Why do i feel empty inside?
Dude, you know what you need? You need to not give a sh*t. I was exactly like you and I was worried too but some time ago I realized: "F*ck, this is ME, I'm not going to get any friends by being stuck here, I might as well go outside, and meet my friend's friends and act like myself." Just act like yourself, say what you think without having second thoughts. I know "it sounds easy but it really isn't". Of course it isn't, but that's the challenge right? Maybe you shouldn't open your mind and heart all at once but do it gradually. Just do whatever you feel like you wanna do, cause there's only one you and one life and its best to regret doing something than to regret never trying anything. It's also possible that in the beginning you won't be accepted by some people, but that's life you know? People are different and think different and you should learn to appreciate people for that. I have two friends who are like EXACT opposites, but they're both my friends, and they're friends with each other too cause they (and I) have learned to treasure people for who they are, deep inside of them, and people who can do that are the only people that are actually worth it.
I am completely dead inside, why?
Please help me, i hope there are some good Psychologists on here that can give me some good answers, i'll put it simply, i don't feel emotions, i am completely dead inside and i've been like this for as long as i can remember, i don't feel things like Love, Happiness or any other emotions at all, i can't cry, even if i try to, all i feel is emptiness, i have aspergers, schizoid personality disorder and i am very narcissistic, although my narcissism is just defensive really......i am numb/dead/empty whatever you want to call it, when family members are ill or dying i don't feel anything i don't feel sad for them, why is this? and no i'm not a Sociopath or a Pyschopath or anything like that, i personally think God is responsible but anyway please help me and tell me how i can feel emotions?
My gf dumped me a month back. I feel completely empty inside and I am working alone in a new city away from my family and friends. I have cat exam next month and I am not able to focus. What should I do?
So you want to spoil your life for that girl who spoiled precious time of your life ?Man just think that you have learned a lesson and that was past and CAT is rest of your life. Girl can come again in your life but this time will never come back. So I want to give you a example :-When you go to market or mall say you want to purchase a shirt . What will you do ?You will first check out the shirt in all show rooms first and then you will select that one that is more suitable for you and is according to your desire and is in your budget. So if I compare this with the life then how can you say that girl was perfect for you ? You still have to see the world.Just clear CAT and get admission in a good college and get placed in good company then see you will be having a lot more better options than that girl.Show to that girl that it was her biggest mistake of life to dump you.See man I just always say one thing that :Give your best in that thing which is in your hand and leave the rest on your fortune. You will get which is meant for you and you will not get after so much efforts if it is not for you.In Hindi better understandable:Aapke haath mein Jo hai usme apna best do baaki apni kismat pe chod do because Jo zindgi mein milna hai vo mil kr he rahega and agr nahi milna to chahe laakh koshish krlo vo tunhara nahi hoga.So man if that girl is made for you she will definitely come to your life again but at this time your life is at stake do your best in Cat.And yes you will surely get lot better girl than that one beleive me it happens and this is reality of life.
How can one feel completely empty inside when a friend suddenly stops talking?
You may not have been as aware of this as you are now, but this friend of yours seems to have held a high level “go to" value in your ego consciousness. If you feel completely empty, as you say, then it also sounds like there is very little else there to take his/her place. A go to is a person place thing activity etc that is embedded in the initial layers of your consciousness, like a touchstone. So as you go through events and mood states throughout your day you process alot of this stuff by referencing it to your go tos. So throughout the day you think, “ wonder what friend would think of this", “what would friend do in this situation", “I wish friend were here to see this", “i cant wait to tell friend about what happened to day" Heres the thing , your go to must nourish itself on its counterpart in the real world. If that counterpart disappears or is no longer accessible then the way you process your thoughts and feelings is gonna take a hit, like getting a flat tire. As you know one flat tire is all it takes to completely ground a car. But you can't afford to stay grounded youve got things to take carevof like everyone else, so now your driving with a flat, and that will produce anxiety which can be synonymous with emptiness. I would need to know a little more about the situation to give you advice on how to proceed from here. Do you know why the silence all of sudden? Is it something you know is your fault? Do they ever come to you and tell you about things in their life? And if so do you listen, or is it all about you, you, you?
