I feel so lonely and unloved...?
I am 15. I am a freshman in high school. I am very different from normal teenagers. VERY different. I am a very sympathetic person. if someone needs someone to talk to about emotional problems, i will always help. over the past 5 years i have searched for a friend who i could talk to about me depression. i feel so lonely. alone...in this rotten world. People make fun of me for being different. i am a little overweight. and i sit kind of strangely because if i sit normally, i get very uncomfortable. i am very quiet, but if somone tries to be my friend, i show my gratitude. I want someone who feels my pain. who knows what it feels like. i had one friend recently who i thought was that person. she talked to me about her suicidal thoughs and her anorexia. and i listened. i helped. i did not judge. i said everything would be alright. she said she would be here for me too if i needed her. one day i DID need her, and she turned her back on me the second i needed her. she told me she only wants "Happy Friends". THEN WHAT THE HELL!? I HELPED YOU, AND YOU STABBED ME IN THE BACK!. ive been stepped on by everybody. nobody has spared me their mockery. and now, all i feel i want to do is hurt those who have wronged me.... i know hurting people is wrong...somthing is just pushing me to feel like i want to hurt them.. i want revenge against those bastards who hurt me. who betrayed me... i dont have a single real friend... i lay awake and cry every night necause i am so lonely... am I going insane? I hate those people who hurt me!! HATE THEM!! is this normal? what do i do to stop all these murderous thoughts? am i crazy? PLEASE help me...
I feel alone and unloved and ready to just give up. What can I do to feel better, stop crying, and feeling so much distress and pain?
It sounds like you need to seek counseling and maybe even medication for depression or anxiety (whichever the doctor diagnoses). If you’ve got a close friend that you can trust, you might talk to them but I’d recommend family first. Talk to your Mother, Father, spouse/boy/girlfriend while also setting an appointment to see a psychologist (can’t prescribe medication) or psychiatrist (can prescribe medication). I’d recommend family first before a friend because they truly have a vested interest in seeing you well. Not to say that friends don’t love you but I do believe that “blood is thicker than water”. I don’t know your age but there’s been plenty of cases where a teenager confides in another teenager only to get hurt worse. You just need to be very careful who you confide in and why you are confiding in that person. I prefer a mental health professional because they’re trained in dealing with these types of issues and there’s patient/doctor confidentiality.
Why am i alone and feel unloved?
I have lived my life as, what i thought, a good person was to live a life. But day bt day I have friends leave and no longer wish to speak to me. I would do anything for my friends, and now my own family yells at me more and demands me to do things. Did I do something wrong? am I truly not a good person as I thought I was? I tried being what everyone wanted and hated it. So now, when i try to be me, im alone. I begin to see myself as the bad guy and cry myself to sleep more often because i feel so lonely and have the crippling feeling that I dont nor ever will have someone to love. If one cannot keep friends, how can one keep a spouse? any advice would be nice. I really just need someone to talk to its pathetic, I know
Would you rather feel alone & unloved OR inadequate & disrespected?
Do you walk to school or carry your lunch?? I'm not quite certain what your question is asking, or whether you are asking for anything at all. Sounds to me as if you've read one too many "Mars Venus" books, listened to too many Dr. Phil shows, or you haven't a clue what your actual problem is. If you are alone, that doesn't necessarily mean you are unloved. Being alone does not make you a pariah--it just means you are by yourself---and don't you love yourself? Being inadequate and disrespected?? My goodness, who holds the yard stick to measure those things. Are you being disrespected because of you inadequacies or are you inadequate being you're being disrespected? Your question is so broad that it reminds me of someone asking the molecular weight of the shuttle while it's under water in the desert. There is no helpful answer to this particular question.
I feel alone and unloved and I am in a relationship. How do I bring up to my partner how sad and unhappy I am?
