Do men feel bad after cheating?
Or do they feel bad that they got caught? I caught my boyfriend red handed cheating and keeps denying it saying it was friend using his phone. I dumped him but now I'm wondering why he hasn't called begging for forgiveness.
Was this cheating?
I was trying to help my classmates today and now I’m paranoid I was cheating. I failed this class last year, but did really well on this one complex project. My two classmates were very worried and confused about some aspects of the project, so I showed them one page of it just to give them an idea of formatting and an example of how in depth they should go. The project is several pages and I showed them half of one. I wasn’t thinking about anything except trying to help and make my classmates feel better but now I feel like I inadvertently cheated.
I cheated how to stop feeling guilty?
Be completely honest with yourself: are you absolutely, 100% positively sure that you will NEVER betray your boyfriend like that again? Not even 99.9% sure, I'm talking 100% here. Anything less than 100%, you leave the relationship now. If you are completely, 100% sure that you will never ever cheat on your boyfriend again, then don't ever tell him. Treat him like gold, be the best girlfriend you can be, continue to love him unconditionally. Admitting to him that you cheated may relieve you of your guilt (every bit of which you deserve for having cheated on him in the first place) but it will only burden your boyfriend with feelings of anguish and hurt. He doesn't deserve that, he didn't do anything wrong. You did. Hold onto those feelings of guilt, this is the punishment that YOU and you alone must bear.
Did you ever cheat in school? Do you feel bad about it now?
No. I flew through school.What I sometimes regret is helping other people, though I didn’t see it as cheating. For example, some things, like basic programming, are extremely easy for me. People would ask for help and I’d give it.That doesn’t sound so bad, but they didn’t learn it. It wasn’t that they weren’t smart enough to learn it. They just didn’t.You might think of this in the same humorous vein as children helping their parents with their VCR or other electronics.
Why do I feel so bad because my wife cheated with another man?
You feel bad because she broke your heart and betrayed your trust. Part of you feels bad as well because you're blaming yourself for her infidelity. It doesn't matter why she did this Jerry, you are not to blame for her infidelity. There were obviously problems in your marriage or problems she was having within it or with you. But rather than trying to address or deal with these problems head-on, with you or in counselling, she went outside the marriage and had an affair.I don't know the specifics or details, but stop and look at things. Take a step back and ask yourself if you missed or ignored anything. Was your wife happy or unhappy? Were you fighting a lot, or talking and laughing? Was there communication? Was your love life healthy? Were you happy? Did you or she feel neglected in this marriage? If there were any problems that you both ignored, then you both need to address this before you do anything else.If you still love her and she still loves you, if you believe you can in time forgive her, then go into counselling now. Talk to her and see what she wants as well. Marriages can heal from this with hard work and with time.If this is something you can't or don't wish to overcome, or even deal with, then divorce her. But before you both throw away your marriage, take a long hard look at everything. It's not a good idea to make rash decisions while you're so emotionally hurt or angry.Jerry, infidelity is a deal breaker for me, but I would at least want to know why, why they did it. I would want to know how to avoid having this taint me with jealousy and/or insecurity, or if there was something I could have done to avoid it. I most definitely wouldn't want to repeat it in a future relationship. If we don't address the problems of a failed marriage, we're bound to repeat them. Either way, you need to heal from it, fix it, or both, before you move on.
Masturbation like cheating?
I feel so terrible right now. I was talking to my girlfriend of almost 6 months last night and we got on the subject of masturbation. It sounded like she had assumed that I do not do it all. We talked about it before we went out and she said that she didn't like, but I didn't realize how strongly she felt about it untill last night. She said that she would break up with anyone who did it and its pretty much as bad as cheating. I am going to tell her but I need some way to tell her. Any opinions on the subject or some ways of telling her that It didn't mean anything to me and that I am done for good or anything to make me feel better.