I feel as though no one...?
"You can only depend on yourself. The cavalry ain't coming."-Chris Gardner. I've come to realise that quote is very true. You can not let these feelings get to you by learning to love yourself. That's the most important thing you can do. Don't depend on others for your happiness, if you do, if they let you down or they abandon you you'll be left with nothing. Treat yourself well, achieve your goals and get the things that you want from life. Try to make new friends, people you can rely on. By becoming happy in yourself it will also help you to meet people who will enhance your life as generally people are drawn to happy people. People are often scared to let someone into their life if they feel that they will be damaging and bring them down. We cared about you enough to answer your question, so you are not alone :)
I feel alone, like no one understands me?
In the developmental psychology of an adolescent the prefrontal cortex of the brain is not fully developed. This start to finish around the late 20's however this leads to feelings that you are exhibiting very frequently around the middle of puberty, it is an anomaly. The truth is that most teenagers feel the same way, it is not just a saying of a cultural or societal thing that "just is", it is actual chemical signals in your brain telling you that there is no logical way that someone could understand you.
I feel as if i have no one to rely on, no one who ever really gives me a boost when I need it...?
You can skip down to the part in brackets if you don't want to read all this. I have a few friends, but they don't ever let me just hug them and cry when I need to, they're not those type of people. No one really understands me. There are a few people I know who would do that for me and sincerely care and have my back, but they each live a long distance from me. It's hard to keep in touch when we're so far. Phones don't seem to help me connect with them well. Being with them in person is when everything works out. I don't mean to sound desperate-even though I might be a little- but I've been wanting a boyfriend ever since my life starting getting worse. I want a guy who will help me through everything and care and just make me feel loved, because I feel empty (a good guy friend would be fine with me, too). I have a TON of friends who are girls, but I am finding myself talking to my guy friends more often, and i dont really know why. But all the other guys my age are either extremely immature, or too egotistic and perverted to care about anything besides being popular and cool (they're sorta the same things, really) [[I just dont know how to put my thoughts into words, it's just a negative feeling of lonliness because of the lack of support. I also have low self-esteem. Any help would be good...thankss And im sorry if what i typed makes no sense, it's so difficult to describe exactly how I feel and such. Thanks for your time]]
Sometimes i feel like no one would care if i died...?
I've been really depressed the past couple weeks, and lately i've been having suicidal thoughts. Because i just feel like none of my friends care about me. They always go out and do stuff with other people but never think to invite me. And, my boyfriend...where do i start? He lives about 20 minutes away from me, but we only get to hang out once a week [ if we're lucky ] because he has alot of homework and he's ALWAYS hanging out with friends! He hangs out with his friends every weekend and does all this stuff with them. But only see's me maybe once a week! Sometimes i feel like if i killed myself no one would care... and i just don't know what to do! I feel like i have no one to talk to. Not my mom. Not my boyfriend who i talk to about everything. And not even my friends. What should i do?
Sometimes I feel that I have no one to share my problems with. What should I do?
You can share your feelings with yourself only. Really ! Believe me. Take atleast 30 minutes to ask yourself about your problems and answer of what you think about it. It could help you to low down your regression. And after all never become upset that people can not understand your feelings. Only you can understand your feelings much better than anyone else. Always believe in yourself and never let yourself to low down your self-confidence. Cause in blissful situation everyone used to enjoy with us and stand by our side but when comes in gloomy situation, everyone leave us as nothing, that time who's always there to stand by on our side is only our family and ourselves. Even best friend with whom we had golden memories, our friendship cards, our childhood memories, our giggling and all that they'll also forget everything and leave us when we come with this terrible situation. Next time, the same situation will not occur if you will not TRUST this much at your friends or anyone else except your family. Consider everyone your friends but never consider them best friends. Cause Best friends are those who always there by your side no matter what. They will always give you the right advice and take you to the right path. They'll always stand for you in your ups and downs. If these qualaties can be noticeable by you, then only you can consider her as your best friend. At the moment, you should realize that only you can understand your feelings and only you can make yourself strong enough to handle the pain. Because only you can recover your broken heart and find it's broken pieces to get your life back. Gud luck ! Hope this would help you .. :)
I feel like no one needs me and I have lost my purpose in life. Is this normal?
If you ask me, I would say this is very common but not normal. I have been through it multiple times.This is a phase of depression. Yes, no one needs us in real because we are looking for people who are capable enough to need us. Why? I mean, why should we waste time and energy in running behind capable-people to need and love us?Look out for the people who are in “real” need like orphans or abandoned kids who do not even know anything about life and world yet.Look out for the people, who are mentally or physically disabled, handicapped and they need your help and support.Look out for people who are very sick, terminally ill and yet living for them is very important because they might have a purpose in life.Look out for people who are extremely poor, homeless, cannot afford two meals a day for themselves and they have a family to support!You do not need to give any money to these people, just spend some time and help them in person. Try to be there emotionally, if you can. Hear them say. See, how much love you will get from the needy.May be if you do this, you will eventually find your purpose to live. You will be amazed how with limited resources, needy people live happily and they only struggle is existence.We need to find happiness within ourselves.Think about it.Good luck and take care!