She hates my guts and I love her?
I hurt her beyond belief, I manipulated her, I hurt ruined her life. She hates my guts,she sees me as a monster who messed up her whole life, she has every right to, I don't blame her I blame myself. but I love her, I didn't know how to handle her,I didn't know how to show her, I tried to be honest with her she shut me out completely,it was too late, I scare her, but I still love her, I want to take it all away but I can't ,does it make sense at all? I walked away from the mess I created, to leave her alone, to heal, she wants to get over me, she sees me as the worst thing that ever happened to her. this is consuming me, I'm a man who never had a problem I could not handle, never had a mess I could not fix, but I can't mend this. move on they tell me,I get busy, I work hard, I meet other women..yet I still think about her day and night, I dream about her, and I'm too tired.
I hate my moms guts!?
Hi, Don't know if this will help at all but your mom sounds kinda like mine (the excessive over protectiveness, cursing, irrational anger, video games, TV issues) and she's probably feeling a little lost herself or doubting how well she's done as a mother. I know it's hard and it feels like an eternity but you WILL leave home in a few years. She might be desperately trying to shape you into a responsible adult (without what she's calling 'blackness' in your heart) in what she feels is a last ditch effort so she might be taking more extreme measures than she should. Parents are just as often lost or misguided in their efforts as they are right about something. They don't necessarily 'know better' and they are sometimes unstable...but they are most often doing what they see as their best. When you feel like you can't take it any more, try to (I know it's cliche' but sometimes it works) take a deep breath, KNOW that this is only temporary as you'll soon be out of the house, and try to calm your own frustration with your mom. (*being able to calm yourself is a VERY useful skill in life*) If it's within reason, appease her as well as you can. She's probably given up a lot for you but she's dissatisfied with how you've turned out if she's at all like my mom. (That's totally ok...I think most parents are dissatisfied with how their kids and how the whole generation of their kids ages has turned out. She'll probably like you more after you've left home.) Try to be gracious. I know it's hard. Just try. One silver lining is that all that verbal abuse and instability/irrational behavior will make you able to easily withstand the company of just about ANYONE. I know it's done that for me. :) Your mom loves you...she's just a little crazy...but everyone gets a little crazy sometimes. Be the best person you can to your mom! Good luck!
My Best Friend hates my guts?
Ok, so my friend Mia and I hated this guy named Tyler the day before Halloween and we would always bad talk about him thru email. But at my other friend, Dani's, house, me, Tyler, Dani, my other friend (not Mia), and 2 other guys were playing spin the bottle. Me and Tyler kept on getting picked to kiss, and now we really, really like each other, and we're going out. Just now, my Mia sent me an email about how much she hates Tyler, what a jerk he is to her, and how he flirts with every girl within 50 feet (But now of course, its just me). I have no idea what to do or what to say to her. I dont want anyone finding out about us kissing and going out, and i dont trust Mia that well....What do I say to her?
Typical mean girl..........???? oh yeah she hates my guts..........?
So... I don't really get the question but I will try to answer it as best I can. You should talk to the people that she had on her side and tell them what's really going on. They may beleive you they may not. You've just got to trust that you're popular ENOUGH to get some poeple on your side and to help you perswade the people that are on the brats side. Also you can't solve this all on your own. Pray about it. Pray for the brat. She's probubly only treating you like this because she has a bad home life or she just feels bad about herself and wants to make people feel the same way. Here if this helps I'll pray for you to... it's kinda weird to pray over the internet but I will do the best I can. I will also pray for you offline. Here's my prayer for you... Dear, LORD Help this girl. She's going through something and she can't win without you. She needs your grace and your power now. Help her find a way to solve this problem without being mentally or physiclly harmfull. And LORD let this fight end soon. Let these girl's differences be set aside and find a way to get along. And LORD I just ask that you watch over these girls. In Jesus's name Amen I hope that helps bye.
Why is my wife suddenly acting like she Hates my guts? Loses her termper Over everything?
I don't understand what is going on. Over the Past year, my wife has been acting like she's totally insane. Here are a few examples... The other night I came home from work around 8pm, she was watching a movie with my stepson. Our kitchen is connected to the livingroom / movie room. When I came in she said she made hamburgers and grab a hamburger bun... So I start looking for the buns, I can't find them, and I said to her from the kitchen... " Where are the Buns". She jumped out of her seat and started screaming about " THERE RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU YOU DONT SEE THEM!!!" Just went crazy...I was like " hey chill out, i was only asking where the bread was ". Another example. Last Christmas, She was so Mad at me, that she didn't speak to me on Christmas day. Was acting like a B in front of my entire family who flew in from NYC to see us. On top of that, she didn't buy me a Christmas Present. She bought her sister, her sisters husband. Her parents, her brother, and her son a gift. She didn't even hand me a Christmas card.. That hurt my feelings so bad but I didn't say anything. 2 weeks after Christmas We had a big fight, I told her she was out of control, I also pointed how how I was somehow fogotten on christmas day, and how Embarassing that was in front of my family for them to see that she gave me nothing. My wife then called me a " baby" I really don't know what's gotten into her. It's like she Hates me or something. She's so over the top with me. Every little thing she blows a fuse. Also , lately, she has been pushing me away when I try to get her into the mood. I would honestly say that about 60% of the time she pushes me away. She is totally unsympathetic towards me. i just don't know why she's being like this. She is 41 years old. I'm 39.
My boyfriend's Korean mother hates my guts?
Well she's stereotyping you big time just because you are white(she thinks she has an idea of how white girls are). She doesn't seem like a nice person , calling you names just like that. The point is your 'wish' will not be granted, she won't suddenly respect you more what with all the garbage in her mind. You don't need such a negative person to be around you. So, to hell with pleasing his mom. You're really stupid if you can't see that. As for the guy, well ask him to man up and he could tell his mom the things you did for him and it's not just 'puppy love' . But with how she is, it's more like a lost cause. Now here it depends if you wanna be with the guy or not, and whether he can go against his mom for you. Try and find out from your guy, or just leave him.