I feel depressed and lonely?
It's like all these changes keep happening In my life. I just wanna go back to my old life when i was happy and had no problems.. But I can't anymore, because I don't have any friends like I used to. I can't be myself around people anymore, it's like I have to put up a front. All these people I used to call my friends all have happy lives now, and I'm just bored with mines... Depressed.. It's hard right now because I don't have anybody to rely on. I can't trust no one. Ever since I transferred to a different school in a different city, it's like I went m.i.a on everyone. My old friends don't talk to me anymore, I don't go on social networks anymore, I don't really go out like I used to. I do have two "close friends" but they're more like acquaintances to me. I say that because I feel like I can't trust them. They live in the city i go to school at, but i Never really hang out with them, i live 20 mins away from the city. It's something telling me that they talk **** about me and use me for my car. And I can never feel comfortable or be myself around them. I used to have two bestfriends that I hung out with every single day and be my complete self around, but we fell apart ever since I left my old school. School is boring for me now. I go to a continuation school for only 5 hours, then go straight home and have nothing to do. It's hard for me to get a job, because I feel like I'm not emotionally stable yet to mature. You know? I'm not as close to my family anymore because they all live in different cities... Idk what to do anymore.
I feel lonely and depressed (I'm 14)?
14 is a hard age for many people because they're dealing with so many changes (to their body, thinking about relationships, about the future, etc.). It's not unusual to be depressed and lonely, but remember that things really will get better in time. I would encourage you to try to get involved in some school activities, such as theater, sports, arts or music clubs, etc. It's not only a way to meet people, it's also a way to find contentment within yourself. And at home, give some real thought to a hobby or interest. For instance, many people like to take photos, draw pictures, write stories, start a scrapbook; if you work at it for a few weeks, you'll start to see some improvement and it will be enjoyable (plus it's good for the brain). It's really important for anyone that they develop other interests because without other interests it's easy to dwell on all that is wrong. You sound like a very together person -- the fact that you sought help on your own says a lot about you -- so I think you will become happier once you're through the next year or so. I think it's great that you resisted the feeling of hurting yourself. People who hurt themselves are often trying to get another pain that is stronger than their emotional pain. If you still have a lot of those thoughts, talk with an adult you trust (a teacher, a counselor, a relative) and ask them how you might find programs that could help you. Most states have a lot of programs for people your age. You could also look into volunteer work, which will make you realize how valuable you are and it will help you want to take even better care of yourself. Time moves slowly when you're 14, but it does move, and before you know it you'll be 16, 18, and you'll discover that the world is better off because you as it is because of each of us. Someone once said that we don't know our destiny until we face the unique challenges that life puts in front of us. It sounds to me like you are facing the challenges, and just think how your courage in making your life better now will lead you into a good future with friends, work, and opportunities.
Why do I feel so depressed and lonely?
First of all, your question contains insufficient information. There can be “n" number of reasons of getting depressed and feeling lonely. What is it that is taking you into depression and you feel lonely?We all get depressed at certain stages of our life. And sometimes even for a reason which has no connection with the practical world. Loneliness however can can also be a reason but are you really lonely or is it your thinking that is making you feel like that? Here are some of the ways you can follow to tackle your depression.Make yourself involved in some positive activities. (Its hard but gotta try it)Do things which you love to and have passion for. (Singing, playing guitar, gym……. Whatever you like)Meet new and quality people from whom you can get matured ideas about life. ( not with losers whose only topic of discussion is mocking and backstabbing others and talking nonsense about girls)Share your problem with a closed one whom you trust but don't nag and repeat it everyday.Hang out with quality friends.Last but not the least, meditate. Trust me it will help you a lot. You will be able to concentrate on your work and start taking things positively.
I m lonely and depressed ? I feel worthless?
Im a 21 year old female. I have no friends. I ve never been on a date. I went away to college thinking it would help me , but it s only made me realize that problems follow you everywhere. I never talk in class, and my grades are low. I feel worthless, I mean nothing to anyone, I m just an odd unlike able person. I feel so depressed and nothing will help. I ve tried therapy, I ve tried medication. Nothing works. I even have multiple online accounts looking for friends and no one will agree to meet me.
LGBT: Do you ever feel depressed and lonely?
right now im 16 in highschool im gay but still in the closet & i know everybody talks about me behind my back wondering if im gay. i try to act like it doesnt get to me and stay strong. but its starting to get to me and i feel alone & depressed. do you ever feel this way?
Feel lonely and depressed, how to feel better?
i keep feeling, scared, lonely and depressed. i talk to a couple friends about how i feel but they don't help at all. they don't say anything that makes me feel better. im on my own in this. what can i do to feel better?
I feel depressed in high school because I'm lonely. How do I deal with this?
Hey! I’m terribly sorry to hear about what you’re going through. Well, the thing is, i experienced almost the exact same thing 2 years ago, well sort of, my group of friends left me out of outings, movies, dinners and more. Making me feel inadequate, and to top it off of that, i found out that my 2 year long distance girlfriend has been cheating on me. So the amount of insecurities and feeling of inadequacy piled up.Eventually, i felt like a burden to any friends i am with or anyone that i would REALLY love to be friends with. I started pulling away from people, from classes, from everything. Then, i was approached by my school counsellor and he helped me journey through to recovery.So here’s the thing, there would most probably be counsellors in your high school, or a group teachers that are in charge of the students’ welfare. Approach one of them, at first, you might be afraid, but do not be. He/She would be able to help you out, to find out how you can improve yourself and the way you think of yourself. Don’t be too hard on yourself, nobody is perfect and you’ll eventually be able to connect well with people.I hope this helps, and i wish you all the best! :)
I often feel depressed and lonely for no reasons, what should I do?
Depression and loneliness! Wow! What a couple! If you are suffering from these both, I guess you must have lost the interest of living, enjoying boredom, quitting excitements, your happiness and joy must be frozen, your state of thinking must travel in the road of negative thoughts, questioning what to do in life, flavoring wearisomeness, feeling loads and loads of worries on our shoulders and so lot. To avoid and escape from this disease you must wake up from your sleep. You will be leaving your soul to sleep like the sleeping Beauty, expecting and waiting for hundred years to get up from the bed. Your life is not a fairy tale, so here you can't expect anyone to wake you up. You only must search that will of yours to savor your life in the best way. Have a journal to write. You will feel, you have a company. Write, write everything you feel. When you read that piece of paper after a ten years, there will be a thrilled smile in your face. You will be happy reading it. Talk to a baby(small girl) or a kindergarten kid. They will take you to their own 'fantasy world' . Their talk, their actions, their expressions. Lovely! Watch and notice them keenly. Even if you are depressed to an extreme level. No problem. Don't worry. Force a smile on your face. Laugh while you talk. A stranger noticing you might come up to you just to tell, "Your smile is enchanting. So beautiful to see you smile. Your smile has made my day". You will really really pleased to hear this. Maybe you might even feel like 'flying in the air'. So always have a charming smile in your face. Look at the sky and do stargazing. Mesmerize in the beauty of stars. Think that you are the star shining brightly and radiantly even in complete darkness around it. Believe you are a star(damn true, if you realize your worth) Know your true potential. Give it a try. Do the best in whatever you do. Next time you must say, "I'm happy and cheerful for no reason" Happy life! Smile always!