How do I make my husband see my mother-in-law's true personality?
This sounds real crazy. I wouldnt offer any advice but I d tell you what i would do to protect my dignity.Start working. However small or big the salary is join something. This will give you a direction to be independant & to divert your mind away. Remember, this might create more problems for you from your MIL but this would help stand on your legs when there is no hopeIgnore your MIL. I repeat. Dont let her get you. Your feelings thoughts and emotions are internal to you. Dont let external factors affect you. Start meditatingIf your husband is a nice guy. Start loving him without any expectations. He will slowly love you back and without asking he would start shielding you. ( unfortuantely this would take time and high level of patience from you)Tell your friends about the situation and be ready for emergency help. With a single message or call.Dont be alone. Learn some hobby and entertain yourself. This is one way you can make her jealous. Negative people wont like if someone is content and happy before themLive for yourself. Find the ultimate happiness in spreading joy in whatever way you likeDont worry about others. If they are listening to a third person and forming opinions about you they are not worth knowing you. Just keep going the way you naturally are and slowly they’ll come around.I have a feeling that your husband is already aware of his Mother’s attitude. Thats the only reason he is giving deaf ear. Otherwise he would equally get curious to know whats going wrong.A friend of mine has come out of an unhealthy relationship and she constantly inspires me with her fervour(by making a choice at age of 24 to file a divorce) courage and compassion(does volunteering at orphanages and animal welfare). She tells me Hardships are given to people who have the courage to withstand them and emerge as winners. She is grateful for this life and its virtuesShe was and is a winner to me. Never let anyone tell you what you are and what you arent capable of. Believe u are a self sustaining power. Trust your instincts. If your husband doesnt cater for your safety happiness and trust i dont see a future there.Lots of prayers and courage to you. Please let me know if you want someone to talk to & unload burden.
Help; My dad coughs for NO REASON at all. It's VERY annoying. It's a HABIT of his. ?
He has no medical condition that involves coughing; Coughing is just a nasty, disgusting habit of his. He would cough so loud sometimes, like *COUGHS COUGHS COUUGGHS AHHAA COUGHS* It's so annoying and wrong and nasty! It might be a psychological problem but I need him to stop. Oh, and he is a very selfish, inconsiderate person. The person he mostly cares about is... himself. Trust me, you don't know him. The adjectives are described him with are 100% accurate. Thus, he won't listen to me when I tell him to stop coughing; He'd make up an unreasonable excuse and even get me in trouble for pointing out this bad habit of his. He always wants to think he's right and he's just very unreasonable - the most unreasonable person I know in my life. So, is there any type of person (counselors, therapists, what-not) that he could talk to... that would get rid of this repulsive habit of his? It's just so ugly. Please help me. Thanks for taking your times to read this. Please answer as soon as possible. I've dealt with this problem ever since I was born. Not coughing should be easy for my dad -- when he's sane because it's just not using your stomach energy to push up the -COUGHS- right? Again, please answer me!
People with adult ADHD have to contend with various concentration-related issues. Why would people including friends find them annoying to be around?
This has all to do with the frequency level people with ADHD and ADD live at. 99% of this people do not trust themselves, which make them in a fearfull mode, which makes them non-stop in "flight mode". As a human we can live at different frequencies when we think about energy. Despite the higher energy, this energy is a negative energy. As a human being we are attracted with people who do live a high frequency, like people who are joyfull or loving mode. Someone with ADHD lives most of the time at a lower frequency, which make them not pleasant to be around. Most people with ADHD or ADD have symptoms of depression as well. Just compare it with people who are nervous during public speaking, you get uncomfortable. This is the state of mind most ADD and ADHD are living at. This makes them very creative as well, because they have a continues fear to avoid. This motivates them to take a extra step, to be extra significant, to give more as needed. Because of this high stress level they are really focussed on themselves with shortterm reactions. Can someone with ADHD live at loving frequency? Yes indeed! It has all to do with their focus.. When they just focus about their love, they will be real good people to be around, when they start changing their focus towards their fear again, they will start lowering in their frequency.The best way to get rid of ADHD is to start excersising to control the negative energy and to learn how to focus on goals and dreams. 9 out of 10 times the parents of these people do live very fearfull and negative as well. So this people have been conditioned with a lack of positive focus. Please see here a picture of the frequency we can live at:
Nosy/annoying ex mother in law!?
Here it goes. I recently ended my relationship w/ my son's father, because of lies, cheating and his violent temper. it got to the point where he threw me in the floor once and one time was bout to hit me. Anyways, so now his mom is telling other people that it was my fault, that i was the jealous one and that i was no help to his son on top of other thigns, trying to make him look the victim. It annoys me that my ex would just start lying like that, and tell his mom and her spreading false rumors! I try not to let it go to me, but is frustrating. is like, should i defend myself or ignore them!