I Feel Like No Guy Will Ever Like Me Because Of My Looks

:'( I feel like no guy will ever like me?!?

I just don't know what is wrong with me. Honestly, I'm not stupid, I have always maintained a 4.0 since 6th grade and I've never gotten a B in my life. I am in honors classes at school. I know I am not a freak or ugly. I go to school everyday dressed nice, and well groomed. I wear make up (a little concealer when needed, mascara, eyeliner, eyeshadow and sometimes blush. I make sure to enhance my features, not look like a raccoon) Also I don't have BO issues. Is it because I'm kinda chubby? I admit I have a little extra 'package' but it's not horrible! Like a little pooch at my stomach, I do workouts every day and I play 3 sports. While my stomach may not be toned, my butt, legs, and arms are. I am 5 ft 8 inch, have medium long hair about to my middle back. I'm Latina, and have a big bubble butt (thanks to all the squats haha) I am a little shy with guys, but I do have guy friends and I love to joke and talk with guys when I get to know them. I'm in highschool, and all my friends are constantly talking to me about their crushes or boyfriends (speaking of crushes, I do get them-but the guy never likes me back or ends up liking my friends) I am sick of hearing them. They like to embarrass me about never having held hands, hugged, or kissed a guy. I have ZERO experience with guys and I feel like they will never notice or like me. :'(

I feel like no guy will ever love me?

Guys seem to be obsessed with appearance and this depresses me. Everywhere I go they're rating girls, "8/10" or "4/10", etc. I am quite attractive and have been told this many times, but I have really bad insecurities. I feel like i will never be pretty enough; no matter how hard I try someone will always be more beautiful and of course have a better personality than me. I get anxiety over this and get scared people are judging me. I also have major issues with my body (i'm at a healthy weight, but I need to tone up.) I feel like if i get a boyfriend they'll see my body and want to change it and want it to be more perfect. Not to mention that I can't make up for it by having a stellar personality because i'm super shy and weird... does anyone have any advice? thanks

I feel like no guy will ever like me because I'm tall?

I'm just soooo unhappy. All my short friends go on dates and having been dating since like 14 or 15. I'm 20 and JUST went on my first date last night. except it realy doesn't feel like a date cause the guy only wanted to be friends afterwards. I know it was because I was tall. I get looked at by males alot...but noone wants to approach me for a phone number or whatever. Sometimes I don't know if they're even looking at me because they find me attractive, or looking at me because I'm a giant. I'm 6'0". I tower over most men, in freakin New York City. I feel ugly and weird, I really do. Men say they like tall girls all the time but I don't think they do. They probably like to stare and admire, but they don't want to commit. I felt so bad about this date last night cause I noticed him trying to stand up taller when he was next to me, so as to seem around my height. I'd guess he's like 5'10". The date was actually nice cause he tried to make me comfortable and he paid my train fare and stuff, but you could tell it wasn't right. :(

I feel like no girl will ever love me.?

So I m in high school and the whole 2 years (going on my third in August) no girl has ever seemed to like me. No girl ever likes to talk to me and when I try it s very awkward and they shy away fast. I don t even I have any girls that consider me to be a friend .And I m worried about not having a date to prom. I have made a big deal about it in my head and if I don t have one I will likely be torn apart and have suicide thoughts (I m to scared to try that so don t worry). The problem is that I m a very emotional guy. I feel like crap most of my life about this because I ever want is to one day have a family and have a wife that loves. And I i don t know how to think I could possibly have one like this. I'm depressed 24/7 about this all day long. In left out in everything. there is no one to talk to.

Will a guy ever like me?

I'm 16 & never had a boyfriend.... or for that matter a good friendship with a guy.
I'm pretty shy. I'm not like secluded where i won't talk at all, but i get REALLY nervous when i'm talking to a guy, especially one i like. (which rarely ever happens)
No guys ever talk to me, or even like look at me for that matter.
I don't think i'm like really pretty, but i'm not ugly either. I have blonde hair && blue eyes.
I am just feeling down on myself, because it seems that no guy will ever like me? Maybe this is just a stage in my life or something... i'm not sure.
I guess i just need advice on how to be more outgoing around guys && maybe some encouragement.
I don't mean to sound pathetic or anything
thanks(:

Help! I feel so ugly that no one will ever love me?

Well Calli

Your question and story is compelling and my heart goes out to you. Unfortunately we are in a world that looks matter and the shape of a woman is defined by Men.

Your story is strong and anyone reading it can feel you and the concerns that goes with it. Young lady if you don't learn to love yourself and ignore the world, then you will never find out how Special you really are.

What makes a Hero? Is he born that way or is he made? This is the same for Women. Do they become women or are they born that way?

Strong women don't need Men or the world to define them. I was told as a young girl and a teenager that I would probably always be a carpenters dream...hence..flat a as a board and straight as a nail. It hurt my feelings when people would remark on my thin flat or straight body shape. I felt robbed as a woman to be and scared that no one would love me because of my lack of what the world says I should be.

Should I have surgery to correct these man said flaws? I let these people ruin my young years and set me up for many disappointment in the future. What was I going to do?
My Mother...God bless her soul. She told me of a woman that had men begging for her. This woman was not beautiful or physically beautiful, but yet she had men pitching for her hand. This woman was Cleopatra. This woman used her head and status to control men. Men seen her as powerful and independent and wanted her for her status and reign to the thrown.

You young lady have this same status..you just don't know it yet. If you portray yourself as a strong woman it's not going to matter how you look. The saying goes..A man wants what he can't have..remember this. Put yourself above the rest in confidence and go Man fishing. Just as fishermen thrown back the ones that aren't up to their par or likeness; you should do the same.

What makes a great Woman? It's the state of mind and the confidence she carries with her everywhere. Your status is already there..now you need to learn how to use it. You are the loop hole to mans de-fineness of what women are. Use this to your advantage.

Never judge a Book by it's cover and Never put it in Alphabetical order. Place it from what's inside and you'll know where to find it.

Do guys only like me for my looks?

it seems as if all the guys that like me always get atractted to me because of my body and my face. i have big boobs, hips, a butt, i have a "cute" face (thats what they say), and wavy long hair. i do like getting compliments because it makes me feel pretty at times when im really not. but it feels like my personality is not even a priority, i mean i consider myself a nice person. i joke around with people, im social, im always very happy, i might be very annoying at times (on purpose) but its feels like none of that really matters to guys. do guys only like my looks? or do they actually like me for the way i am?

Why do no guys ever like me am I that ugly?

I'm not a guy so I can't give you a guy's perspective but I think you look great, you shouldn't have to improve your looks for anyone - if a guy is going to like you, it will be for who you are, not someone else.

I know everyone says that you should be yourself but it's so true, honestly, I use to be a goth -.- like black lipstick and everything through pretty much all of school (from the age of 13 onwards) and I never had a boyfriend until I got to Sixth Form (Year 12), okay so I wasn't still a goth then but I still had a few gothy things going on. You just gotta be yourself, so what if a guy can't appreciate a pretty face - his loss :)