Im a girl and im awkward, so i cant stand being around awkward guys. This really awkward guy had a huge crush on me and always wanted to hangout and i would just think WHY ITS SO AWKWARD. So you and i both need social, talkative people. I dont think it has to do with kissing in the first week...unless you were awkward about it and forced it.