Naming your kid/ cursed names/heres my story ?
i was named joan- i hate the name because my aunt joan beat her kids so bad- i would hear the screaming from their house- and they are now retarded- i kid you not/ my f-n parents never reported her either/ why would they- my dad used to beat the crap out of us- also i lost a 5 year old son/ a fat women t boned our car- she didn't stop at a stop sign and my name was all over the newspaper- i felt like my name was cursed- so on my birth certificate i got my name corrected to marilyn- family still calls me joan though- but on my new birth certificate is marilyn/ so i kept the same social security number and got my name changed on it/ i actually got 2 card one with joan one with marilyn- same social security number though- but i have 2 drivers license- i kept trying to explain but they didn't get it so i took my drivers test again and wound up with 2 licenses- my insurance is under the name joan- ss keeps going with joan because when i was married it was joan- and people act funny towards me because i lost a kid- like it is contagious- if i ask to hold their baby they get this look- so i snapped a few years ago- and was in the hospital/ i know exactly what i have done with my name and identity- am i using this to cope with issues on the death of my son and if i would manage to have another kid since i have secondary infertility how am i to explain all this to the hospital, because i would want marilyn on the birth certificate not joan and when i die i want marilyn on my tombstone- not joan/ joan got beat/ joan got married and had kids/ joans kid got killed/ joans husband cheated and had a affair/ and joan left and divorced/ i hate joan- and i hate the biblical meaning of the name- gods greatest gift/ i named my son jeramiah- i think biblical names are cursed! i named my daughter heather she is fine and it isn't biblical.
My father died when I was 8 yrs old.I named my son in Honor of him. My boyfriends mom?
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If my father dies , who is entitled to his estate, his wife only ?
If he does not have a living will, then yes, his wife is entitiled to his estate in it's entirety, but you can contest it. When my father passed away last year, everything was left to my mother, who I love dearly, but who has managed to sell and spend about everything my father had worked so hard to have. But I do recall being asked by the family attorney to sign something stating that I would not contest the will. I signed it because I really had no reason not to, but I would be EXTREMELY careful when signing anything after your father passes. You may be signing off any rights you may have to any part of his estate. Death's in a family change the family forever. Sometimes it brings them closer, sometimes it tears them apart. My family fell apart for a long time after daddy died and we are just now starting to come back to speaking terms with one another. I pray for strength for you and your family through this very tough time. I pray if there are things that belong to your father that have a special place in your heart that your step-mom will understand that she is his wife, but he is the only real daddy you will ever have in this world and will give you those things. If not, remember, they are just things and the most important things you will every get from your dad has nothing to do with posessions. Your laugh, some of the things you do and say, the way you interpret things..... I see those things in me that are just like my dad. No one can ever take those special things from me and my dad. God Bless you.
I have a confession to make. Now what I’m about to tell you is embarrassing.My first name is Harry. Stop laughing, it gets worse. My name is Harry Thomas Michael FitzJohn. I’m nearly bald.I confronted my mother why in hell was I ‘blessed’ with these names. She said she always wanted my first name to be Michael but was pressured to name me Harry which is my grandfathers name. Thomas is my biological dads name who was officially out of my life when I was nine years old.I’ve only had to use the name Harry once when I was in the Army. They will only use the first name that’s on your birth certificate.My mother loved the name Michael and that’s good enough for me.My name is Michael and I’m sticking to it but don’t ever say I haven’t shared probably the most embarrassing thing in my life.
How do I find my Biological Father with no info?
I have recently found out that the man who raised me is not my bio father. He has been an excellent dad and spoiled me and raised me as his own. But I want to find my bio father. I dont think I want to talk to him or have a relationship. I just want to know who he is, what he looks like and what kind of person he is. He knows I exsist. We live in a small town and I just want to know if I walk past him in the street. I have asked my parents who he is but they have not answered my question. We are not a 'talk-about-your-feelings' sort of family and our relationship has been even more strained since I found out. I fully believe that they would have never told me if I hadnt found out by accident. I have found out a few small bits of info from other family members. My parents married when I was 18 months. I *assume* this was when the legal adoption started. I have been told that the court requested that my bio father had to give up all parental responsibilty for me and I was temporarily made a ward of court (not taken into care or anything) Does this mean that his name is listed somewhere on some sort of legal document...and where would I find it? I can't get a copy of my original birth certificate. I know that i was named as my mothers maiden name. Does this mean he wont be listed on the birth certificate? Or can he be on there and I still have my mothers last name? All I have seen my whole life is a revised birth certificate with my current name on it. I had never seen any other type of certificate before and had to need to question/verify it. Any help would be appreceated. I dont know where to start. All the websites I have come accross dont seem to have any help or answers.
What to name my brothers daughter?
Konan? Sure, just swear your brother to secrecy. No one must ever know you were behind it. If she finds out you were responsible for Konan, she will kill you very slowly indeed. A female named after "Conan" the barbarian is not going to help her chances in life. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Conan_the_Barbarian
My daughter hates her name. This hurts me?
My daughter finds every opportunity she can to tell me how difficult I have made her life by giving her the name I have. She has a lot of animosity to me but, as she has recently separated from her husband, is more than happy to now use me for support and as a babysitter when she decides, after more than 1.5 years, that it is now ok for me to look after her daughter. But I digress. Do you think it mature and rational for a woman nearing 40 to have such bitterness over the name I chose for her? The name I chose was of great significance and meaning to me. I named her Kia Marie. Kia is pronounced Ky-ah. This is where the troubles lay. She hates having to correct the pronunciation as some call her Kia, as in the car. She complains that she has to spell her name several times over the phone and when she makes appointments. She has a three letter name. Surely telling someone her name is spelled K I A is not that difficult or time consuming? Do you think she is being fair because I find her behavior unreasonable and hurtful.