I feel so lonely and sad all the time?
i am 18, female. i pass most of my time alone by imagining things or just listening to music. i don't have any friends. i've been friendless pretty much my entire life. all i do all day(everyday) is sit in my bedroom. i find it very difficult to even go outside and try to make friends. i haven't been outside to just take a walk in 4 years(main reason for that is because my parents never really allowed me to go outside, not alone anyways...but im 18 now so....). i have poor social skills, and social anxiety, it sucks. i never know what to say to people. i mostly just say ''yeah'' and ''okay'' and ''oh'' ...anyway, im so lonely and i don't know what to do. i sometimes just want to die, and end the pain. i feel like a little girl trapped in a cage. i hate my appearance, and my personality. everyone around me is so much prettier than me. i feel worthless & useless. i sometimes cut myself, and i am deeply ashamed of it. i've been crying on and off all day today. i am not close with my family, other than my oldest brother that is, but he's almost never home, he is always out somewhere doing drugs or something. well i am somewhat close with my oldest sister, as well. but i hardly ever get to see her since we live 5 hours apart... anyway, how can i stop feeling this way? thanks. by the way, i asked this question once already but would like to get a few more answers..
I have no friends and I feel so lonely?
Yeah as the title says I have no friends. I have a ton of acquaintances though but I don't consider them my actual friends. I'm an extrovert and an introvert at times. But since the summer is arriving I've been more on the extrovert side, but I usually am not available to hang out with people because my parents are always at work. I don't know what to do, I'm always bored. Any advice?
I feel so lonely, I don't have any friends, what should I do?
Learn how to enjoy the loneliness.You don’t need a best friend/partner always around you to be happy. You just need to learn how to enjoy the company of yourself. No one in this world can understand you better than yourself. You’re your best friend.You can spend time by doing the things you love. You can just go to a movie alone. If you like kids, you can visit an orphanage near your home and spend some time with them there. You can read books or listen to music.There are plenty of things out there in this world we are yet to learn/experience. Just being sad doesn’t make progress or take you anywhere.Explore yourself and the world.Thank You :)
What should we do when we feel lonely and don't know who to talk to?
You feel lonely OR you can just be alone.You feel lonely because you are incomplete internally, you wanna find someone to fill the gap of your heart. It's just like walking in winter, and there is a loophole of your clothes, cold wind blows into your vulnerable body through that hole. You really want to cover it up.BUT, YOU DON'T NEED TO.Loneliness is gift and a guild to the road of being alone. Being alone means that you are complete. There's no trauma or gap need to be repaired in yourself. You don't need anyone to fulfill you. It does not mean that you can't make friends, in fact, only a person who is alone can make friends. Because making friends is no longer a kind of need, it becomes a sort of share. You are inner-completed and fulfilled, so you can share.If you feel lonely and don't know who to talk to, then, don't talk.You just enjoy your loneliness, don't escape no matter what bitterness it may brings to you. Kahlil Gibran wrote it in his book, 'The deeper that sorrow carves into your being ,the more joy you can contain'.If you feel lonely, enjoy this feeling. It's a way to make you strong, to become better and better,^^.But if you are really sad and want someone to be there with you, you can talk to me, anytime. I will be there.
I feel lonely, but I don't want to make friends. Why?
I’ll speak for myself here, even though the question is about you.Question: I feel lonely, but I don't want to make friends. Why?My experiences with people haven’t been overly positive. I find that I don’t have a lot in common with the people I meet. I don’t share their values, or their sense of humour, or their tastes in music. However, interacting with people did prove essential for my mental health.My first successful solution at this was social dancing — Argentine Tango specifically. I got to interact with people, and dance with women, but I didn’t have to feign interest in their lives or tell them about mine. After 4 years though people had become too friendly and I couldn’t handle the stress of it so I dropped tango. But I now knew what I needed - a niche social group that I can drop in on at regular intervals. So now, every fortnight, I hang out with some science-fiction & fantasy fans. Yes, I’ll never be invited to birthday drinks or something with any of them because of my distant personality, but I get along fine with them and them with me as long as we talk about geeky things. This has proven so far to be a good balance — and if the conversation turns to something else, I don’t fear being mute and listening along.
I feel very lonely and have nobody to talk to. What should I do?
