I think my dad is having an affair?
First, theres nothing wrong with your picture, its pretty, dont pay any attention theres alot of jealous people on here... I Know its hurtful but you really need to tell your mom, she will find out sooner or latter and its better to find out now, your dads getting by with having your mom and something on the side and its not fair to your mom, she thinks everythings fine when its not, I know you said that the last time it hurt the whole family but its something you gotta do, dont let your mom be a fool for him any longer, she deserves to get out of that mess and find someone that will love and respect her like she desreves...they say once a chreater allways a cheater and its usually true, he got by with it once and now hes feeling like the cat that ate the canary because hes getting his cake and eating it to....I would tell my mom right away, talk to your brothers and sisters and just explain to then how your mom being with your dad is hurtful to her not a good thing, im sure when they realise what your dads about they will see its for the best for her to be away from him....good luck and I hope your mom finds hapiness soon
Should I tell my dad, I caught my mom having an affair?
Im in college but I just happend to come home on Springbreak.. which I informed both parents I would.. my dad is a CEO of an advertising company.. so of course he was out of town, but I walked in the house like I had every right too and I said out loud hey im home... I headed upstairs tapped on my parents room door, cause I heard music thought mom was napping, but oh was she napping anyway I walked in to see her having sexual relations with another man who WASNT my dad I called her a stupid b.. and left shes been calling me crying all on my voicemail, telling me she was sorry that shed hurt me to please call her back.. I do feel a little bad for calling her a b.. but after all my dad has done for us all the sleepless nights he's had, 18 hour working days so he could pay for me and my younger brothers and sisters to go to college so she could stay dressed nice in Armani and Prada and this is how she repays him.. All I want to know should I tell or not.. I have a 2 sibs one 8, one 16
What should I do if I find out that my dad is having an affair?
The best thing to do would be to have a private conversation with your father where you can discuss the matter freely and honestly. Go to an empty park, or someplace private where you won’t be interrupted, and where there is no chance of your mother overhearing the conversation.When you talk to your father, do not be confrontational or judgmental. Simply tell him what you know (or what you THINK you know), and ask for his side of the story. He might be angry and say that it’s not your business—and he’s not completely wrong, but you should reply that you don’t wish to invade his privacy, but circumstances have made you involved now and that has to be addressed.Encourage him to be honest, and reassure him that you won’t judge him. You need to understand that affairs do not happen in a vacuum. Very often, there are circumstances that manifest in extramarital affairs, even among people who, themselves, would never have imagined that they would be involved in one in a million years. One need only spend a little time reading the posts on the Reddit forum “Dead bedrooms” to see a LOT of married people who were driven to affairs out of desperation and pain. Or, maybe your parents have agreed to have an open marriage. This is not something that they would have felt the need to inform you of, and they would have made an effort to keep that hidden as well.It is also possible, of course, that your father is simply being dishonorable (i.e. he is forsaking his marriage vows and his family for purely hedonistic reasons). Whatever the case may be, you will have to decide how to proceed. I will emphasize, again, to try not to be judgmental. As I said before, many people who end up having an affair would never have thought they would ever end up doing something like that. And you never know what difficult circumstances you will face, in some unknown future, where you could end up doing something you never imagined you would do. It is truly a case of, “There, but for the grace of God, go I.”I hope everything works out for you and your family. Good luck!
I'm having an affair with my best friend's dad and the guilt is killing me. What should I do?
Sweetie, You are not horrible or anything just a woman and he is what older men are like. If you think you are the only younger woman involved with a older guy - you can relax - many young girls and women seek out older guy exactly because they have class, are exceptionally sexually skilled thanks to years to practice and they have enough wealth to be fun. You can ride this ride as far as it will go if you wish but he is not leaving the wife for you but he - ia am sure actually like you - enjoys you. No you are not in love but infatuated - also very normal. Ask him about the wife and what she would think if you wish - eh will tell you and make your own choices
My husband accused me of having affair with brother?