Sometimes i feel dead inside?
Chill out. It will get better if you let it
I feel really empty inside? really numb and lifeless---?
I've been feeling this way since I was 12. I know I'm depressed, but I don't feel sad or in pain anymore, just lifeless. Like I blocked all m feelings away.. I don't know how to cope with emptiness. I want to overcome this by myself. I don't want a doctors' help nor medicine nor any other thing, I know this is silly and stubborn of me but I want to overcome this myself. I mean how can someone I don't know help me? And medicine only changes the way I think and feel, but it won't erase all the memories and all the thoughts.. but anyways thanks everyone for the suggestions and advice.,all your answer really helps.
I feel completely numb and dead inside after a horrible breakup 6 months ago. I had all the other emotions before that. Is this normal to feel?
Very normal. I feel numb as well. Like I dont give a shit anymore in this life. But you need to move on.Life is too beautiful my friend. I will tell you one example.Suppose you get up one day and see this:Would you like to explore the place? jump into the lake and have fun? Imagine doing with the people you care and friends you love. How do you feel?Life has many things to give. Break is never easy. I felt like dying after my breakup as well. It was horrible. And I was alone. The “friends” I thought I had , left me alone. So this moment also teaches you a lot of things. Maybe you need to analyse like me things which you did not when you were in your relationship.Time to let it go - The Film Isn't Over YetAnd then just move on. One day you will look back and will be thankful to what happened. Because if someone doesn’t care about you and leaves you, they dont deserve you. But imagine how life will be when you are with someone who actually loves you and cares about you and is ready to do anything for you. Wait for this day. Until then take care of yourself and your family and work on yourself :)
What do you tend to do when you feel completely empty and alone?
I feel alone, what should I do? What is the treatment of loneliness?Stay away from thinking negatively, or in that you are lonely, and always remember the sensations that make you feel happy.To heal loneliness, you have to build confidence in yourself, be convinced of your abilities and skills, and that you can reach what you want.Try to introduce fun into your life by doing some fun activities, such as walking in the early morning hours, mountain climbing, and other things that will free up your energy.Make friends, wherever you are, find out who is around you. • One of the ways to treat the sense of loneliness involved in volunteer work, when you take your time in helping others will give you that strength and confidence.Don't spend hours in your room alone, stay with your family in the living room, get out of the house and participate in social events, not less to opportunities for acquaintance and communication.If you spend long hours on the Internet and social media, reduce these hours and try to spend more time among people in a real atmosphere away from the virtual world.tips stop thinking muchHow to Not Feel Lonely: 40Tricks to Try
I feel empty, emotionless, and lonely?
i've always tried to be happy and i always try to be with my friends but lately i've just felt emotionless and empty and distant from my friends i always have an angry surge at times. i have even started dating someone new but i dont feel anything theirs nothing when it comes to sympathy and happiness. at times i just get tired of all of the constant continuesness everything feels the same nothings different so im stuck and it doesn't matter to me now so i've tried to figure it all out but everything feels grey bland and useless for example at times i dont wanna get out of bed because it all seems so useless so i dont know what to do can anyone help .?
When a close friend dies, why does it feel empty inside?
Not just a friend, but whenever a closed one dies, one feels empty inside. and that is just one of the feelings. Over the time one feels angry, sad, guilty, insecure, lonely, Thoughtless, irritated, agonized and so many other emotions that do not come to my mind right now.And that's obvious as you don't just loose a person. you loose much more than that. And specially, when it is a friend/father/mother/sibling/soulmate - you loose your most important audience.However, what i learned from my own experience and from talking to those who have gone through the trauma is - Just accept those feelings. cry when u want to cry, get angry when you feel angry, get irritated when you want to get irritated. It is the only way to get healed. To pass the dark-zone, you have to go through the dark-zone.