I'm Sick Of Feeling So Fat And Insecure?
Balmain; you have inspirered me, i hope i stop being so insercure, i just think the only thing that will make me happy is to be average or "skinny" i am big boned and i hate it i feel big and wide (which i am wide) and i just hate that i wish i was small boned but obvoulsy i cant.... i have to find a away to make my body look that way... i dont care on waht my face looks like i do think i ave a nice complation (sometimes) but the weight is just UHHHH, but i will tryy my very best to take your advice, it was a very heart moving story. thank you
I feel fat during sex!?
You have 2 options: lose the excess fat or learn to accept what you have. You can lose the fat by exercise and diet and if the latter option doesn't work, why not give it a try. Just have a strict diet and good exercise and you'll find it actually works (but you've gotta do both not just one). But the real question is do you 2 love each other and does he accept you for you? If he does then you shouldn't have to worry because he loves you for you - he loves you and your body for what it is. =)
I feel insecure/too fat for acting classes?
Don't worry about your body. There's no one ideal size or shape for an actor. If you wanted to be a fashion magazine model or a Playboy centerfold, that would be a different matter, but actors play all different kinds of characters with all different body types. In every group, there's somebody who's the tallest, shortest, fattest, thinnest, darkest, palest, etc. It's not something to worry about. Enjoy the class.
I am 15 years old. I feel fat and ugly and I'm very insecure. How do I overcome this?
Everyone has insecurities. I’ll be honest with you, I do too. I understand how you feel.This is what you have to understand. For some reason, instead of thinking of ourselves in a good way and looking up to ourselves just like how we look up to our heros, we do the complete opposite. We always think of ourselves worse that what we really are. I don’t know why but i have a feeling that we all have really high expectations of ourselves but we feel like we don’t meet them. We are also concerned with how people think of us that is why we are so self conscious. I recently ended my teenage life, looking back, I realized how stupid I was. I was constantly seeking other people’s approvals, I was doing everything I can to appeal to everyone. What I didn’t understand was, we can only appeal to a certain type or group of people. Just because you don’t appeal to everyone, does not mean you are not beautiful in anyway.Im going to tell you what I did personally. When I was 15–16, I was a nobody. Guys my age were having girlfriends and getting laid. I dressed like an 8 year old. My hair style was disgusting. Eventually, I had enough. I went shopping, I bought some clothes. I usually buy disposable fashion (H&M, forever 21) because they sell timeless fashion that will always be stylish and affordable. I started caring about my hair. Coming up with a hairstyle was the hardest part. I had to see what suits me and what doesn’t. Eventually I came up with a messyish combover.I’d present myself really well and i would always feel good about myself. I feel clean, fresh and mainly, I feel attractive (to myself at least). This unlocked a lot of things. It was able to make me happier and able to open up more and talk more. Sooner or later, I was talking to girls, going on dates and stuff.
My mom makes me feel insecure about my body and that makes me really sad. If she wouldn't tell me I'm fat I wouldn't feel this way. I feel beautiful and sexy but then she makes me feel bad. What should I do?
My mom makes me feel insecure about my body and that makes me really sad. If she wouldn't tell me I'm fat I wouldn't feel this way. I feel beautiful and sexy but then she makes me feel bad. What should I do?Talking about my mom.She is my best critic. Whether I’m not doing well academically or getting fat, she won’t hesitate for a split second to spit it out and bash me.Suppose you are my friend. I really like you and appreciate the way you are. I will never tell you to change yourself, no matter how bad you are. You know why? - coz I don’t care that much about you.If you get fit and healthier:Its you who’ll live longer, not your mom.Its you who’ll feel more confident, not your mom.Its you who’ll look better, not your mom.I can feel extremely good about myself, no matter how fat I get. But does this “feeling” make any sense?When in reality:I am only gaining more fat.Will feel insecure while I stand with a bunch of friends who are all really fit.Inviting tons of diseases.And worst and as a result.. slowly and slowly, I’m cutting down my own life expectancy.When I came back from back home after my first year at college, I was in terrible shape. My mom got really, really mad.She put me in a tight diet control.Locked the fridge at night.Made me run hard on the treadmill and was there the entire time I used to run, to ensure I don’t cheat.Coming home after 8 months being away from her, I expected a lot of pampering, but it honestly felt like a fucking Navy seal training camp. I was disgusted and cried.But later I realized, how I actually did get a bit fat and none of my “friends” ever cared to tell me to stop eating unhealthy shit and how I would have gradually eaten myself to death if it wasn’t for my mom.Your mom is the only one who sincerely cares about you. The rest have 0 fucks to give. The earlier you understand it, the better.When I got back in shape, I was shocked how I allowed all those junky shit in my body. I felt significantly better and lighter. Also currently I take care of my body a lot and I feel extremely lively and energetic. Thanks mom!P.S - Dad on phone on the day I came back to college after summer:“Your mom cried the entire night, she felt really bad she locked the fridge at night and didn’t cook you your favourite snacks.”
I feel very insecure of my belly fat, really need help?
It'll be long: I'm not fat, I'm 148 cm/4'10 who weighs 43 kg/95 lbs. My body is a bit on the curvier side, I'm between size S/M. I don't have problems with the rest of my body except my belly fat. I've tried to cleanse/detox the excess bloat which helped a bit but my belly is still very round and sticking out a lot. It makes me insecure and I don't dare wearing a bikini, because I always cover with a swimming shirt on. My sisters also have a bit round belly, but my sister's not so obvious so I'm not sure if it's genetics or not (I've had belly fat since I was a kid though). I'm exercising 3 times a week by running an hour, because I heard that's effective to burn fat overall, including belly. I eat healthy as well, no carbonated/store drinks, no snacks, just fruit, fish and some veggies in general. I'm trying to get summer body but I'm not seeing any improvement on my belly which frustrates me. I even tried lipo once and I only lost 1.5 cm and I don't know why :( It makes me insecure because I'm afraid my boyfriend will freak out if he ever see it, especially when I sit it looks so round. I need really good advices of ways to lose belly fat effectively, thanks :(
My dad basically called me fat, and I feel even more insecure?
Usually people make other people feel bad to make themselves feel good so that could be this case. You've obviously not fat. I'm 130 lbs and 5"9 and people say i'm thin.. Plus you have boobs (x. But yeah just don't let him get you down .
Songs about feeling ugly/worthless/fat/ and insecure?
This one Pink - F**kin' Perfect http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ocDlOD1Hw...
Why am i feel soo insecure about my arms? GIRLS> Help me. :(?
i know how you feel im also insecure about my arms too, and i get paranoid if i sleeveless so i always have to put on a sweater. You just gotta look yourself in the mirror and say to yourself my arms look normal and its all in my head. And if people look at you, so what just shake it off cause you'll be the bigger person for not caring if they look at you. Just be confident! :)