What is maturity? How can the maturity of a person be defined?
Maturity means when relationship becomes strengthened over money, when knowledge becomes power over degrees, when honesty becomes identity over designation.Maturity comesWhen thou stop laughing on other's mistakes and instead of blaming provide suggestions to rectify it.When thou strive to earn respect instead of earning money or sympathy.When thou choose to move on or to ignore even though having the power to hurt them back.When thou learn to remain silent unless words have value over silence.When thou start spending time to improve their inner beauty instead of outer beauty.When thou realize that likes on FB do not give certificate of their beauty or FB friends list do not define their good relationship skill.(when thou strat counting quality of relations over quantity)When thou realize value of time and stop wasting it, stalking, irrelevant commenting or giving answer to each and every question just to become popular.When thou respect the privacy of others(especially women.. Please stop spying on your neighbours' or relatives' life and gossip about it).When thou respect other's decisions and views and have the courage to accept reality.When thou stop to judge people and build any presumtions.(unless and until you have not gone through their situations you can't realize their conditions).When thou realize the value of relations over ego and try to improve relationship instead of ending it.When Parents stop comparing their children with other's and Provide support to their children's passion.When Thou emphasis on learning instead of passing with ranks.When thou try hard to fulfill your responsibility before demanding your rights.(Always remember rights come with responsibility).Maturity comes when word Want is replaced by CAN,when action of Take is replaced by Give,when belief in Luck is replaced by believe in Own self.Thanks a lot Rohan Majumdar for correcting grammatical mistakes.
I feel like i'm missing out on my teenage years?
What you're describing is a movie-like teen experience. For 99% of us, teens are (or were) pretty much about staying home, doing homework and helping around the house, occasionally going out with one or two friends, and experiencing the "outside" world through books or computer. It doesn't have to be awful - it is what you make of it. The thing is, you discover yourself not by what experiences you can get into, but by going inward to find out what you really want to do with your life, whether it's what you do with your future or just how you want to live everyday. Experiences can help, but they are fickle, and circumstances change. What you never get rid of is YOU. Are you creative? Make stuff. Are you kind or friendly? Get to know your neighbors or extended family, be an active part of your immediate neighborhood. Are you smart or logical? Read and experiment and think. So as a former "sheltered" teen who survived and is now living life content and truly satisfied with life, my advice to you is to put away the Instagram and movies and inflated ideals for a while. Realize the fun-loving teens you think you see even at school are just masking the real deal. Try to stop focusing on what you're "missing" that the world should be offering you, and try to start developing what you want to give *back* to the world. Because who you choose to be determines how much joy you get out of the world. Best wishes.
Can getting drunk last night cause a misscarriage if I am only 4.5 weeks?
All the information you can find will tell you that any alcohol consuption is potentially dangrous to the baby. This is mainly because they're all posted by anti-alcohol groups. But, the first three months of gestational development is filled with critial fetal development, all the organs are developing during this time, after the third month the baby is just getting bigger and finetuning previous devleopments. The very begining is the worst time to ingest any potentially harmful substances. Just remember, late 3rd week to early 4th week the fertlized egg has only just found your uterine lining and implanted it's self and started pumping out the HCG, which gave you those two pink lines. In the sixth week is when the embryo is most suseptable to developmental catastorphy because all the vital organs and brain are being developed. IF something does happen and you do have a miscarriage, don't blame yourself. Up to the end of the first trimester everyone in every pregnancy is at risk for miscarriage. I doubt that if you do not drink again during the pregnancy that this one binge would be the cause of it. Sometimes there are just things that arn't right and there's no way the baby could have made it. But, like everyone else, if this really has you worried, call and talk to a doctor. They can give you more peace of mind than any of us.
Do you feel that children should be sheltered from unhappiness?
I don't know if i could put an exact age to this question because i think children learn that life isn't all rainbows and butterflies through out childhood ( through bullies, being called names, not getting along with every child, failing a class, being grounded, etc, etc) and it will depend on the child's maturity and personal growth as to what kind of conversation you would have with them concerning life's not so glorious reality. But lets face it they will find this out either way and as parents we need to help them cope and give them the tools to succeed not discourage them from trying to reach their dreams and ambitions because life is hard, you just encourage them work harder and build strength from past mistakes and obstacles not shelter them from all that can go wrong or is wrong in society and life.
What happened to BTS V and his bubbly personality?
He's lost both his grandmother and grandfather to illness. The 2 people that helped raise him while his parents worked. The man who gave him his name.He's lost 2 friends to suicide. That is never easy. I've been there.His girlfriend broke up with him…at a televised event.There were talks of disbanding and Tae relies heavily on the other members to keep him focused and calm.
I'm absolutely terrified of leaving home for my studies. Is it possible that I'm not ready, or is it on the contrary a necessary step leading to maturity and independence?
You appear to have a bit more fear than most about losing the security of the home that we all experience at some time in our lives. Home has a special meaning as Robert Frost wrote: "Home is the place where, when you go there, they have to take you in." Many people miss the opportunity to become securely attached in childhood for many reasons. One possible result is a fear of being abandoned so a strong attachment to security might be a result. I recommend that you try to reframe your concept of home and know that you will still have support after the move from the physical place. In my opinion, when someone misses a stage of childhood development normal maturity will not be achieved until the childhood stage is corrected through emotional growth and development. I also recommend that you practice a mental exercise with images of being away from home and feeling secure and joyful.