How can I get any girl I want?
You cannot get every girl because girls like all kinds of boys for different reasons. It's hard to pinpoint all those reasons for every single girl.Some girls might just not like you period. You move on, there's nothing you can do. Sometimes a girl will be all over some dude and you wonder WTF? It’ll defy logic and make no sense.Me and a coworker were out to lunch one day and we saw this girl. She was close to my age. My coworker was 56. She actually made a play for him and completely ignored me and acted as if I didn't even exist. I don't believe this was intentional. She actually fell for him. Why? I have no clue. Maybe because he came across as he had more authority and I came off as I was an intern or his helper or something.Girls fall for men for different reasons: power, authority, looks, money, status, size, etc. You obviously can't cover all categories. I know there are lots of self help sites on dating feeding people bullshit like “it's just attitude”. It is but if she's not genuinely attracted to you in some way, she won't fall for you.I'd conclude by saying:You can't make people like you. It has to happen naturally.
Why do I never get the girl?
Because nice guys finish last. I don't know what the actual meaning of that phrase is but what I do know is that being nice never got anyone anything. Social expectations from a guy is be chivalrous, be a gentleman, be funny, be kind and caring and you will get someone who you could think of spending your life with. But real world doesn't work like that. You can be all of those things and single forever. Because you are not alone, in the end she would have her pick from a dozen of guys, while you had just one. The one. Because all the qualities you have WOULD be held against you if need be. “Aww he's so protective about me.” becomes “Why are you so protective?” Opening a door for her becomes “kiss-ass”. Holding her hands while crossing the road becomes “clingy”. Telling her that a guy is hitting on her becomes “jealous”. Nothing you do or you are is ever good enough if she doesn't want it to be good enough.Point is no other person defines you. A girl is not a object which defines who you are. You might be single till you die but you could be better than those who are in a relationship, if only you stop letting the fact that you are single, turn you into a failure. Men and women are two distant poles of society. Neither of which defines the other one's success. Not everyone can find love. That's the harsh truth. The silver lining is, that's not the ultimate target you were born achieve. A relationship requires two people, but love? Not necessarily. so keep falling in love. Care about people, be kind to everyone. But don't expect anything back. If you are lucky, you will find someone someday and not a day sooner. Expectations hurt.
Why don't I ever get a girl?
That is a very serious situation indeed. Six words for you: Pay attention in your English class. Your personality depends a lot on how and what you speak. Work on the how for now.As for what , I sincerely hope you grow out of the mindset of getting a girl. Strive to become someone they respect.Focus on your studies instead of brooding over how girls talk to you, but are not interested in you.Good luck!
I don't get horny anymore.. (im a girl)?
I'm a 17 year old female, a virgin. I used to get horny all the time/ any time i wanted to.. if i thought about it. Recently, my body just doesn't get horny at all anymore, i do not know why :/ If i masturbate i can still orgasm, but it takes a lot of effort to focus my mind to get turned on while before it was easy Some history over the past few months is: Schooling Pencil in leg for 3 weeks (i fell on it and the doctor didnt know it was in there) SAT in a week In a happy relationship with a guy (5 months) I run almost daily Any ideas what the problem is?
I always want the girl I can't have...?
Why do I always want the girl i can't have? We're friends. We've been friends for a while. We always flirt, call each other late at night and talk until we fall asleep. I just can't help it. I've developed a hugeee crush on her. I can't sleep right now cause all I can think about is her. There are 3 other girls who want to be with me right now, but I just don't want them. I want HER. The pretty hair, the pretty smile, the sound her flip flops make when she walks, her hips swinging side to side. Sorry just wanted to vent. and just in case you were wondering, no I'm not that ***** guy who is afraid of girls and tries to be friends with them, hoping and wishing and praying to the Warcraft gods that one day we will fall in love and live happily ever after. Just this one girl's got my mind tied up. Whatever. If you're reading this, sorry, just wanted to vent. Have a good day.
How do I get a girl's phone number if I don't know her?
I'm a 16 year male old and I'm 5"2 and 126 pounds. I know I'm pretty short but I'm very fit and healthy, I don't have a six pack but I'm athletic looking. I have this problem where I see girl's in the store, at the mall, or just walking down the street and they all look my age it's just that I can't talk to them. I thought loosing some weight getting fit and joining the basketball team at a club would give me more confidence but still no. I also think I have a small penis because it's 3 inches long when flaccid and 5 inches long when erect. is that to small. I'm home schooled so I don't get out that much and I have never had a girlfriend or kiss. I try to go up to girls and ask for their number but i don't know how to approach them, get a conversation stared, or even know what to say. I'm really nervous if they don't like, have a boyfriend, won't get their attention, or they will think I'm stupid. please any of you girls out their answer my question my life depends on this. i really want a girl's compassion in my life i want a first kiss. and also How do you kiss for the fist time?!!
Do you have to be mean just to get a girl or do you have to keep being mean to her in order to keep her?
In a way it probably doesn't really matter, because I can't get a girl being mean or nice. I'm naturally a nice person and when I'm attracted to a girl I want to be nice and sweet to her, but I know that just repels them. I've tried being mean/teasing etc because that's what all the advice says, and I've probably spent about £100 on e-books that teach how to be successful with women and they all say to be mean to them. That's what I try to do but it's so exhausting and unnatural and it wears me out cos I'm having to constantly think, "What can I tease her about? How can I hurt her feelings?" etc. Like I say this doesn't actually work for me - they just get offended and don't want to know me, and insult me back. But on the offchance it worked with some girl, would I be able to be nice and affectionate and sweet to her once I got her? Or would I have to keep pretending to be a mean jerk in order to keep her? And if so, what would be the point? I want someone to love and care for and kiss and make out with and make love to, not someone to abuse. But, if the only way to get any kind of intimate relationship is to be mean I guess I'll have to do that. This is me: bit.ly/whOZJu Am I just so ugly that it doesn't matter whether I'm mean or nice because my looks are too repellent? If so, why does everyone say girls don't care about looks when they clearly do? I'm really angry about being lied to by so many people.
I dont have any game, as far as talking to/ macking girls?
Firstly, Do not use the term 'Mack'. You don't have to have 'game' to get girls, just be genuine, You may earn respect from your mates by getting girls nude pics, but you won't get any respect from the girls. Yes girls like good looking guys who can talk to talk, but in all honesty you just have to be confident and honest, you'll be liked and respected much more by all girls than if you use the 'player' and game attributes because they're just going to think you're another idiot. By the sounds of it though, you want to be another idiot, but you're never going to get anywhere.