I feel alone or lonely all the time?
Even though you are not alone, it is very possible to feel lonely. That's because there is a huge difference between being alone and being lonely. You feel lonely because you don't feel that those around you can truly relate to your own life experiences. How can they though? They have not lived your life. So, its really easy to feel isolated, or disconnected, even though you may be constantly surround by people who love you. These people they do love you...you need to allow them the chance to relate to you by opening your self to those you trust (and i very much recommend that the only people you open yourself to completely is your family - they are the only ones who are guaranteed not to hurt you intentionally) Even though that may be hugely difficult, it really is the only way that they will have a chance to understand you and your perspectives on things...which in turn will help you to not feel so isolated and lonely. What you are feeling and going through is not totally uncommon...and it will take a lot of trust on your part to open yourself up enough to let those around you in more. If you can do it, awesome. If not, then I think that there will always be some amount of isolation felt... take care.
How do i stop feeling so lonely and lost?
why do i feel so lonely and lost? I am a 21year old girl. I have spent my life being perfect. I have just finished a degree and obtained a first class, have got offered scholarship in the subject i love, i've never had problems making friends; when i leave the house, there seems to a million faces to say hello to that i know, i have close friends too, i have a family that love me, and i know this will sound quite conceited and i don't intend it on being so but i am also quite pretty and guys ask me out a lot, although, i have never said yes because i was always too consumed with studies. My life from the outside seems perfect. I have so many people around me and yet i feel so alone. I feel lost within myself. Even when i talk to friends or family, i nod and smile, but in my head i feel like i am a million miles away, an island of my own making. these days it pains me to smile because i know it is lie. Nobody seems to know me or understand the real me anymore. And my biggest problem is that i don't even know myself anymore. Why do i feel so lonely? and how do i stop feeling this way? this sense of numbness is shattering me. Please help! Thanks :)
I live in Kota and feel so lonely I have know one to tell my problems others make use of my resources and time and never help me I need to focus but I feel so sad. What should I do?
God is helping you to understand something.Actually the issue is with the place you live with your brain which only see outside world and thinks it's reality.There is nothing real than god. None on earth ever achieved the sense of reality. The surrounding creates a negative energy aura that people often start feeling low. It's similar to haunted house experience.Kota is similar, too much success and failure stories takes a person into Maya .Whats Maya : Scientifically Maya is a negative communication between a organised mind , Logician mind and the brain. When electromagnetic fringes are in same frequency and in same phase, these are substractive in nature. And it accumulates the negative energy in ego mind. And all these happens what exactly happening with you.I don't know much about how mature you are in inner engineering but the truth I can say you is GOD is opposite of expectations, and in-phase with big dreams, and faith.Keep moving very soon you will get greater than.
If problems come together all at the same time, how should one face that situation? Many times, we stop talking to others and feel alone, etc.
When you are with problems you can't get a good sleep, can't concentrate on your work, started to worry too much which will affect your health as well your relationship to overcome this just prioritize the problems. Which problem will cause or affect you the worst should be in top of priority list. One by one and slove it. Understanding the cause of the problems will help to get the solution of it. Moreover you will be in stage of “Misomaniac” started to hate everything and everyone without a reason. Share the problems with experienced persons in life they will have solutions. Get the help of your parents, siblings last but not least FRIENDS!!! They are the natural remedies.This is what I do when I'm down. Just give a try destory your problems to reach your destiny. Take care and All the best. :)
Im 13 and i feel alone and depressed?
Well, since when i was 6 years old my parents got divorced so by the age of 7 i had to grow up really fast i had to be resposible and take care of my brother while my mom worked.I think that i started to feel depressed when i was 9 but i wasn't depressed almost all the time.But at the age oof 11 i felt alot of times depressed.well my closest friend said"i don't like u"i feel so sad i thought maybe my friends hate me too,i was so sad i was was about 2 cry in one of my classes.Since when i was 7 i stopped crying, but inside i feel so empty, alone and i wanna cry and scream but i don't but i keep stuff bottled up inside, i feel that like there's no one that i could talk 2 i have no best friend,i wanted to kill myself at the age 10 but didn't bc it would cause problems to my mom and brother.i feel useless,pathetic,alone.I don't tell my mom about how i feel. I have been thinking a little about cutting myself but i haven't done it.what should i do?I feel so alone
I feel so alone at school :( ?
I had difficulty with my freshman year, too. I'm a sophomore now. None of my best friends went to my school because we had all moved away from each other. It was tough, and I failed miserably... and because of it I'm retaking half my classes and balancing two English classes at the same time. Someone say "ew..." Find a club to hang out with after school... like I didn't belong to the art club but my freshman year I went up there everyday to help with the sets they made for plays. I made some new friends and a lot of people with the same common interests as me. I compliment people a lot, even ones I don't know and some people are like "omigawssh, did you even know her?" and I would say no.. but sometimes being on the other end of is nice... with how critical your school is I wouldnt do that until you were remotely close to someone. You said your friends ditch you, go sit with them and their other friends and make new ones? Ask them for help? I'm a social butterfly.. at lunch time I table hop to talk to friends and make new ones. The fact that people are your school insult you like that disgusts me. I never wear real brands. Wal Mart and Ho Topic are the only places I shop. Shoe size is something that cant be helped... and the makeup? I hardly wear any at all... so I don't know what to tell you there. I like how you handle your anger though. You don't seem to take it out on other people.. instead you take care of it the way you're supposed to. You have to change your mindset if all else fails. School is like your job... and at your job it's best to pay attention to your work. Ignore your coworkers because they will only cause drama and distract you. After school is when you can have time to yourself and friends. Or do the "I am me and am not here to please anyone but myself. If you have a problem, deal. Get over it." If you have myspace you can add me if you want to talk more. myspace.com/ukena3824
I always feel so alone. I spend so much time making other people happy and I forget about myself. I'm always available for people to talk to me about their problems, so why will no one help me with mine?
