I invited myself to their party?
Two of my friends are having a new years party and didn't invite me. One of them is a good friend and one is my best friend. They come to my house all the time and they're even staying in my beach house in California with me and they pretty much invited themselves. So I decided to just ask if I could come to the party and they were super nice about it and said of course they'd love for me to come but now I'm starting to wonder if they really want me and if It was rude of me to ask..I told them if they didn't want me to come I would totally understand but they said they wanted me... opinions
What does it feel like to not be invited to a party that you thought you would be invited to?
Crap, it feels like crap.If you really thought you were going to be invited to a party because everyone, including the host or hostess, was in the crowd of people with whom you regularly hung out with, I'd be hurt, I'd feel left out, I'd be pissed and I'd be angry.I would ask the person why. I don't like to sit with those kinds of feelings even thought it's scary or uncomfortable to ask the person why. People always show you who they are. I'd want to know if that's what this person was showing me or telling me. "Why wasn't I invited to your party on Friday night? You invited Suzy, Sally, Tom and all the other kids we hang out with?""Well, I, I, I just don't know what to say.""Is it because you didn't want me there?""Well, that was part of it, but it wasn't the whole part.""Well, why don't you just tell me the whole part. You know on second thought, I don't care what the whole part is. You're told me all I wanted to hear."I'd walk away and I wouldn't feel like crap anymore.
What is the best way to remove myself from a wedding party?
I am suppose to be one of six brides maid for my male friends wedding. I really didn't want to accept the invite but he seemed happy so I did. Since then I have found out something and she is showing her true colors. He has gone from a very strong man to a pussy wipped b***h. He has 2 kids (boy & girl) from a previous marriage, one with her, and she is not sure if the one in the oven is his. But the oldest one is 5 and that poor boy can't do anything right but the youngest two can do no wrong. I mean his sister can call her "the bride" "mommy" but he has to call her by her name. To me thats just not right. Before he meet her he would come hang out with my husband and I while the kids play. Now if her and the kids are walking by the house she want even allow them to look at my daughter. Btw that just happen Saturday. That was the last straw for me I mean hell these kids were friends long before she was in the picture. Anyway I need some ideas on how to withdraw myself from the bridal party. I just know she is going to be a b***h and to make matters worse they live two houses down from us so we see them (in passing) almost everyday.
23 at junior college don't feel like partying. Is that lame? Got invited to a party should I force myself Togo?
We are the same then, and no it isn't lame its your way of life, how you like it, People cant force you into it. I rather sit home and so something useful with my time. Read a book, google for new interesting cooking methods. you name it =P ive done it. I dont drink smoke or do drugs aither, i did smoke and drink when i was at 15-18. but never since 18th bday:p im 23 now. Best days of my life, People do ask to go out with them sometimes, But i go do more harmless and chill places, like BBQ bar, bowling. :p You should do teh same, In general i dislike the atmosphere at partyes with alcohol. People get one minded thats always bad, So hun. it isnt lame. you are who you are, and a nice fresh start is good, dont ruin it with a silly party trying to look like others. nah dont. :) your 23, no need for childish im so like her or like this now im so cool" Crap.. =) Wish you luck on your new fresh beginning. =)
I wasn't invited to a Halloween party and I don't know what I should do?
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I've been invited to a party. I want to go, but I'm afraid. I'm a shy introvert and can't talk to people. What should I do? Apparently I should do things that scare me in order to cure myself of my introversion.
We all know that social anxiety or social phobia can be crippling sometimes – even though the social settings are perfectly normal. It is more to do with our own thinking, something that's inside out and not vice versa. Though, we live in a world which includes all kind of people – average, intelligent, idiots, fortunate, miserable, poor, rich, sick, healthy, handsome and ugly; the list is endless. But, people suffering from social anxiety always think that they are inferior to others and that something is wrong with them and this thought becomes rigid and intense with time. So, regardless of whether the gatherings are large or small, the people suffering from this disorder will try to keep a distance from social occasions. Sometimes, the fear grows so big that the patient tries to withdraw from situations where social encounters are unavoidable. However, the good news is – it can be treated. Read the following article to know how cognitive behavioral treatment can help you get away with this disorder completely. Social Anxiety Therapy
Everyone got invited to a party except me. I honestly feel like I just want to stay in my room, cry and never see anyone again. What should I do?
This is truly a slap in the face. Rejection is a bitter and painful experience. Over and over in your mind you run through what happened that you got ditched?Now among this group you must have closer friend than others. I’d go to this person and asked what happened and how painful it was. If she/he says, “let’s sit down and talk about this, figure out what happened.” Then this person is a genuine friend and may indeed discover the underlying truth.If this person, you consider close, puts on a fake smile and says, “Gosh that’s awful, sorry I got to run. Keep a stiff upper chin.” Then you have identified who screwed you. This person is not a friend, she/he is an enemy to beware of.Now, if this person was also the host or hostess then it is clear that she wanted to hurt you.If she isn’t the leader of the group, go to the leader and ask “what happened?” There may be some reason that you didn’t know about, a rumor about you, or something of that nature. See what she/he has to say. All this may bring you closer to the truth and that will help.Who knows? They all might have assumed you were invited.
I feel like I'm always inviting myself over to my friends houses? What do you think?
So my house is super boring so I always call over and ask one of my friends if I can go to there house, and it feels like I'm inviting myself over and being rude... Like tonight, my mom said that I have to go to my grandma's for New Years Eve because she's going to a party, so I just called my friend asked him if I could sleep over at his house tomorrow night and now I feel really bad... I think the way I should put is that I feel morally wrong. But the other things is that I know this friend has only like me as a friend and one other person so he never hangs out with anyone, do you think what I'm doing is wrong? How should I fix it????? Please help, I feel really bad.