I would have to say that you all need to try some counseling.... There are obviously some things going on that you can not put your finger on... It could be insecurities from things that happened before you all even got married that he has not discussed with you (that occurred in his family....) That could range from his confidence or an event that occurred that has caused him to feel threatened.... The whole issue with the strip club and stuff is something that needs to be addressed as well....via counseling.... I fear that there is some type of sexual misconception or notion that your husband may have that he has not quited connected with because of something that he is dealing with in his life.... Because...all of the issues are focused around sex...or sex like issues.... So, try that and see what happens, but I think that it worth addressing because you all have a great marriage outside of the issues that you have addressed here (as I picked up from your outline) But, when someone has that in their mind, it is hard for you to convince them otherwise, because the situation has been created in their mind With the mind being so powerful...I would suggest some type of intervention...that could help communicate and mediate the issues that are being misinterpreted....
My mom is having an affair again. My dad knows nothing about it. What should I do?
You have been placed in a position that no child should have to address with their parent(s). I am so sorry and my heart goes out to you. To be sure, this is grown folks business. On the other hand it is never okay to apologize to anyone JUST to win favor or made to feel guilty about someone else's inappropriate conduct, especially a parent. Try again to talk with your Mom, let her know what you are experiencing based on what you witnessed. Tell her you love her and that you love your Dad equally and it hurts. Let her know you need her but you can't hold this inside or go through it again and need her help. Next stop you will need to talk about your feelings with your Dad.
Is it wrong to have an affair with my boss?
so my boss and i have been having an affair for about a year now. at first, it was super awkward but i liked it and as we got deeper into it, i genuinely care about the guy. im not in love with him. i just like him. his wife is a crazy psycho *****. she cheats on him and treats him like **** which has driven him to be with other women. he stays with her because they have kids. and even though she cheats, she doesnt want a divorce. which ultimately led to him cheating and finding happiness in other places. im definitey not the first affair, and i know i wont be his last. so one time about six months ago, i told him i couldnt do it anymore. it was making me feel guilty. she followed us one time and found out where i lived and tried stalking me. it was stressing me out. she wanted him to fire me. it was just bad. so anyway, he told her he wasnt going to fire me and lied that he wasnt sleeping with me and tried to get me to keep doing it. eventually i caved and we still sleep together to this day. i finally told someone and they went off on me about ruining his marriage (even though its already clearly ruined) and then contributing to his children having problems when (if) they find out that their dad was having an affair. basically putting me down saying i was a horrible person. i just dont feel like i care about his wife. if his wife was a sweet lady that worked on her marriage instead of putting him down when he tries to bring her flowers or take her places or listen to her (hes an awesome person, shes a brat) then i would definitely have a problem sleeping with him and i wouldnt do it. but shes not. shes crazy. she doesnt deserve him. i make him happy. she doesnt. he would be with her instead of me if she didnt drive him away. thoughts? please dont be rude either. i know i need to stop this affair because it is getting to me. have any of you had an affair before? what happened? why did it stop? did you feel bad? how was the wife? thank you ladies.
If you found out your dad had an affair with another woman, what would you do? I really don't want my parents to divorce, but should I support it?
When I was about 11 or so, me and my father shared an email account. It was his personal account that I also used for the purposes of using the internet.One time, there was an email from a woman I didn’t know, thanking him for the time they had together and bla bla. I was too young to realize what it was, so I just thought it was a mistake and deleted it. A couple of years later, it finally clicked on me. But I never told anything. I figured it was something they would work out on their own, being adults. And thus far they were both excellent parents.More years later, my parents got divorced. I never told my parents about it, and to this day they don’t suspect I knew.So, the thing is, you can’t stop a divorce between your parents from happening. Sometimes it is the better solution. In your situation, the proverbial manure has already hit the fan, and it’s time to deal with the situation. If you don’t say anything, the situation will resolve itself eventually. If you say something, your parents might not appreciate you getting into their business.Your parents should definitely talk about it. This is something they need to fix. So just tell your mother she needs to talk to dad about this situation, without mentioning the affair. Just that you are worried about the house, and want them to work it out. That will give her the hint.