I rear ended someone and now feel AWFUL!?
So me and my dad were driving on our way to the video store to return some movies and there was a pool by the road and there was these hot guys in it. We were amazed and the pool and i was lookin at the guys and well you probably see where Im going with this but I didnt stop in time and hit the person in front of me. I just dented the border around my liscence plate and left a dent in the back of her van. Nobody got her. The lady wasnt mad, the police officer wasnt mad. The lady actually called me sweetheart and said she knew i felt terrible. Ive never been in a car accident before and I cried so hard after is happened. I thought my parents would hate me but they said its okay and it can happen to anyone and my dad said hes been in accidents before to. I have to pay a $30 ticket and obviously to get her van fixed. I told some of my friends and they said its okay it was just an accident its not the end of the world, but I FEEl SO AWFUL!! I feel like Im not the same now. Im probably just being dramatic but still, it just is a crummy feeling. My friends said because Im a good person I feel terrible about possibly endangering someones life. Can anyone please help me feel better? :( No rude comments please I already feel like ****!
When someone asks you how you're doing and you're feeling awful, what should you say?
On most occasions someone asking how you are doing is a courtesy and greeting rather than a desire to get an in-depth recap of your current state of affairs. This is not an opportunity to go into specifics about any illness you may be experiencing or emotional issues you are dealing with. Etiquette dictates that you reply in a short meaningful way that shows appreciation for their interest.For example: "I am a little under the weather to day, but expect to be back to 100% soon. Thank you fro asking. How are you doing?" If "under the weather" is not a common idiom:"Honestly, I am not feeling well, but expect to fully recover soon. I appreciate you asking. How have you been doing? If you are feeling awful emotionally then try: " I appreciate you asking. I am a bit out of sorts today. It has been a trying week, but these things always pass. How have you been doing?"
How do you help someone who’s feeling bad and won't tell you what's wrong?
Well, a persons reasons for not talking could be many many things, so the first thing is that you should not take it personally that they won’t reveal what is going on. Make it clear that you are friends whether they tell you everything on their mind or not.The second thing is to consider whether you want to make the third statement, which is has serious ramifications - it could put you in a difficult position of wanting to help but your friend not wanting to do what you think is best. Being a good friend can sometimes be risky or difficult. You must consider these things carefully without knowing the whole story. It can be tough to reach out to hear something personal, and then have to decide to break that trust. Do so with careful consideration.The third thing is to say to them in private - Look, I don’t know what is going on, but I want you to know I feel something is upsetting you, and that if you told me, I would only listen and understand and be the best friend I can to you.I hope this helps.
Why do I feel sad over someone else's pain?
If you like someone seeing them in pain is painful to you as well because you don't want them to have that pain. It's your brain telling you to act so as to improve the situation of the other person, so that you in turn are happier. Often this emotion misfires, though, and isn't accurately keeping track of what you consciously think is good and bad and what is solvable and what is chronic.
I cheated on my boyfriend and I feel awful?
I got stupid drunk and pecked someone else on the side of their lips and after that I had my hand in their leg and went up his leg I feel absolutely awful I can not tell my boyfriend is was a pathetic one time thing that will never happen again and it will ruin us I love my boyfriend so much I really want to kill myself right now He’s the love of my life I don’t know why I did that
I'm "catfishing" someone and feel really awful about it?
First off - I don't usually do things like this, but sometimes I get a little bored with my life and thought it might be fun to pretend I'm someone else. I was on omegle, and a guy asked me what I looked like. I lied and said I'm a cute half asian girl, and then he asked to see me so I made a fake profile and we chatted on it. He asked me for photos of myself and I sent pictures that aren't me. I know this is so mean and wrong, but I thought he was just an internet creep. He's actually a real teenage guy, and now I feel really mean. I'm actually a 16 year old girl, so I'm not trying to hurt him or creep on him, but I would never have done this if I knew he was a nice person. What should I do? He wants to hang out in the summer. I feel like such a mean person and really don't want to hurt him. :( I know I must sound like such a beotch, but what do I do? I just can't live with myself pretending to be someone else and having him fall for it and "me". Help?
I feel so bad about my dog getting spayed someone help me feel better!?
...Are you serious? Yes, being spayed is good for your dog. Especially if you don't want her having a bunch of puppies you don't have the time, money, or room for. She won't feel the need to roam as much (because she won't feel the need to look for a male dog) and since she won't have heat cycles, male dogs won't be tearing up your yard or fence trying to get to her. Being spayed actually lets female dogs lead longer healthier lives because it reduces the risk of mammary gland tumors, ovarian and/or uterine cancer, in some cases the risk is eliminated entirely. Do yourself a favor and spay your dog.
7 weeks..i feel TERRIBLE...HELP! =(?
That is exactly how I felt for most of the first trimester. Try hard candies (I found cherry lifesavers to help) for the nausea and ginger ale. Lots of small meals also tend to help . . . too much food at one sitting contributes to the nausea. Be sure to take your prenatal vitamins, too. The good news . . . it gets better in the second trimester - I felt significantly better right around week 13. Best wishes for a happy & healthy pregnancy!