I feel like my mom is replacing me with her boyfriend?
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I feel like my mom cares more about her boyfriend than me?
So my mom met this guy about almost a year ago, and she’s been kinda siding with him rather than me, her own daughter. I’m 14 years old and i just feel so alone right now. I wake up she’s on the phone with him i get home from school or she picks me up on the phone. Almost every weekend she hangs out with him and like it just hurts, anytime we spend time together he will call and she will just get up and leave to converse with him. I don’t know how to approach my mom because she can be hostile (not physically) and just say i’m too sensitive. What can i do?
Mom's boyfriend 'replacing' my dad?
okay my parents got divorced last year and i live with my mom and my sister now, she is 18. anyways my mom has this new boyfriend who we recently fou nd out about and he is always here. is it wrong of me to NOT want to meet him? i feel as though he is replacing my dad and i dont like it; i love my dad very much. my sister has met him and talks to him, but i stay in my room wheneever he is here, which is almost everyday for long periods. am i wrong to not want to meet him?
I feel like my dad's new partner is replacing my mom?
Hello, I am a 15 year old male from The United Kingdom, who lives with my dad in a two bedroom apartment. So basically, my mom passed away a year ago from harming herself, because my dad was cheating on her with this guy he met at a gay bar and he never really grieved about it or even really cared about my mom at all. The guy that he cheated on her with is still in his life and pretty much comes over on a regular basis and I really hate him. Like he is kind of feminine and he always calls me sweetheart or sugar and he has long blonde hair that he always wears in a braid and he kind of dresses a little girly. Like tight clothing. He is always coming over to make dinner and he is always hanging around my dad or our house. Like he usually spends the night, so he is there when I leave and come home. He's always smiling or happy and I hate it so much. He makes me uncomfortable. I feel like he is trying to take my moms place or that he is taking her place and I hate it because if it wasn't for him, she would still be alive and I would still have a mom. I hate it because he gets to live his stupid life basically snogging my dad, while my mom is in a grave instead of alive and there for me. My dad and this guy are so gross, they are always kissing and they talk about their sex life in front of me. It's gross. I hate them both so much. Why is this guy trying to replace my mom and why is my dad acting like she doesn't exist? It really hurts me. Like, I cry about it every single week.
I feel like my mom is trying to replace my dad?
I know how ya feel, it's almost like they don't remember, it's almost like cheating..but ya literally just have to figure that your mom is doing this for herself right now..she's dating, like you are still mourning....we all behave in different manners after the death of a close family member & your mom is not replacing your dad..she's just occupying her time right now while she gets through this..your sisters are patting her on her back thinking she's moved on, but honestly, she's right in the center of her mourning, not truly thinking...the way to get through this?? noone can take the memories of your dad from you...noone..& you can still tell everyone how much of a great guy he was..but don't use him for defense, cuz he won't like it...your mom wants to do silly things..let her, she'll figure it out on her time..& btw, you guys can certainly talk about it..but never expect anyone to change what they are doing or how they are feeling just cuz you want them to..you are learning right now that we all have our own time....can't tell how or how long someone should mourn...but purely think of his life, not his death, & that will help you a great deal...good luck, my heart is with you...my dad did the same thing when my mom died..& had to pick someone he dated before he met my mom...I had a hard time with it..mostly cuz it took a little more respect away...
I feel like I’m losing my little girl to her boyfriend. She’s 26 but my best friend. I don’t want her to marry or have sex anytime soon .?
No this is not a joke. She’s always been a daddy’s girl and we’ve always had a great relationship. I guess that’s why I’m not pushing her to move out as much as her mother is. ( her mother was abusive to her as a young child and they have a terrible relationship. I tell my daughter and her boyfriend marriage is hard, it’s not a fairytale but she thinks she knows everything. They’ve been together for four years but I still get saddened/ upset when I think about her getting married and leaving me. It’s always hard for a parent to truly let go of their child. I’m going to miss having a home cooked meal also because I’m used to her cooking everyday. My wife doesn’t know how to cook and after 12 hour shifts I’m way too tired to cook. I told her I could take her to her hair stylist appointment but she wanted her boyfriend to take her even though for some reason.