Answer PLEASE: i Wanna Go Home!!!!?
im 16 and i went on vacation on the 19th of december and i'll be heading back home on the 4 th of januari . I Never though i would say this but i kinda wanna go home . I was so excited to go on vacation jut bc i don't really like it were i live so i was excited to leave . When i went on vacation last year i didn't want to go back home . But i feel sad now . Im on vacation with my brother , my aunt and uncle and we are staying at my aunt and uncle daughters house (so my female cousin) . My other cousins wife came here last week with their kids and stayed until today and i always liked to hang out with her and now that she left the house feels empty and boring and i feel like crying and i feel so depressed and i wanna go home I can't stand my uncle and aunt right now bc they are always arguing or my uncle constantly makes stupid dumb jokes and he keeps looking at everything i do.... i feel sad .....the house feels empty and im also depressed because i have tests next weeks and idk what to do ..:( I hate this feeling . I just feel like sitting in the room and crying until i go home... and the other thing that sucks is that it takes almost a whole day to travel back home !!! ugh
Why don't my parents go visit my brothers grave?
my aunt and uncle (not by blood) lost a twin a month after birth, they buried him said their good byes and never even bought a head stone. some people don't want to bring back the sad memory's, and just try to move on instead. sounds like that's how your parents are handling it. im sure they do care, but don't want to think about it. nothing wrong with that really.
Sometimes I want to cry, but tears don’t fall, and that hurts more instead of the falling tears. Why?
I have had this problem at times when I have needed to suppress my emotions for some period of time. My father died, then my mother died, & I left an awful marriage all while starting a new job & trying to create stability for an 11 & 13 y.o. Falling apart wasn't an option. When I finally felt I could relax & let it out, it wouldn't come.Unfortunately, if you supress your emotions long enough, you can lose immediate access. It took time to acknowledge my grief, & allow my emotions to surface. I saw a therapist.Some simple things to try, & they often work to break the dam if you're almost there, sad songs & movies. What will trigger a release isn't going to be the same for everyone. Some generally tried & true, Terms of Endearment, Prince of Tides, Beaches. I like, Life as a House, 21 Grams, Leaving Las Vegas, Mud, Antwone Fisher, & more.Tell yourself it's okay, you're safe now. Give it time, allow it to happen. Counseling would likely speed things up. I wish you all the best.
Why do I feel like crying when I talk to my father?
Hmm.. there can be a couple of reasons for you to cry thats totally upto you. But if I were to answer this logically, I can say that one cries only when one feels emotional either due to extreme happiness or out of saddness. That leaves me with 2 reasons.1) You must love him very much for something which he did for you. And that may be either a sacrifice or something else that nobody has done for you. 2) Or you must hate him for being so dominant or rude. And trying to impose his thoughts on you which you don't like. Now it's time for you to find out!!!
I want to go to one high school but my parents want me to go to another one. what should I do?
I am in this exact situation right now with my daughter. She is also a 4.0 gpa 8th-grader, and our school district allows parents to request an inter-district transfer to a school other than the one indicated by the location of your home. (In other words, there’s a default area for each school, but you can ask to go to a different one. There are five in the district.)I’m literally going to register my daughter this afternoon, after I post this Answer.In her case, her primary reason for attending a different school is that she believes that most of her middle school friends will be attending that school. All the schools are good academically, but her school of choice has a different approach than our default school.Each school is several miles away from our home. Her older brother attends our default school and is very happy there. He’ll be a Senior when she’s a Freshman, and would be driving her to school. If she goes to the other school, I would have about a 20-minute drive out of my way to take her there each morning. Because it’s not our default school, there aren’t any carpool opportunities that we know of.For the OP, you don’t say why you “know” one high school would be “better for you.” I find it very hard to believe that your parents “don’t care.” Parents are very much in the business of caring about their childrens’ well-being and education. Why does “almost every adult” you see agree with your parents? Have you considered their reasoning, as you are asking them to consider yours?Have your parents spoken with your guidance counselors directly about this? What are your guidance counselors taking into account that your parents (and apparently all other adults) are not?I can completely understand your anxiety about this. In addition to the situation I’m in with my daughter right now, when I was your age my mom wanted to send me to an all-boy school in another town because she thought it was “better” for me. I was able to convince her not too, but it was an anxious time for me, too.I think your best course of action would be to arrange a meeting with you, your parents, and your guidance counselors, to discuss the potential pros and cons of each school, and then to go with your parents to the two high schools to speak with representatives there about it. It may be that one school or the other is not as good a fit, and you can make your decision together with better information.
My parents want to send me to an all girl school!?
im in an all girls school and it isnt as bad as ur making it sound like but girls always spread romours everyday about each other and bully other girls so u have to just ignore em. but some r really really nice so im sure ull be ok. but if u want to go to a mixed school try to talk to your mum calmly and tell her that ud rather be in a mixed school rather than an all girls school. gd luck
How can i embarris a girl who embarresed me. i wanna make her cry, she sent a picture around of me?
Who's fault is it that you took a picture of your chest or let someone take one? How did she get it? You have to understand that once that picture is out there, anyone can get it. Even your mom. Maybe you should stop blaming her and keep your shirt on.
Why do I feel like crying but can't?
Hello, thank you for requesting this question.Although there can be multiple reasons for this state to occur. But a few reasons that I can hold accountable for this state are:A lot of times sadness is accompanied by physical excursion and a sense of fatigue. So the person gets so mentally drained that there is not enough energy left in the body to cry the emotion out.There is a cognitive barrier that is scared of the intensity of emotion that you kept at bay, thus you are holding back (suppressing) either the emotion or the cause.The solution to the above mentioned emotional state is complete acknowledgement of your emotions. Although it is not impossible to fully acknowledge your emotions on your own but a little assistance from your near and dear ones could be of help.3. You might have come across a very traumatic event (extreme grief). Usually there are five stages of grief which leads to the acceptance phase. If a person is stuck in one of the phases, emoting emotion can become difficult.4. In my understanding, crying is not a saturation of an emotion. There are emotions that are so intense that they transcend into something more deeper than tears. If your sorrow is to hard to handle then professional guidance is necessary.
Have your parents ever told you to stop crying before they give you something to cry about?
Yes. This is something that happens occasionally.My mum was the first person to make me insecure. She said things about my appearance and about who I am. She compared me to everyone who were extraordinary and expected me to be like them or got upset or mad at me for not being like them. She always thinks that thinks that she doesn’t do are wrong.So as I became a teenager, I started taking her insults personally and anything that was a joke or an insult from people in school seriously.As she said things to me and my sisters like “I wanna kill all of you and leave. ” She told me “I didn’t know that I gave birth to someone like you. ” “Get out of this house, I don’t want to live under the same roof as you”(There are things she made me do but I don’t wanna get into detail)There’s also physical stuff but i don’t wanna talk about that.I started getting very distant from my family and like after a year of that change. She wanted to talk to me. My entire family was around me when she started asking questions like why are you like this, why can’t you be normal.How tf did she expect me to open up to her when she was the one who made me like this. How did she expect me to speak when everyone was staring at me.I tried to, but I couldn’t speak, my voice was stuck like if I said a word I would break down full on.But she kept pressuring me and was ready to beat me up so I spoke and broke down. She started screaming at me to stop crying or else she’ll beat me up and never gives me privacy to get myself together.** I know this is literally nothing and I’m being over-dramatic but I just needed to get these things out.