I dated my best friends brother and now SHE hates me?
I had a best friend (a) and a and I became best friends September 2012. She was 15 I was 16 (a grade older) and we were extremely close all year. Then in January I switched schools and she got closer to this other girl (s). But she and s never hung out outside of school. Me and a hung out every weekend in the school year and almost everyday during the summer. In May, I called another friend of mine my best friend (she always called s her best friend too) but a didn't like me saying somebody else was my best friend too so we made a "rule" saying we'd only call each other our best friend. That worked throughout the summer (she didn't see s at all in the summer). But all summer I was dating a's brother! Well he was very in love with me but I didn't have such strong feelings because he was so controlling. Anytime I would try to get guy advice from a she would just side with her brother and that caused friction in our friendship. But I stopped going to her for that and our friendship was good again. When the school year started we didn't talk as much and about 3-4 weeks ago I texted a and asked her if everything was alright and she said she felt the distance too and wanted to get closer. The week after that we were talking like usual and then the next day i looked at her Instagram and saw she deleted EVERY PICTURE WITH ME IN IT. So i was like I'm done and didn't talk to her. My relationship with my bf was crap though so I broke up with him and he took it extremely hard. That week she texted me and tried telling me it was coincidental that she deleted our stuff. I was like that's bs and she was like okay sorry. We haven't talked since but all she's been doing is posting about how she loves s and s is her favorite person and her best friend over anybody. It's like she's forgotten about me. Also i found out that her/my exs family has been talking crap about me for breaking up with him and they all hate me now. What should I do?
My best friend is dating my brother?
So it all started in October when I knew they liked each other but I never thought it would get this serious. One night she invited herself to sleep over at my house. She kept asking me if we could go to bed because she was "tired." When I fell asleep she went into my brothers room and watched a movie, from what I heard they did, and she fell asleep in his room. I woke up in the morning and she was gone. I saw her walk across the hallway and knew she was in my brother's room. She checked up on me about 3 or 4 times and kept going back to his room. I grabbed my stuff and left. She kept lying about how she didn't use me but she finally admitted it. They are now dating and it really bothers me. She never asked for my permission or anything and she knows it bothers me. She is really the only one making an effort in mine and her friendship cuz I don't really care anymore ever since they started dating. Since then our friendship has slowly gone downhill. Should I be mad still? What should I do? We've already talked over this with each other but it still bothers me.
My best friend is now dating my boyfriends brother and I hate it.?
My boyfriend and i have been together for 5 months now and we are moving in together soon. Six days ago my best friend met his brother, but now I'm really regretting introducing them. Keep in mind that he speaks fluent spanish and VERY little english and she speaks only english so they use a translator to talk. But I really hate being around them together, in the past 6 days they have talked about getting married, having children, and her moving in it really weird and they say they love each other already. I want to know if anyone really thinks that this will work out? She comes to the house and acts like she owns the place after such a short amount of time and i absolutely hate it. Also he has also contemplated breaking up with her for the past few days till last night when he said he wants to stay with her. Please help and let me know what you think.
My friend hates me because I'm dating his sister?
Okay so I've been friends with a kid let's call him Steve he's 15 and I've been friends with him for about a year. Then all of a sudden I've started to hang out with his sister who I must say is way out of my league and many guys agree she's is the best looking girl in our high school. Anyway my friend got pissed multiple times that we were spending time together. I always told him he could come along with us and today I said we could go to the Diner just him and me and chill but he wasn't into because when he asked me if I was ready to go and then his sister said no Mark I want you to stay and I said okay we've got time he flipped at me and told me to explicit off. I tried to go into his room to say we can go now and he said to never show my face around him ever again. I then tried again and tried to apologize but he said "I swear if you move one step closer I'm gonna rock you the **** out. So I just left and chilled with his sister feeling bad that I let him down. I really like his sister that's the thing and she really likes me so it's just getting ugly with him. I think I know how he feels since she would of never known me unless he introduced me. I felt bad and I don't know what I could do to make him and me be bros again. Me and his sister are both 17 if it matters and he hates my guts. Is there anything I can do to help this friendship? Most people at the school don't like him but I've always sticked up for him through the tough times. He said if I ever dated his sister he would kick my ***. Anything I can do to work this out? Or should I just wait and see what happens. I usually see his sister every day and we cuddle and kiss and it get's him pissed so I try not to do it in front of him. He's met some of my family and I find him a genuine good kid he's just had a rough childhood. What are your thoughts about this? Am I the one at wrong here or is it him? i want to be friends with him again but I won't force anything. I think it's pretty serious since he blocked me on both Facebook and twitter. Any advice? Thanks for the help! I really appreciate it!
I set my brother and best friend up and now they’re dating. Now, both are spending less time with me and ignoring my texts. What should I do?
