Feeling my baby--concerned?
Well Im not skinny but maybe over weight but healthy pregnancy weight now. and havent gained excessively. Im just under you Im 27 weeks today. But I can feel the outline of my baby boy. And i call it playing with him, when Ill poke my stomach and then Ill get a smack back from him in that spot its kind of cute lol. But It says in pregnancy information that around 26 weeks and up you could possibly feel the outline of your baby. Which i beleive is what you are doing and myself. I cant tell if its a foot or arm yet, but i can feel around where he is I even had my mom feel it because it was a big circle that was hard and she even said he seems to be curled up in a ball position. Its probably because your friends are over weight, or maybe just not as sensitive to feeling there baby yet. I mean every pregnancy is different. Some babies are less active then others and some woman feel there babies move way before other woman do. and it can also depend where your placenta is Mine is in the front and they kept telling me i wudlnt be able to feel my baby for a while however I had alreayd been feeling him for a month or more! however they were right that other people could not feel him move around yet. that could also be maybe why they cant feel the outline of there baby yet! Nothing to be concerned about, unless your doctor asks, and he/she should be feeling your stomach just to make sure when you go in for prenatal visits anyways so just ask next time and he might even be able too tell you if its a foot or arm :)
Do you ever feel concerned that the people in your life are going to hold you back?
I know my vision of my life doesn’t match my wife’s but I never move on without a better option. I have no options for a better match then what I have with my wife at this time. She also keeps me balanced. Without a wife attached to me I go out partying and drinking and whoring and one of these days my luck is going to run out and I won’t wake up the next day :p Guess it’s better to not be fast achieving your goals then to be dead. :P
I don't feel concerned by dating because I don't feel good enough. How can I stop feeling like I'm excluded?
I would say you’ve already won half the battle!Being “concerned” with dating is a fallacy. Instead. concern yourself with getting to know as many people as deeply as you can.A nice side effect, will be that you will start feeling a hell of a lot better about yourself the more you care about others.Remember, the more INTERESTED you become, the more INTERESTING you appear.
Should I feel concerned my boyfriend carries a knife with him everywhere?
I think you're blowing this all out of proportion. Since you say he hasn't shown any aggressive behavior towards you and you say that he uses them as a tool, you have no need to worry. Knives do not kill people, people kill people. That is why you avoid people who do bad things or you suspect do bad things. If you feel you have nothing to worry about him, then you have nothing to worry about his knife. A knife is indeed a tool. I use knives everyday at my job and around the house. Since the dawn of man the knife has been one of humankinds most reliable tools. We have used it for hunting, food prep, cutting string/rope/chord, modification of objects and the list goes on. Killing is only one use. You have a car. You can kill a lot of people with that car. I can ram my car into a group of school children when I commute to work tomorrow. But I choose not to because I am a rational human being. A collection of 20? Pft I have a collection of 50 knives, each of a high quality and sharper than a razor. You have nothing to worry about if your only concern is the knife and not him. If you must, talk to him about it. You are his girl after all, and you should tell him when you don't feel right about something. Just tell him how you feel. @hello You can't be serious. "Lose the knife collection or lose you." Unless he is putting the collection above her in priority, you honestly cannot say that. In fact, saying that is part of an unhealthy relationship. You DO NOT tell people to simply give things up all because you don't believe in it. You compromise. That is terrible advice.
Why don't I feel concerned about the events that happen in my life? I feel even less concerned if it's something important such as the death of a family member, and it has been like that for years.
I'm not sure, but you may have a difficult history with these relatives, and that affects your responses. Perhaps you are feeling numb in general about things that people generally have deeper emotions. I would suggest meeting with a counselor or therapist to discuss this lack of emotion. It may be transient, or it may be a symptom of something more significant. Best wishes in your quest to understand yourself.
Why do the peoples of the world feel concerned by the acts of their ancestors?
They are taught to feel bad about it.In Germany, World War Two is taught in such a way that it makes the students the students feel guilty for something that people, who they’re probably not related to, did 70 years ago. In fact, my history teacher once taught a class of German exchange students about the Holocaust, there was hardly a dry eye in the room after that.Other than Germans, I don’t think there are many other peoples that feel concerned by the acts of their ancestors. You’ll get some people in America who feel that they have to apologise for slavery, though. And that’s what pisses me off.You shouldn’t have to apologise for something that someone, who’s probably dead now, did before you were even born. You should never have to feel guilty for that. At its highest, about 1–3% of people living in the USA (including confederate states) owned slaves. And yet I see people blame all white people for slavery. They have it all wrong.When obtaining slaves, people imagine a ship landing in Africa, and white people bounding out happily, holding huge nets. In fact, they just bought the slaves off of Africans who already owned them. Shall I go on to talking about the white people who were enslaved by Arabs and Turks in Northern Africa and the Middle East? Do the Arabs, Turks, or Africans feel bad for taking slaves? No!Being over-ridden with guilt because of things like that is stupid. And even worse, it’s planted into the minds of these SJWs.
My neighbor has an off leash dog and I feel concerned because it once attacked me. He won’t keep his dog leashed even after the incident. What should I do?
Depends on the size and type of dog. Your description is quite vague. You say it “attacked” you, were you injured? Or just scared by it? Is it just you or is the entire neighborhood being terrorized?Dogs can sense fear, and read your body language like a book. If it is continually harassing you, First I would suggest a call to the local authorities. If you get no relief there, you can up the ante to some mace or pepper spray. Small enough to keep with you at all times, and one good dose will make it go the other way when it sees you. Or a stout walking stick can explain that you aren’t to be trifled with.A firearm should be your last resort! There is no guarantee you will hit the animal if you are terrified or unfamiliar with using a gun in a stressful situation! (Sir Isaac Newton and his infernal laws strike again!) IF you miss there is no telling what you might hit down range.Use the most powerful weapons at your disposal! Your brain. Then the opposable thumbs on your hands. To use the mace or pepper spray or grip & swing the aforementioned stick. Only as a last resort should a gun enter into the equation.I am NOT a bleeding heart liberal and I regularly carry a pistol. If the situation warrants it then you are within your rights to protect yourself. Just be prepared for any repercussions. Good luck!My definition of gun control is hitting what you shoot at! Spraying bullets is not an ideal solution. But sometimes the only one.
Should I feel concerned that my sexuality keeps switching between pansexual and polysexual?
Not at all!It’s totally normal to have trouble pinning down an identity, especially if you’re young or new to the LGBTQ+ community. It might be difficult sometimes for others to keep up with which sexuality you’re currently identifying with, but in the end, pansexual and polysexual are, in practice, not much different from one another, so most people you interact (including potential partners) with will be totally cool with you switching identities from time to time.Some people with lesser known or complicated identities (eg. those represented in the “+”) choose to identify as “queer” in some spaces, and some people who don’t have a single or constant identity may also choose to identify as “questioning,” to simplify their identity. This is a personal choice, and there’s no need to do it if you don’t feel comfortable.Really, the only issue I can see with it is which pride flag merch you want to get. ;)