I feel like no one likes me at school. what should i do about this? HELP!?
it seems like no one really likes me anymore. any its driving me crazzyy! WHAT SHOULD I DO.. - to make them like me again and like to be around me! !!!!!!!!!HELP!
I feel like no one likes me?
You know, I know exactly how you feel right now, I experience something similar like this back when I started college and it hurts alot I know. But you should see things in a different light, these people are all fake and were pretending to be your friend when they don't really care. So now, what you need to do is move on and make new friends....you need to cut lost with these people and meet other people, friends that relate with you..... I mean you don't have to, but trust me if you if continue being friends with them, and hanging out with them when they can, then you're always going to feel shitty--not completely sure if they get annoy with you, not sure if you could trust them or they really like being with you...which is uncomfortable. And you don't need that. So take the opportunity to move on--everyone is showing their true light, so you just forget about them...it sounds hard to do, but it's actually quite easy, and you'll feel so fresh and happy when you do make new friends that like you, and these people will go back to you wanting to hang out with you when they have no one to be with. Trust me, life works in very strange and interesting ways....
How can I get over the feeling that no one likes me?
What you are feeling is called “projection.” It's likely you feel that way because you don't like yourself. I recommend a 3-step solution.1.) Seek therapy. Feeling like nobody likes you has to be a horrible feeling for you. Just having your thoughts, feelings, and opinions validated by a professional properly equipped with the skills necessary to help you feel emotionally better would likely help you immensely.2.) Try to make friends with similar interests as your own who feel like genuine, down to Earth people.3.) Service work. Volunteer. Go serve at a soup kitchen or spend some time visiting folks in a nursing home - (esp the dementia wing, as they're typically the “forgotten”) Do something to pull you out of yourself.
Why do I feel like no one likes me even when I do have friends who obviously like me?
I’m gonna give you reality, I don’t sugarcoat my answers.First off let me say that I’ve been through that feeling for majority of my life so far, it wasn’t until about 4–5 years ago I was able to get over that feeling and I’ll tell you how I did it.I took action on things that gave me purpose, I was always making goals. Didn’t matter how short or long, I made a damn goal out of it. what I’m telling you is you gotta start being about your purpose.I don’t know what goals you have or will have, but you need to create some for self improvement. Whether that means going to the gym every other day, studying for that certificate that you’ve been putting off for months or even changing up your wardrobe. Create your world to make you feel good about yourself. Everything starts with YOU. You feel like no one likes you because you’re not as happy with yourself as you could be. you feel like no one likes you because maybe all you do is go to school during the week and sit on the couch all weekend. You feel like no one likes you because maybe you you’re too secluded, how about interacting with people more.Again this is coming from a man whose done it all, I’m not telling you something I don’t know. If I haven’t experienced it, then I won’t speak of it. Get on your grind, stop worrying about those “friends” who won’t call/text you back, worry about YOU. Upgrade your life by any positive means necessary.
I often feel left out like no one likes me?
My whole life I've felt like an outcast. I don't have any best friends just friends i hang out at school with. Majority of my cousins are grown and those that aren't either live in another state or have other plans and don't consider me hanging out with them. I'm either at work or at school. When I'm not at school or work then i'm at home. I'm hardly ever invited anywhere (movies, restaurant, etc.).I'm always asking my mother to go to the movies with me b/c i have no one else to go with. I don't have a boyfriend ,never been in love and never been kissed. I go shopping by myself. There are times that I'm invited to go to the movies with someone or to a sleepover but that's like twice a year. I don't understand whats wrong b/c obviously something is wrong with me (am i ugly? do i smell bad? do i have something on my face?) I can't be ugly b/c every says i should be model (even ppl i dont know. no lie). I love to have fun, love movies, reading, and music. I'm very ambitious, I want to go to college and major in finance, human resources and interior design and become a financial planner/ real estate agent/ interior designer. Have all A's and one C in the devils class AP Language (the teacher is horrible). I know what i want in a boyfriend. And i know i can be great friend. Well i am to my classmates but I'm just waiting for someone to be great friend back. I watch movies all the time and i think that it has alot to do with my head being in the clouds. I want the romantic love you see in romance novels and movies- that has alot to do with my standards for a man. the "IT"boys at school say that I stuck up but really they never spoke to me to know who i truly am. Everyone around me has a boyfriend and go out on weekends which makes me feel lonely and out of place. The only friends i have is music, movies, and books which is kind of depressing. My parents are proud of me b/c i'm so open minded and not one dimensional. I into the green movement and i try to get my parents to be Eco friendly which is very hard b/c we have know ecofriendly clothing stores and whatnot. We just have recycling companies that don't really recycle everything. They oppose composting but i don't what i can. I just hope and pray that my future is so much brighter than my present and past. Any advice you have for me. What do you think is wrong? want more any info just ask.
It seems like no one likes me?
It seems like no one likes me, it's not that I'm mean or snobby, I'm just quiet. I have friends but not very many. People often ask me why I'm so quiet and why I don't talk with people but I don't really know how to answer them, so I get embarrassed. I think I'm so quiet because I was bullied pretty much all my life by older guys and girls so I have very bad trust issues and low self esteem so I kinda got into the habit of thinking "If I don't talk, then they have nothing to make fun of me for". Being quiet upsets me. Like in geometry class, I got moved to a new seat (against my will) and it broke up this group of people who use to always talk. Now whenever they sit down they always say in a sarcastic way "I just LOVE this new seating arrangement" and then glare at me. It makes me feel so pathetic. I shower every day and wear light perfume and deodorant so it can't be that they don't like me because I smell bad, I'm never mean when they ask for help or ask to borrow a pencil or paper, I'm actually very nice and polite, I just don't talk, but is that really a reason to make me feel like an outcast? How can I be more open to people and outgoing when I have already been labeled as the "shy girl"? Because it seems once I think I have been labeled I can't be any other way without people thinking I'm weird or making fun of me behind my back :(
Why does everyone likes me?
wow... u must be having a nightmare...P wake up dudE!
I feel like nobody likes me?
I don't know why but I almost started crying after reading this.:'( I really hate how these people judge others on looks and not on what's really inside. I don't understand why people do this. I know that you really don't get to see someone's personality, you see their looks first. But if you get to know them, maybe they will like you for who you are. I'm sure you are beautiful and I'm sure you do have people that love you. I know that someone does because you sound like such a sweet person and I know exactly how you feel about the bullying. People would call me ugly and tell me I had a big nose to my face. I know I have a big nose it just hurts to know that people honestly care about how you look instead of your personality. So, what you should do, is try to join a club or something. (Outside of school of course, the school you go to sounds like torture) and you should make friends. You should show everyone the real you and I'm sure everyone will love the real you and they won't care about what you look like. The people you are talking about represents how terrible society has become and that is just so sad. I really hope you feel like someone loves you soon. Because someone has to. :') I wish you the best of luck.