I feel fat but everyone says I'm not?
Pic of my body: https://img42.com/ncL0N I'm 5'4 and weigh 118-120 lbs. It fluctuates. My measurements are 32-27-33. I hate the way I look. I feel like my waist is huge. I don't know if it's because I still see myself as the 150 lbs I used to weigh or what, but I hate looking in the mirror at my body. How can I stop feeling like this?
Seems like everyone has big penis?
It is a misconception that all women want a "massive penis", as you so eloquently put it. The truth is, most women would prefer a guy who loves and cares for them, treats them well and provides for their children then they would one with a "massive penis". However, there are some women who are size queens and want/need a larger penis. But it is your own insecurities that hold you back in your romantic endeavors! Stop concerning your self with your penis and concentrate on the women you wish to pursue.
I feel like I'm a burden to everyone :(?
I have depression,anxiety and ocd. This is something that I can just never shake. I always feel depressed even on a "good" day I often times feel so alone because of it and need to just tell someone how I’m feeling. I have become really close to one of my coworkers I consider her my best friend. We hang out and talk and just really connect. When I am struggling though I always want to talk to her naturally because she is my best friend. I just feel like I annoy her. She is super nice so I know she wouldn't say it to my face or tell me even through text. I know it is probably annoying to put up with me but I try to repay her by being a good friend in return and letting her know she is appreciated. I just hate feeling like a burden. I see a therapist once a week and that helps but it’s not like I can have a casual conversation with her whenever I’m feeling down. I just really hate to think that I bug her as much as I feel like I do. I have asked her and told her I was sorry for always texting her and she always say “don’t worry about it” or something to that nature. Then on the other side of things boyfriend wise I really want a boyfriend I mean I’m 19 and it’d be nice to have someone to be close to. I always feel like I find a guy start talking with him for a while we hang out I like him then something in me freaks out and wants nothing to do with him. I just feel so isolated and alone because of these situations.
I am a mess! I feel a huge amount of guilt. I feel that I infect everyone around me with pain.I cause people to leave my life. What should I do?
I feel you friend. I'm sailing in the same ship. I literally give up on people over trivial matters... it's like I try to get rid of them and the harder they try to stay in my life, the harder I push them away. I have lost many a (not very close) friends this way. Only family and a handful who can stick with me, have stayed with me. And I'm only in my mid twenties. I write people off. I avoid them. Sometimes I dont want to meet them for no apparent reason. I fight. Argue. Behave immature. It causes tension. And resolves after they have forgiven me. Esp. my mother. However short-tempered I behave with her, she is back to normal the next day, loving me, caring for me. I try to learn from her. I try to practise patience. Try to remind myself to be patient, to love people. Learning yoga, meditation, writing, thinking about my actions and words, and most importantly apologising after realising my mistake.I read answers on quora on the topic 'psychology of everyday life'. It helps. Calms me down.I try to focus on future and present. Making aims. Focussing on work. Thinking positive and happy thoughts. Cutting out negatives (objects, places, people that make me negative).It's not easy changing, it will take years! And may not even have any substantial results. But we must try.Keep trying. Till the end.
What is the point of living if all you do is disappoint everyone?
Someone, whom I truly cared for, told me that she regrets that she met me. Somehow I disappointed her.My father told me the he was disappointed by my academic performance even though I tried my best and performed decently.I was supposed to go an important family gathering but I skipped it because I didn't feel like attending it. It seemed pointless to me. My mother told me that I always let her down. I assume from your question that you are disappointed or depressed by the fact the you let everyone down. You care for them and you don't want to disappoint anybody. They expect something from you. But here lies the problem. Don't become victim of someone else's expectation. Everybody has different expectations from you and it is impossible to fulfill them. If somebody cares for you, they will understand you. They will understand your limitations.The point of living is not to please everyone. The point of living is to spend the time with the people whom you care for and who care for you. The point of living is to not disappoint yourself.
I made a huge mistake and I feel the worst person in the world. Does a big mistake make you a bad person?
No if you are ready to work out your mistake. I mean what matters is not that you make mistakes (cause eveybody makes mistake and sometimes we dont have any intention to do that but it happens) but what matters is just that how you correct your mistakes.And mistakes are the best teacher if you take responsibility of your mistakes. And the worst thing is that you make lame excuses or blame someone else for it. Be truthful and say i made a mistake but i want to correct it.if you want to share with me what did you have done? you can . i will try my best to help you.Is this answer helpful? Tell me what should i also tell. If this is helpful , dont forget to upvote
Does anyone else feel like something is coming, or about to happen?
I am glad I am not alone on this. It is very difficult because most of my life I have been trained ad nauseam regarding scientific principles, but also how small changes in nature can cause global mass changes. For example an increase of 1C (1.8F) degree in our oceans. With the W.socltice we have an alignment with our sun, galactic core, and add in there our moon, and perhaps another planet. Gravitational waves can sum, causing a large increase in g'total. Would this not tip our delicate scale? If so we should observe a Gaussian form of events. In otherwords if 2012 is the center, it would be the top of the bell curve. If we are to see a massive event, we would should see signs of an increase in events leading up to the zenith point on 2012. We can see that the global temperatures are rising, but they are linear. We should be looking at nonlinear events. such as earthquakes per month. 1,2,4,8,16,32..... nonlinear points to a epoch conclusion. Also interesting is UFO-H bomb testing.