I feel weird wearing a bikini around dad/brothers?
So basically, it's kind of summer already and it seems like the only swimsuits that fit me are bikinis. The one pieces and tankinis just don't fit my body very well. So naturally, i would want to wear a bikini more. But there's a slight problem. I don't feel comfortable wearing a bikini around my brothers and my dad. It just feels..weird!! Just exposing my body like that i guess. I have no problem in front of my mom. And not so much my brothers. Its more my dad. I don't know. It's just awkward. I have no problem around males not in my family.
I feel weird wearing a bikini around my dad?
Alright, so I am 16 and wearing a bikini this year.. I have a good body and Im not saying that to brag. But I have pretty big boobs, 32DD. I got a swimsuit from VS because I thought they were cute and my mom helped me choose one thats not too revealing. I got a halter top with normal bikini bottoms. The halter top has some push up but I can take it out. Even still though, my boobs look very big. We go camping in the summer and I will be wearing this bikini around my dad and lots of our friends (which im fine with because the other girls wear them too) but there will boys there and I am NOT trying to impress them. I just wanted a cute bikini, and I got very large boobs from last summer to this summer so I'm not sure what to do about feeling weird around my dad. I don't want to get a new suit because my mom says its not too revealing and it looks cute but she even agrees my boobs are big.. How can I not feel weird around my dad whilst in a bikini???? thank you all!
I feel weird wearing a bikini around my dad?
Alright, so I am 16 and wearing a bikini this year.. I have a good body and Im not saying that to brag. But I have pretty big boobs, 32DD. I got a swimsuit from VS because I thought they were cute and my mom helped me choose one thats not too revealing. I got a halter top with normal bikini bottoms. The halter top has some push up but I can take it out. Even still though, my boobs look very big. We go camping in the summer and I will be wearing this bikini around my dad and lots of our friends (which im fine with because the other girls wear them too) but there will boys there and I am NOT trying to impress them. I just wanted a cute bikini, and I got very large boobs from last summer to this summer so I'm not sure what to do about feeling weird around my dad. I don't want to get a new suit because my mom says its not too revealing and it looks cute but she even agrees my boobs are big.. How can I not feel weird around my dad whilst in a bikini???? thank you all!
I get weird vibes around my dad?
Not weird. I have overbearing parents and feel the same way...cause they ARE analyzing and inspecting me at all times. Nutballs. They pick pick pick and drive me crazy because they want me to operate at full potential. Part of me knows they love me and want the best for me and part of me acknowledges that im a reflection on them.
Why do I feel awkward around my dad?
Your dad probably adores you, especially if you are turning to look like your mom. Then he would be remembering the times when he first fell in love with her.I watched in awe of my son and daughters when they were turning into beautiful and handsome people. It is an amazing feeling that we, the parebts, who created these tiny tots and now become full grown human beings. I am sure your dad has looked at you adoringly since you were a baby.On the dark side of the story, i know of a father who fell in love with his daughter. She would be hiding in her closet, petrified, in her dorm because dad was downstairs longingly calling for her.So not to make you paranoid; know the boundaries between parents-children. Appropriate touches is ones that you get to decide. Other than that, he is the man who loves you since you were born.
Whenever I'm around my family (mom, dad and two brothers) I feel depressed and pissed off all the time. What could be causing these feelings?
“Whenever I'm around my family (mom, dad and two brothers) I feel depressed and pissed off all the time. What could be causing these feelings?”This is the exact way I'm feeling in my house so I'm going anonymous to answer. My parents have been together off and on for years. My dad has a temper and gets annoyed over small things often. My mom gets annoyed at his actions but won't leave him. This in turn leaves me to feel anxiety every time we are home at the same time, always wondering when the bomb will go off. For four and a half months out of the year when I'm home from school break I feel nervous and depressed. I've noticed that I have started to have an attitude and I get annoyed and pissed off very quick when I'm at home.You might be feeling this way for many reasons.Do you resent your family for their actions on a daily basis or a major action one or all of them did that massively affected you?Are you so different from them that you can't agree on anything and it causes fights?If your family is the open kind where you can talk to them about your feelings un-judged you should do so. If they aren't, I suggest you find a way to see a counselor or psychologist and talk to them about how your feeling. They can help you figure out why your feeling this way and how to deal with it.I know exactly how you feel and it sucks. I have learned to deal with my feelings by reading and staying silent. I don't say anything that could trigger my father or mother to be set off. I let them tell eachother when something happens that I know they won't like. I find reasons to go into my room for as many hours as possible. If you have yet to graduate high school, you will feel immensely better once you start and live on campus. Your emotions are like night and day. If you are in college but commute, then I would suggest seeing if you can start living on campus and see how much more it would cost. If it's too expensive, try and see if you can live with a friend. If you do online college then I suggest staying in your room for as long as possible and move out as soon as possible. You will feel better eventually.