Hi, I'm sorry you feel so alone and I think you're going to have to do a bit of work and self reflection to fix this problem. First, I agree with Jeffery in asking, do people know you feel alone? Or do you put on a front, act happy, and well taken care of. If you don't tell anyone you have needs, they don't feel the need to address them. Since you like to help people, this might be a possibility. I know for many giving and caring personality types, they hide their needs and hurts so that they don't put upon others, but, most people actually like being put upon! They like when you open up so they can feel included in your life. I don't know enough about you to know how accurate this is for you, but it's something seriously worth thinking about. Also, reflect on the people you are currently helping and why. Do they truly deserve your help? Or do you just give to everybody and thus attract needy types who don't give back. If a lot of your interactions are one-sided, realize that and start to back away. Again, people who are givers tend to attract takers, and this can leave you feeling empty and used and that is never good. It's good to give, but only to people and in ways that give back to you. If you're not getting anything back from what you're doing now, (and if you're sad, I'm assuming you're not) realize that and start making changes. And finally, again, I agree with Jeffery in saying you have to get out there! Pay attention to what does make you happy and what kind of social interactions make you come alive. Do you prefer deep, intimate conversations? Big parties? Card games and sports banter? Intellectual debates? Friendly gossip? Start talking to people and notice who you want to keep talking to and why and also when you're not engaged and just being pleasant. If you find your mind wandering and just want a convo to end, this isn't the social interaction for you, and that's fine. This takes some work and can be a bit daunting, but, if you're already in a bad place, know that moving in any direction is progress because it's getting you closer to a good place, even if you're just ruling other "no" options at first, knowing what you don't want also just gets you closer to knowing what you do want. Best of luck!
Like being alone but hate feeling lonely?
When I'm alone I want time to find myself and find out more than I can grasp regularly through a question in class work debates or online because there's always another answer to something or opinion and so much to learn. For me being alone is working on projects looking at philosophy of life and improving what I am not for other people necessarily but for myself so I can be a better person. When I'm alone I feel so close to myself as I might never feel with someone else which can't be matched sometimes even with a deep connection and love for someone else. When you're with people you don't exactly find yourself sometimes, even most times you appease them in one way or another and you don't attune to yourself and they don't see your opinion sometimes, you don't feel close to yourself. This doesn't always happen and it depends on the person you are also depending on if your just being yourself openly or not. Of course the feeling of being with someone else is nice because you get feedback laughs like minded opinions and general friendship and at least I feel the need to be with other people but I don't have to be with them all the time.
Never had a boyfriend and feel lonely.... PLEASE ANSWER! =]?
lol...i don't mean laughing at u, i mean lol because this sound like my life hitting replay pretty much aside the divorce, my parents are still together and i like drawing and painting not theater...n e ways, i feel a lot better about myself I'm 23 as of a few days ago...i was the class nerd/shy girl. i felt i was fat and ugly at age 14-19...i have the exact same body type as u now...its called a woman's body, u just matured into it a little faster, i did the same...i used to wait for things and i didn't have a bf until i was almost 18...i had chances to get one but i never jumped on them until i hit mister right which was the first hit...i had such bad body issues, i did what ur gonna do, the diet pill and excessive gym, and starving myself as well...anorexic id say...it was about 6 days a week that i only ate a bag of chips and a diet coke with water...yeah it got that bad but it was earlier when i was a junior in high school, so 16-17...i did it til i was 18 and some odd months...my bf basically knocked back the sense into that ridiculousness and because it was such bad eating habits, it caused me to gain weight just eating like i should, and then some...but ive recently come to terms about a year ago, that i love myself and i want to treat it the best i can, i don't care if I'm this weight forever, i want to be healthy inside and out and that is my main priority...my aunt died suddenly of a brain anurism and shortly after my uncle died of diabetes...my cousin whom im close with is dating a loser guy that absolutely no one likes even my cousins therapist doesnt like him with her lol,... but yeah...i dont usually do this, but u can email me, because i basically just heard my life story from u lol...im a lot more confident, i speak up more, im still a bit shy, im a lot more accepting of myself inside and out...and dont worry about a bf...u have to look when u want one, but make sure he is a great oustanding guy that u can get along really great with...and i even had a guy that was "just a friend" even tho we were close and i was attracted to, yet he wasnt feelin before i met my current bf, and its not like im gonna get married in a long while, well at leat for me, i want a house, stability and the ability to pay in full for the wedding i want with out getting into debt.
Why do I hate being around people but at the same time feel extremely lonely?
Sound like Social Anxiety,I found this post searching google for the very same question that you posted.Earlier today I took my mother and nana out for sunday lunch and just as the meal arrived I had to quickly apologise and rush out in tears - I had a panic attack.I left my job of 12 years in February due to social anxiety ,I just couldn’t stand being around people ,the smallest selfish things people do would wind me up and ruin my day.I’m on a waiting list for CBT therapy and in the meantime I spend most of my time alone in my bedroom ,I feel so lonely and have to make myself go out but then Im a panicky mess.Theres a lot of good advice on Social Anxiety Disorder on Youtube ,hope this helps.