Should I kiss my girlfriend?
I have asked a couple times, and they both worked out well. But it does take a little of the surprise out of it.If you are this affectionate already, you are probably fine, unless for some reason she just doesn’t want to…When you say “I’d love to kiss her” I assume you are referring to “on the lips”. Start small, somewhere else, kiss her hair, her head, her forehead, cheek. Lift her hair gently and kiss her neck, her ear. When you are holding hand, kiss the hand, see how she reacts…if it seems ok, kiss up her arm (assuming short sleeves), if she doesn’t pull back you will get to her elbow, not the bony part but the soft inside part where it bends…stop there, kiss it soft and long, tickle it with your tongue...If you actually do all that, and she hasn’t yet pulled your lips to hers, just go for it.
My girlfriend didn't kiss me like she used to...?
I came back after 4 months to see her. The moment I saw her I was in heaven, I carried her hugged her and kissed her like crazy... but she was so passive. Then every time I'd try to kiss her, she would hesitate and resist. She said she was feeling awkward and new, and that she's paranoid she doesn't want to kiss in public... but i don't understand why... she broke my heart... then when she left she kissed and hugged me like I was some friend. She then called me and cried over the phone like 3 times... She said she had to get used to me again and she doesn't believe I'm here. what do I do? Is this normal?
Help! I can't kiss my girlfriend!?
is this like a problem in your head over nerves or just that there never seems to be an opening or what? I don't understand the situation but here. try this. next time you have a date bring her over to your house and settle down on the couch and turn off the lights and watch a movie. you should be totally 100% into the movie but keep an arm around her shoulders. keep watching her out of the corner of your eye but DON'T look directly at her. wait until she looks totally annoyed that you aren't showing her any attention and then lean over and kiss her. it'll totally shock her and it will just be this perfect moment. then smile and turn back to the movie but squeeze her tighter. that will break the barrier and you will be set to kiss anytime :p
My girlfriend got kissed by another guy. She didn't kiss back but she didn't push him away. It was a long kiss and she does feel guilty about it and has apologized multiple times. Does what happened necessarily count as cheating?
Yes, she cheated on you. If this was a “Long Kiss “ then she was kissing him back and did not want to stop kissing him. She had to have been teasing him to encourage him to kiss her - She wanted it to happen. It sounds as if she truly regrets causing that kiss to happen now, but at the time she was enjoying it. - But she has been a bad girlfriend to you. She may be trying to convince you that she was innocent in this”kiss” But it is very clear that she enjoyed kissing that man. Still, you need to forgive her for kissing another man. I am sure that he took control of her life for that moment and did not care what happened to her afterward - But she would have been flirting with hem first.- To give him the “ Go ahead “ with her. If you like your girlfriend, then please forgive her for this. People make mistakes, it is important that we forgive them - This most likely will happen again with this girl - But she needs to know that as long as she is honest with you about things like this, you will always be there to keep her safe and not punish her for her mistakes. This in turn will show her what a wonderful man she has, and help her be a better girlfriend to you. You should not let her “ Whitewash “ this incident to you - but talk with her about her true feelings at that moment. Remember, since she did not push him away or try and stop him once his lips touched hers - She had planned for this to happen, and she wanted it to happen. This is one of those important times in your life when what you do will change a girls life forever - So if you care about this girl in any form ( She is your girlfriend so I know you do. ) Be the man she needs now and hold her and tell her you forgive her and she needs to never worry about this again - She is your girl and she is safe with you. That may sound a bit much — But she really needs to hear and feel that from you now. My care is for you, not her. But from your words I can tell she is frightened that she may lose you - That means that even though this was her fault - She really cares about having you in her life, she will try even more to make you happy with her if you care for her life now. This is something that could happen with any girl - Your girl needs you to reassure her she is safe with you - Expect this to happen again with this girl - AND BE THERE FOR HER WHEN WHEN IT DOES HAPPEN. She needs a strong man to protect her ( In times such as this, she needs to be protected from herself. )She needs you to be that man.
My girlfriend won't kiss me because she said its putting me before God?
Find a new girlfriend. One with a brain.
In my dream, I tried to kiss my girlfriend, but she didn't let me kiss her. What does it mean?
Well for starters she might want to wait. Not everyone feels comfortable kissing. if you really love her take it slow and let her know that its okay to not want to be intimate. Show her that you are invested in her. For your dream it might mean that you have some things with intimacy you need to work out in your relationship, or that your scared of her rejecting you. Even if she doesn't kiss you there are other ways to love each other. that dream may be telling you, YOU need to wait until your comfortable to give away that type of affection. just trust your self and do what your okay with. I’m rooting for you.
Is it okay if your girlfriend is not letting you to kiss her?
From my experience, it absolutely indicates a lack of desire, especially if it has happened more than once. A girl will always take the chance to kiss someone she likes. So, no, it's not ok. She doesn't want you, and in my opinion, you should leave.An exception would be lack of experience, for example, if you are both teenagers, but even there, her need to experimentate, could overcome this resistance.Another case is if you have done something wrong to her or if you have a breath issue. But if these don't exist, and she has never kissed you, then she probably doesn't like you. Even if it doesn't seem like that, and many people would argue it, trust me, most of the times, that's the reason. You wouldn't bother to make a question on Quora if you knew that she likes you and she is just flirting.
My girlfriend hasn't had her first kiss yet, and I'm ready, but I don't know about her.?
Well, I'm 16 years old I'm a Christian so is my girlfriend so we're not into the sex thing, my girlfriend's name is Emily, I would have to say that we are in love, I say that because I know we are, I have asked, so I do know that she feels the same way about me. In the past her last boyfriend tried to kiss her, and she said no, so he ended up yelling at her, and they broke up, also, her dad was verbally abusive to her. She's been weird about the whole kissing thing ever since. I kiss her on the cheek, but any time I have tried to kiss her on the lips, she'd move away, and any time I try to ask her, why she doesn't want to she says she doesn't want to talk about it, or she changes the subject. I really do love her, and if I need to wait I will, but I really don't want to wait much longer, I love her, and I want to share that kiss with her, a kiss representing how much I love her, one of passion, not sexual, and my breath doesn't stink just thought I'd throw that out there...
My girlfriend refuses to kiss me, should I be worried?
Respect her opinion.Her doesn't wanting to kiss, doesn't mean that she loves you any less. She might be guilty since she is feeling that she is cheating her parents. You can express love in many ways. Give her sometime. Let her be stable and she will express it in the ways she can.Dont force her on anything, ever. Let her do what she likes and what she is comfortable with. Let her express in the ways she like.No two humans are alike. You may like to show your love by kissing her. She may be interested to show her love by holding your hands or in some other ways that she like.Give her space. At the end, love is what matters. It doesn't matter how it is showed.Stay strong. Cheers !