I'm alone. You're alone. Every single human being on this earth is alone.We're born alone. We live life alone. Company is an illusion. A beautiful and necessary illusion, but an illusion all the same.‘When you fall, you fall alone.’ -Grateful DeadThe only person who can make you feel less alone or not alone at all, is yourself.There is no two ways about it.If you tell your partner that they are not making you feel like you're not alone, you'll destroy your relationship. You will be expecting something from it that it cannot possibly give.It is not up to your partner to make you feel less lonely.It is up to you to befriend yourself. It is up to you to start taking responsibility for your own entertainment. It is only you who can possibly take responsibility for it and no one else.Instead, you are being lazy and seeking to dump this responsibility on someone else, who is also trying to deal with the same thing.Because here's the thing, everyone is working on taking responsibility of themselves. You have no right to assign them the responsibility of making you feel less lonely.You are responsible for you. Learn that. Live that.
I'm feeling unwanted, unloved, lonely?
I'm 14 and going to 8th grade. My parents say they love me but I never felt close to them. My dad works out of the state and was never here when I was little and is currently using my mom. My mom tries to be close to me. She really does but I don't know. My parents don't get along. They fight and argue a lot. My dad has left us. He had really bad anger issues. My mom wanted to take her car to work but my dad wanted to take it to the store and she asked if she could use it and he said sure. And when my family was going somewhere my mom said we could go in the car and he got super mad and said he was never touching that car again and stormed out the house. The one thing in my life is turning out how my parents did. When I hear them fight I wish they would get a divorce so it would all just stop. Is this wrong? They have both lied to me a lot so I barley trust them. I have friends but I grow father away from them with each day. They were never the best friends. They are kind of mean and stuck up and attention whores (especially 2 of them). I only really like one of them. And she lives across the country. I want a real friend so bad. It just kills me. I never had a boyfriend(one in 5th grade but it was nothing and he cheated on me. Then fell off my trampoline and broke his arm. haha.). I fell like all the guys think I'm weird. I liked one guy for seven years. He just left my school. He never showed interest in me but he did for my "best friend". He was just so perfect. I just want a boy who is not only my boyfriend but my best friend. I want one that loves me for me and not my looks. And yet, every day I try to be happy. I try. I really do. I must be a good actress because no one seems to know. I have a small school, only about 16-20 people in each grade. I don't know why I feel like this. Please help. Talking to my parents isn't a good idea. No matter what you say I will not. I won't see a specialist. Again you can't change my mind. PLEASE help! Sorry if its long.
A good song about being alone and unloved?
So, I'm in grade 8. Never dated a guy because I'm what people call me "emo"or "goth" and no one has ever liked me(except my arch nemisis) and I am very sad. I need a song about no one ever loving you, or about being to shy to get the person you love, or simply about being alone. And i know i seem young but today everyone at a party was so shocked that I've never grinded with a guy at a dance... (i thought that was absurd too) I feel so upset and i think if i found my song then i could have a good cry, Thanks for the help! Sally. PS i dont label myself as anything. i prefer to think i have my own style.
I feel unloved and unwanted?
I don't know if this would help but i'm Male and 17 I have friends, i have great parents but i still feel so alone and depressed in this world i don't feel like people care about me or even want me to be around, no one has ever asked if i was okay and if i try to talk to someone they try to avoid me, i question if my life is even worth it i mean i like myself as a person i like the way i am but i don't like the pain i feel everyday and the question i just have is, what should i do? iv tried a psychiaist but that doesn't work, and if you have been through this, how did you fix it?
What do you when your boyfriend makes you feel lonely and unloved?
I know i’m not a woman here, but i hope i can speak up for men generally. Sometimes, that does not mean that he is not being serious or that he lost that affection towards you. In some cases, yes, but not all. Most of the relationship issues i came across has this 1 thing in common - Lack of communication. If you feel lonely and unloved, sit down with him and talk to him. Discuss the issues and the unpleasant emotions you feel with him.Sometimes, our emotions cloud our judgement and reasoning and we tend to jump to the obvious conclusion but that might not always be the case. As a man myself, a bad day sometimes can render myself restless and unmotivated and these things will affect the people around me. Of course, only you will know what is really going on.Try to talk to him and let him know that you’re not feeling the love you are supposed to from him. In my personal opinion, always put break ups as the last resort because every relationship is beautiful in it’s own way and it is never easy to meet someone who can make your heart flutters. Only consider it when you have put all your efforts into making it better and it is still not working.