What can I do when my friend ignores me?
I've been through it very recently. My friend suddenly stops talking to me altogether one day. For a day or two, I thought she was having mood swings. But then, when I observed that she was normal to others but me, I went to her and asked her several times the reason behind her behavior. For a few times, she said I'm over thinking when clearly, I wasn't.Then, one day, when she still continued the same and I couldn't take it anymore, I sent her a long text saying everything I was dying to (I texted her because she wasn't answering my calls and we weren't able to meet due to our break). The next morning, she called me up and gave me an explanation behind why she was doing what she was doing.The reason she was ignoring me was, a third person told her that I was bitching about her (which I never did, because she was a really good friend of mine and I wouldn't do that to her ever). Then things got clear and now we are doing great again.So my point is, maybe someone told your friend something which might be true or false. You should go, talk to that person, and try your best to get an explanation. Because nobody does anything without a valid reason.Also, if your friend is of opposite gender, then maybe he/she feels something for you and that's why they're ignoring you.Whatever the case is, just go, talk to your friend if he/she really matters. I'm sure you wouldn't want to lose a friend just for another lame reason. :)
My best friend never cares about me. What should I do?
The real problem is not, that your best friend ‘never cares about me’.The real problem is that you consider somebody, who never cares about you to be your best friend. There is no such thing as a best friend, who does not care about you, because SOMEBODY WHO DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU IS NOT AND WILL NEVER BE A FRIEND!You should take a serious look at your definition of friendship. At your life. Did you have many friends? Were they interested in you? Did they take you, your feelings, your opinions seriously? Were they there for you. when you were in trouble? Did they cover your back?Have you enough self esteem? Enough self confidence? Do you feel worthy of REAL friendship?These are very important questions! Because if I feel like a piece of shit, chances are I will attract people (friends, partners) who will treat me like a piece of shit.My quote friends unquote will borrow money from me and never pay me back.My nymphomanic partner will have sex with my friends.Trying to change all of them will not do! I will have to work on my self esteem. I will need to learn, that I am worthwhile. That I truly deserve real friendship and love.I suggest you look for a professional caregiver to work on this problem.Changing people who humiliate you and who do not care for you is not the problem.You either let people into your life, or you do not.If people hurt you in a fake friendship, it is not a friendship at all, and you should break off contact and work on your self esteem.Greetings and I wish you strength!Robert.
Im 13 and all my friends are thinner than me!!?
Im 13 and all my friends are quite a bit thinner than me. I only want to eat three healthy meals a day and hopefully loose a bit of weight but when i get hungry, b4 i no what i am doing im in the kitchen cuboard eating chocolate or cake!! i dont want to snack but i cant help myself. Please give tips on how to controll myself! x x x
Accidentally got stabbed in the leg tonight, with a steak knife. . .What to do?
Ummm, go to a doctor anyways. Why on Earth would you not go to the hospital? For one you need stitches and for two you are going to need a tetanus shot. If not you can develop tetanus and die. Yes DIE. It can cause you to suffocate, it causes many neurological symptoms. You really do need to see a doctor, the only reason I could imagine why you wouldn't go to a hospital is that you have a warrant for your arrest, you aren't a U.S. citizen, you are breaking the law in some way or you can't pay the bill. lol Megs. . .I don't have a warrant for an arrest, I was born and raised here in Roanoke, Va. . .So I am a U.S citizen! I didn't and haven't broken the law in any way. And I can't pay the bill or whatever, because I'm 18 and don't have a job, but my family could. . .lol!
What do you do if people are bullying your girlfriend?
my girlfriend ashley, goes to an alternative highschool i go to the regular highschool at the moment . so i can't handle this myself all the time let me explain about three guys are just a**holes to her they call her fat,ugly,demonic she's very sensitive and to top it off this guy told her "If you hit me , ill fight you back like i would a man" now who in the hell says that to ANY WOMAN? it frustrates me so much this happens constantly what do i do!? my options 1. call the office 2.Head over there and beat some a** 3.well those are my options i would love the 2nd
Feel stupid, lack knowledge, confidence. Help!?
In my lifetime I have learnt that you can either choose to know a little bit of everything or have in depth knowledge of a few choice topics. I have also learnt that if you don't know something then just subtly repeat what they say even when you have no clue what they're talking about. For example with the wines ask them what their favourite dry wine is or if they say Chardonnay is a great dry wine, then later on in the conversation repeat it, honestly it works, but remember to word the sentence differently like personally I enjoy a glass of Chardonnay it is one of the best dry wines in my opinion. In conclusion wing it when you're not sure what to say!