Just give them a little time.We all know when love is new the two see little else besides one another. Dating takes time, getting to know one another takes time. (You’d probably not like hanging around with one or the other right now anyhow - all they’ll talk about is their new love, how wonderful it is, describing dates, what’s next…)After that initial, getting to know one another wears off - Life returns to normal. You’ll be as important to both of them, as you always have been. All will go back to its normal way.Let them have that time - love them through it - and you’ll all be back to normal really soon.Patience is key. Loving them regardless of how silly they seem will only endear you you to them more in the long run.Hope that helps.
My brother is dating my best friend and it's ruining our friendship. What should I do?
‘How do I break them up?’You don't.Listen, I can empathise with your situation as I was in a similar position as you with my friend and my little brother. But have you ever considered that the reasons why your brother likes her are the same as the reasons why you like her? There has to a number of reasons as to why she was/is your bestfriend in the first place, so I assume she has positive qualities.It is slightly strange that he doesn't think she's pretty. It would be normal to acknowledge that she's not the most beautiful girl in the world, but for a relationship to work, there should be physical attraction. But perhaps they click on an emotional level instead, so looks don't bother him.I can see that you want to blame your brother for this by the way you write your statement. But your bestfriend made a conscious decision in deciding to date your brother, and she should be held just as accountable for the deterioration of your friendship.So what do I suggest?Instead of rushing to break them up, try to have a chat with your best friend. Not in a confrontational manner, but one of concern. Tell her your concerns, ask her questions and let her respond. If she isn't mature enough to have this type of chat with you, the only thing you can do is step back and wait for her to come to you. If she doesn't, then maybe the friendship wasn't ever really true and it's time for you to move on.If your brother doesn't find her pretty, chances are they won't end up marrying each other and living happily ever after. So let life do its duty. Plus, what could you really do in this situation?Steal her man away from her? Well, considering your his sister, I'm not too sure this cliche plan would work.Say bad things about one of them to the other? This is plain childish, and anyone with an IQ of 80 would be able to see right through. It would also probably make your best friend dislike you more.———————————————————There’s not much you can do or should do to break them up. So if clear communication between you three doesn't work, let them do their thing, make their own mistakes and right their own wrongs.
My best friend started dating my brother. He wants to break up, and now she doesn't want to be friends with me. Why?
She may just be a weirdo, and never repair the damage with you or your mom, and frankly your brother. But that's probably unlikely.She probably did fall in love with your brother, all of what your expirencing are simply different phases of her grieving. It's going to be up to YOU to save the friendship.The first couple times people become heart broken, they often don't have the slightest clue how to appropriately express all the built up emotion they have. And often times they can become "clinically depressed" which is perfectly ok if it is a short term thing. Fairly normal part of grieving serious loss, and what might not seem big to you, could have been huge to her. If she is behaving like a "depressed person" her emotions will swing and away from day to day like crazy, from professing her love about your brother, to saying she's glad it didn't work out and she hates him, and maybe you. Through all of this, if you simply wait it out and provide occasional support, and do not reciprocate the outward anger and verbal abuse, you will save the friendship, and when she recovers she will probably feel closer to you than ever. Anytime she gets mad, try your hardest to de-escalate the situation and just say something like "I'm so sorry this had to happen to you, and it can't work out right now, you didn't deserve this." Hope she comes back to you. And DO NOT bad things about your brother, no matter how much you like this friend, she will never love you like a brother. Family first.Hope it works out.
My fiance brother girlfriend hates me!?
so my fiance has a brother which has a girlfriend for over 6 years now.\and she hate me i guess the fact im getting married before her, ive only been dating my fiance for 8 months and he proposed knowing he is the one i said yes. but idk how to act around this girl, she acts like an angel, we played this question game one time and asked me when i first had sex with my fiance, i said the same day he asked me to be his girlfriend :p and i asked her, she said my fiance brother and her didnt have sex intill the 3rd year. making me feel like am a hoe giving myself out in the conversation afterwards. then she wants to talk to me about marriage that im to young and should wait, but i said if im young why would my heart further me to do something that would supposedly be wrong. and now shes is taking away my fiance parent from me, me and my fiance mom was supposed to put the Christmas tree up yesterday untill she called my fiance mom asking what she was doing, and she found out were doing the tree, she told her boyfriend (my fiance brother,hes also in this to ,jealous) and her calls hes mom telling her off that its a tradition with the family to do it, so we changed it today. so today my fiance mom woke me up about 8 am saying she was going grocery shopping and if she wanted to wake me up when i got back, but she never did i woke up at 1 pm because my future sister in law told her to let me sleep, and i go down stairs and the tree is done... ugh i just smile and tell her hey and what a great job they did. idk what to do, i dont wanna talk to her, but i wanna come out in a new me to make her understand im not going anywhere.? help.