I feel like I'm too spoiled?
I don't understand why you don't know what to do. Just stop asking for a crap load of stuff, it's not that hard. You don't need to redo your entire wardrobe, at least not all at one time. And next time special events and holidays come up, just say you don't want anything pricey or expensive like that. And when do eleven year olds wear tank-tops? It's not rocket science, stop asking for things.
Why do i feel like i dont deserve anything?
I feel like I don t deserve to be sad or happy like feel nothing and just suffer.Idk how to really explain it tho I am kinda spoiled by my mother yet I think of the kids on Africa starving and stuff and I m here getting presents,going to school,eat and being lazy.My friends say im so lucky I m really pretty and have a cool room and a nice mother in not that smart in school tbh but yet I just feel like **** about it all the time and idk y..What do u think?.please no rude comments thanks.
How to remedy my spoiled-ness?
It sounds to me like you're a lot less spoiled than you think you are. It sounds to me like you're entering adult-hood, and will be the sort of person a lot of parents would LOVE to have as a child. Perhaps you'll feel better about yourself if you pitch in more around the home, or see if there are any jobs in your area that hire people your age... other than that, you shouldn't be quite so hard on yourself.
Do luxury and the modern style of life lead to spoiled brats who don't deserve the success that comes to them?
More than the circumstances, it is the individual that determines how his or her life should be. I personally don't believe that circumstances matter. Everybody has a choice; they just take cover behind the circumstances they are in to not make those choices. Therefore, if the person in question inhabiting a luxurious lifestyle knows what he needs to do, he might not turn out to be a 'spoilt brat' per se.A2A
Am I spoiled because I have a brand new car at 17?
Everyone seems to be very shocked by the fact that I am 17 years old and I have a brand new car. It's not like I got it just because I asked for it. I am an A&B Student, I don't smoke, drink, go out without consent, or any of the other things that these crazy teenagers are doing these days. I don't pay for the car or the insurance, but I kind of need the car for getting to and from volunteering at the hospital AND I help my mom out a lot by taking my sister to her dance lesson and other places that my mom cannot take her to because she is too busy. On top of that Next year I will be in this program at school where I will have to leave school, and for that I need to provide my own transportation. The reason why my parents bought me a new car is because you don’t have to worry about unknown damage to the car and I will have it for a long time. I see it as an investment, but a lot of my peers see it as me just getting whatever I want. And it’s not like I am rich or anything and I am happy whenever someone else gets something or accomplishes something, so why can’t they be happy for me? Its a 2010 toyota corolla S.
I spoil him should he spoil me to?
I think it's crucial to keep in mind, money isn't the most important part of love. It can create conflict but the love should be whats most important. Maybe he's not spoiling you with material things but try to take note of if he does other things to spoil you. Maybe a walk, a surprise, bringing up a memory. Something the two of you share. When people talk about getting stuck in a house with no electricity being 'romantic' that really comes from knowing if it's real. Being alone, just the two of you. Don't go out, don't go anywhere, don't have sex. See how he reacts. Switch things up a bit. Materialistic spoiling and emotional are two completely different things. Think about it, at the end of the day... which means more? Keep your eyes open, if you're doubting you may have a reason to. Don't jump to any conclusions though, let your love be love and make sure it's what you want. The gifts aside, try to spend a day with him without spending ANY money. Either of you. All you need to give each other, is each other. It's a personal experience though, good luck!
I feel like I don't deserve my girlfriend, she's too good I feel like she deserve someone better than me? How can I be a better person for her?
Frankly, if you keep that attitude, she will end up finding someone better for her.The best way to “be a better person” for someone “better than you” (who is currently with you) is to just be yourself. Yes, the cheesiest, most simplest advice you’ve probably ever heard - be yourself.You see, she only would have gotten with you in the first place if there was something she saw in you to begin with (unless you’re a great pretender… shame shame).So, step 1 - be yourself, followed closely by step 2 - believe in yourself (or believe that being yourself is a good thing).Truly, no one deserves another person. We are not some pampered, spoiled prince/princess that is well overdue our mate.You’ve already earned your girlfriend’s affections - otherwise she wouldn’t be your girlfriend.So since you’ve accomplished one part of a relationship, just be true to her and yourself, and you’ll most likely maintain those affections, no problem.
How can I overcome with this feeling that I don't deserve anything?
Hope is the best answer for you.Every one deserves something good he wish for or he worked hard for.Of course to deserve something you must work hard for it.Suppose you and some of your friend are given group work. You worked hard for it.You did not get credit like others it does not means you don't deserve the credit. But you must hope that you will get credit next time. There is a time I though I do not deserve to read in my school.Because it is a well reputed school and I was the last boy in my school.There is a teacher in the school I respected like my father but one day he insulted me and requested to the principal to kick me out of the school for just getting low mark in his subject.He said if I stay in the school I will faill and schools repution will be lower. I said to him I will do well in the exam and challenged him.The principal said if I do well in my exam I will stay if I do not I will go willingly.I accepted and I worked hard. I scored top mark.I showed them it is not their job to tell what result I deserve it is there job to help me to achieve what I deserve.So work hard to deserve what you wish for.