My parents' fighting?
My parents have been fighting since before I can remember. Ever since my brother and I were toddlers, (I'm now 16). It has been this way my whole life. They used to fight almost everyday when I was younger, and I was very afraid. My dad has an EXTREMELY loud voice, the kind of voice you can hear from anywhere in the house, even if he's just talking. And he has pretty bad anger issues. So when he yells, it's bad. He's thrown things before, and once, he broke her nose and kicked our cat across the room. Sometimes they have started fights around us, and sometimes they haven't. But I could always hear them, and since I was afraid, I'd always go near them because I was afraid that he would hurt her if I didn't. It may not have been very rational, but I did it because I figured if there was a witness, he wouldn't. A lot of the time, he would tell me why they were fighting and try to involve me. He's moved out four times, but he always ends up coming back, like he has now. What can I do about this, like really? What can I legally do to stop this? They ruined my childhood, and emotionally damaged me. I can't talk to them about it. It won't change anything, and he isn't the type to reason. I just wanna know what else I can do. Please?
My parents are fighting?
My parents have never fought for this long before. They always have it worked out by now. They've been fighting for over a week. My parents are both upset all the time. I hate it. ITS CHRISTMAS EVE!!!!! They shouldn't be yelling at each other all the time. I'm used to going to my parents whenever I have a problem or need to talk. But now my parents are the problem. I just don't know what to do. All of my friends have gone out of town for the holidays, and even if they were here, I can't call them on Christmas Eve to talk about my problems! They don't want me calling them during the day for that, OR for at ten-o-clock when they're keeping me awake. I just need help...from anyone...
What do you do when your parents are fighting?
It gives me a weird stomachy feeling, and i get really scared when i listen to them yell. so i have no other choice but to call my brother(he's 25) to come & pick me up,every time. How do you teens handle your parents fighting?
My parents are always fighting, what should I do?
My parents had been fighting since I was a kid. I am 23 now and they still argue every single time. As a teenager, I know there was nothing that I can do. So I made the decision to go to boarding school during high school and now I am studying at oversea university just to get away from them. Don't get me wrong, I love them very much but constantly being in the middle of a fight, I just can't take it anymore. My brother is 13 and I am really glad that he is going to boarding school. It is his own decision and I actually feel sorry for him because I had to left him when I was in high school. We are very close to each other but I had never talk to him about our parents. I'm just waiting for the good time and I believe at these age, he can handle serious discussion. The only peaceful moments that I had at home are mostly the time that I spent with him without my parents. We love to go out just to eat ice cream ,went shopping or just watching cartoons at home. I really miss him. Back to my point, being away from my parents and house is really working for me and I enjoy not having someone arguing with each other 24/7.
How do I deal when my parents fight?
Whoever you are , I really feel sorry for you. You and I are pretty much in similar situation only difference is I am 23. I will try my best to help you regarding this matter .No matter what your parents are not going to listen to you , now only their problems their solution matter to them. I have seen my parents fighting all through my life. I will tell you what I did and I can say it worked a bit for me. One day I broke down completely and when both my parents were at home i explained them my situation. I told them I no longer take this pain as it is affecting my life. I told them I am not able to concentrate in any kind of activities as their fight is the only thing which bothers me all time. I showed them what kids of my age are doing like participating in different activities , going for trips, performing better at academics and how their parents encourage their kids leaving aside all their problems. I also told them I really cant live this kind of situation at home and be normal like other kids. I asked them to either stop their fights or they are just ruining their kid life.This has some effect on their fight. They stopped fighting . My parents began to understand the value of family . My parents now rarely have any argument . They understood that its affecting me and their personal life too. They understood that at last only family matters and nothing comes before that. This answer may not help you to solve the problem , but this is what you can do to make things better . Explain your parents about you. when they have a family its not everytime about them , its about you too. You too have a life ,you too are par of the family.
How do I deal with parents who fight all the time? My parents argue over trivial things. Mom has a temper, blames people, and controls everyone. She compares us with others, saying how good they are. Dad is too stubborn to apologize, and has an ego.
There is nothing you can do about your parents' fighting. Believe me. I spent years wondering what I could do.The only thing that you can do is get some space from it. It is not likely that their relationship is going to change unless they decide to change it. It's not up to you or your siblings to change them and trying will just make it all the harder for you to disengage from this very toxic dynamic in your family.It's time to grow more independent of your family and seek more sane and peaceful relationships for your own life. These dynamics have a way of creeping up into your own relationships simply because you have been in the midst of them for years. You need to know that and begin to become as conscious as you can about thinking about and having good communication in your life.Decide how you would like to proceed in creating a different energy in your life from the one that your parents have created. Get some help for this. Over time, you will create your own set of relationships that are based on healthier, more loving values. If that becomes your goal, you will begin to beat the stress and move forward in a new direction. Just don't spend your life getting stuck in their dynamic- unless you want to create such drama in your own life.