I feel uncomfortable around older men?
That's an undeserved sensation for a young lady (...& countless others) of your nature Sherr. Be proud of yourself for clutching the instinct to erase that continuous fear - then proceed into the most applicable direction. Initially talk with a trusted Doctor & request a referral to a specialist who can share conversation with you. That person may persuade you to delve into portions of your past in the likely hood of opening a personally closed 'closet'. That conversation may restore memories that go back to your infancy which may present an issue that you have chosen to store within an 'emotional vault'. It is of paramount importance that I point out to you that I'm not a professional in that field - that being the reason that I firmly recommend that you explore the possibilities that await you. Thankfully the burden that you have carried throughout may well be erased in a nature that exceeds temporary 'band-aid' treatment - providing you with your DESERVED placidity as you stride into a more serene future!
I don't feel comfortable around my dad. What should I do?
That's a toughy. First, realize that your dad is not perfect: just like EVERYONE else on this friggin' globe. Then, when you have one or two topics to talk to him about (maybe, even, some things to ask his advice about), ask him when a good time might be to talk. If he offers to do it right then, ask him if you can turn off the TV and have x amount of time. Then, have a conversation. It is awkward probably because both of you find it awkward. One thing to recognize is that both of you are not conversation experts. But, what you will be doing is helping both of you to develop these skills. The thing many young and old people do not realize is that parents teach their children and children teach their parents. As a recently retired teacher, I can tell you this as a hard-ass fact! My students were my teachers always, as I was theirs. Cheers!
I feel scared, nervous and uncomfortable around my dad.....?
When he is home, I feel VERY tense and nervous and scared and just very uncomfortable, I just feel TENSE. I stay in my room until he goes to bed and then I go downstairs to make dinner. I remember growing up I would get hit and he would say to my mom "I WANT MY KIDS TO BE SCARED OF ME" and his mission is accomplished. I LOVE my mom, so much, but I feel like I am being pushed away from her. I would love to live with my mom until older because my mom always says how she never wants me to move out of home until I 100% have financial security, a house of my own, kids, etc....., we are very close, but I just cannot be around him, he complains so much, he is so controlling, especially towards the women of the family, he cannot take responsibility for his problems and blames other people, he complains SO SO SO MUCH and shouts for hours about anything, I don't even feel like I have a dad, just a really annoying man who will not get out of the house. I feel like he tries to annoy us, his a Libra and apparently Libra's love to argue and my gosh, he loves to argue and you can't win the argument either :\ Ugh, what should I do? You can't speak to him, him and my brother are the same, it goes in one ear and out the other, I don't even want to waste my breath but my mom had an amazing relationship with her dad and she is basically forcing me to be close to my dad but it's NOT happening, I cannot get along with hi............
Why do i feel weird about my dad dating someone my age?
i love my dad but he has never ever done the right thing when it comes to dating. he has had at least 20 girlfriends - not counting the random extra women- coming in and out of his life and therefore my life. he forces a relationship between the woman and me. it has always bothered me and im almost certain that that is the reason i cannot open up to any men in my own dating life. but its never been to this degree. he is now dating "Talking to" someone who is my age (22). he is 51. i am so incredibly bothered by this but i cant form any words as to why. all i know is that im mad, sad, and feel like im about to cry. it just feels so inappropriate. please help . i have no one to talk to. no siblings. and the things i have shared with my friends have made them change their views on my dad- if i tell them this they will really look at him different. i dont want anyone i know to know this is going on.