I Feel Sad And Lame Answer Plz

What do you do when you feel sad?

If I am sad, I write. If that doesn't work, I read. If that doesn't work either, I go for a walk. If even that fails to ameliorate my state, I talk to one of five best friends.If even that fails to disperse my sadness, I sing and dance on my favourite songs. And, as a last resort when nothing works, I go out for a movie, or for food or for both.But, whatever I do, I don't sit idle, doing nothing. And, sadly, that is what most people do when they are sad. And, that is a blunder. That never helps.When we are doing something, our mind too is engaged into that activity. But, when a person does nothing, their mind is all freed up, thus unoccupied.Ergo, it keeps repeating the same thoughts that made the person sad in the first place. The mind plays those thoughts again and again and again in a loop.And, this further reinforces the sadness into the depths of our head and heart. And, this only exacerbates the condition. It turns us more and more sad and anxious.It captivates and fetters the person in a murky and shady condition which doesn't allow the person to get over the tension. And, that further amplifies sadness.Thus, the key to trash off those sad thoughts is to keep your mind occupied with something.Or anything, but not nothing. Bliss!Edit: Fellow Quoran Rhishita Jha raised a really good point in the comments section. Here is that, and my response to the same just for more clarity:Love,Shilanjan

What should I do if my crush doesn't reply to any of my messages?

Suppose the person is a ‘he’.He is just your crush. Whether you accept it or not, he does not owe you anything, or maybe, no one really owes you anything for that matter.I know it can bruise your ego or make you question yourself, but please, stay calm and be rational. If emotion gets in the way, if you feel upset, don’t do anything yet. Let the emotion pass by and then decide what your next action will be.Move on : he’s sending you a hint that he’s not interested.Know the reason why he’s not replying at all.Stop sending messages.If you really want this person and like to give it a try despite being ignored, then stop sending frequent messages BUT make sure you’re still on his radar. Don’t get lost. Like, if you’re on Facebook, find a time in which you can ‘like’ his status update so he knows you’re still around. I mean, just try and set a time for which you are ready to totally stop it.Express that you like him, it’s up to him if he gets bothered or not.If all else fail, really, now is the time to stop, and finally, move on. You’ve tried enough.All the best,Led

Today is my birthday and no one wished me "Happy birthday." I feel really sad and unimportant. What can I do to make myself feel better?

First of all, Happy birthday, Dear….!!!!Hope you had thanked god to give you another precious year.As come to your question, Birthday is a thing that makes us excited and happy. But it is not necessary that all have to wish you. Sometimes people forgot the day even I forgot my best friend’s birthday. But that doesn’t mean that she doesn’t important in my life. Even we had spend the entire day of her birthday together and I couldn’t remember that this is the day of her birthday. Still, whenever I am in trouble, my mind recall her name first and same for her’s. This happens sometimes, all have not the great power of mind to remember things.Secondly, others are just temporary in your life. Only your parents will stand besides you whenever you are in trouble. So, why we feel sad for not getting wishes from temporary person.Thirdly, our happiness shouldn’t depends on others. If you want to celebrate your happiness you can celebrate by your own. You can do whatever you want to do by your self from dancing to going alone to restaurant.According to me, One should take a blesses from their own parents by touching their legs on their birthday. Because they gives blesses from their heart. One should thanked god for everything what he/she achieved till now. And make a promise to yourself which you want to change in your life. For instance, If u think you are getting angry easily then you can make promise to yourself of not to get angry easily. This things are more important than fake friends.And if you still feel that the person who are important to you doesn’t wish you then you can simply message them and talk with them as usual. Because its your birthday, do whatever which makes you happy.But don’t be dependent on others for anything. Others are just fake. There are rarely people who will stand by you whenever you want them most except parents and siblings. Never feel shy to do things which makes you happy.And you shouldn't worry about the wishes on social media. If you feel bad that no one had wish you on social media, you can erase your birthday from social media. But you shouldn't affect your happiness by such a little things.