We all have that time when there's actually nobody you know. We all are often in a state that we have something to secret from others.That's where we actually start to think that “I have nobody to share this to :(”And I get it, it's hard at times to share a particular think to a particular person. And that's how you end up feeling lonely. You think that you dont have the right people to actually share things to.And I understand that feeling. I've been there too. But when it was and still is my time, I think that all the people who know me act like they're busy. Act like they just don't have time to care. So o actually used to blow off those moments by listening to eminem songs and sooner of later, they went away.But it doesn't have to be like that to you. You see, we feel lonely because we don't have someone to share. But what if you never had to feel like that? Loneliness is a state of mind. And it's actually natural to feel lonely. But what we don't know is, loneliness can be used.Huh, how can loneliness be used? You drunk or something man?? — question like this may arise innyour kind But just know that when I'm writing this answer for you, its its 7.30 in the morning, heavily raining outside. Everyone in the house is sleeping, and I have a test 3 hours later. But who gives a shit? Im here to help people :)I'm not gonna say to kanipulate your mind and feel like your not lonely. Instead Im gonna say, there are many people like myself who actually share their feelings and become friends. Now, there are infinite sources of friends.People are also friendly even at facebook. But we all are not in the same situation.So for you, I could specially recommend, exercise. Exercise your body and mind.You see you have time in your hand to express feelings. That's actually a resource for you. How?Use that time and get to know something new about the world, get to know some new people. You feel lomeky because you're surrounded by people who make you feel lonely.Use that time to grow up a passion, a hobby, somethjng that interests you. If it's reading a book, the next time you feel lonely, that's when you remember “It's time for me to read my favourite book.” That's the happiest ways you can deal with this. :)And last of all, I'd say dont be a negative minded person. If situation always pulls negativity, surround that with your positity because the people who fight hard to remove it, are actually the ones who truly bring a change in it :)Hope you have a wonderful day ^^
I feel so lonely in this world and I dont know why. What is the solution for me?
Truly and sincerely you are not alone in feeling so alone. There is a loneliness epidemic going on right now that is rarely talked about. The internet is largely the cause. And cell phones. Ironically. Things meant to connect us and turn us into a global village have stripped us of our humanity and robbed us of our tangible community.Before the internet and cell phones people had to leave their houses to socialize. Now we are connecting emotionally with strangers and identifying, envying etc....without moving or body language....it's a new age and it hasn't been happening long enough to have true knowledge based statistics, basically we are in the process of learning what side effects all this technology will have on our species.Feel good and sleep well knowing your instincts are keeping you alert to social parameters it means your intelligent and healthy. Enjoy those feelings, accept them as a friend letting you know the world is undergoing a social evolution process and you like everyone else is biologically adjusting your caveman DNA to safely live and survive this era. Sending hugs...or am I?
I'm 15, I'm really lonely, I feel like crying all the time, I don't know how to make friends?
Hi, I'm a 15 year old girl. I always thought I was one of the popular, pretty girls but lately I've been realizing that I don't really have any friends. I don't know how I can make friends? I'm really upset and depressed. When I text my friends and ask if they want to meet up with me and stuff they always say they're busy or cancel on me last minute, when I'm all dressed up and supposed to be meeting them. I get really upset because I'll text them and then I realize they've all been invited out somewhere and they all forget to invite me, they do this all the time. I'm really nice to them, and I'm not a geek or anything so I don't know why I feel so unaccepted amongst theyre group. I don't have this problem when I'm at school but know it's the holidays I feel really unpopular. Sometimes I'll text my friends and they just won't bother replying. When I ask why they haven't replied they say they couldn't be bothered or just make up some excuse. My best friend hasn't answered her phone, been on her facebook or conacted anyone in ages. My other best friend always acts like she has a great time with me and then I'll ask her if she want's to go out again and she says she's busy!! I've been really ill for ages, so haven't been able to go out. It's like now i've gotten better everyones just shut me out of they're lives. I don't know what to do, I'm spending my summer indoors reading books and watching films... I'm so lonely :'-(
I feel lonely being single and I hate it!! HELP?
Most of the time, I'm not like this and I usually don't care if I have a boyfriend or not, but lately, I've been feeling really lonely. I don't know why, but I just am. I've never been in a serious relationship, and I want the feeling of being with that special someone. Does anyone else feel like this? :( I don't want to be desperate, so how can I get rid of this feeling??