I fought my ex best friend?
That means she's gonna try and come after u and u will win
I fought with my friend, what should I do?
Take some time to let the dust settle and think about it-what your real feelings are about the issue, WHY do you have those feelings AND re-think what they had said and/or WHY they had said it. Think about the ’cause and effect’, how might it had been addressed and handled differently. IF your convictions remain the same, then figure how to present them differently and/or what solutions the two of you might come up with. That you’d fought is not necessarily a ‘bad’ thing….ALL in/about life is a process, so then is a friendship also-a process-it can be a matter of reaching a deeper level as much as loosing some ground w/it. Expect and allow the…process to exist (don’t be AFRAID to disagree w/ppl OR to change your convictions necessarily. WE actually learn more about OURSELVES in/during/from relationships than we do sometimes about the other person. It’s an experience in/of life. give it some time n do what said above IF it helps you any.
Is it weird that me and my friend never fight?
Me and my best friend are practically soul sisters! We have never had a fight before! We never argue. If there is ever a sticky situation we are in, we handle in a mature way. We don't yell at each other and we always listen to what we have to say! My other friend Stephanie says that its weird that me and my best friend never fight. Stephanie says that all friends are suppose to fight because it's "normal". Do any of you agree with her????
Have you ever fought with a best friend, and never get back together?
What a momumental snub. I mean really! I’ve thought a lot about your question and, like you, have wracked my mind as to what might have happened. For me it comes down to two options. Either you did something (or she thinks you did) and it was really BAD. Or, more likely, she’s just not that into you.Friendships can be like love affairs. Some are passionate and short and burn out quickly.It’s also possible her friendship meant more to you than yours did to her. It may be that while you considered her a best friend, she thought of you more as a flat mate. Maybe she thought you were a drag, or high-maintenance and couldn’t wait for the day you left town. It’s painful but sometimes in life we do get dumped by friends. You can go around in circles wondering what put the pole up your best mate’s bum but without her input, we’ll never really know.I do wonder though why you haven’t so far discussed this with a trusted mutual friend who will be there on the day? The way I see it they might be able to provide some insight into her behaviour or will at least be an ally at the table who understands the difficult situation you are in. I would aim for polite and friendly when you see her. I’d even go for a hug and a kiss. Your behaviour from then on will be guided by hers. If she is effusive and happy to see you, then perhaps you will have the opportunity to talk things through at a later time.But, if she is distant, cold or rude then there’s not a thing you can do sto change that short of dancing on the table and kicking some cake in her face. Go there with the attitude you have moved on, as you would if you had been dumped by an old flame. Be dignified. Convey the sense that you are happy with your life. I’m all for trying to try to make amends when it’s possible. But having made numerous attempts to discuss this with her and getting short shrift I see no reason why you should continue to hammer your head against a brick wall.Some people and some situations in life are just mysteries. It is hard and painful and hurtful to think that you have been dumped, but that’s exactly what has happened.My advise is you talk to all your other friends. Have fun. Dance. And put this girl behind you. And yes ,it happened to me and alot of other people out there. Anyways,Good Luck! - be happy!
A few days ago, I fought with my friend. I realized my mistake and accepted it. He is not speaking with me properly now. How can I convince him?
Many people have a very difficult time with accepting an apology. They give up too easily on a friendship or hold grudges for too long. For them, the trust is too fragile, (in this case I mean trust in the sense of not making a mistake and fighting with them), and once it breaks, they have a hard time letting go of that faulty moment; they can't see passed that anymore.Give your friend some space and see if they try to talk to you in a week. Ask them if they are okay and if they want to talk . If they don't respond to you by then, you can simply let them know that you're terribly sorry for the undue harm that apparently you caused them with one fight and that you wish your friendship was stronger than that and say your goodbyes.You cannot chase after someone who won't give you the time of day. A friend is someone who will be compassionate to you when you make a mistake, provided that you don't make it again or something like this. This is why making friends, true friends that last a long time, is very very difficult and very uncommon. Too many people are too scared to give each other a chance. We are all human and make mistakes; those who cannot have compassion for others won't find it when they make a mistake and desperately need for the person they wronged to have compassion for them.
I'm in a big fight with my best friend?
On Sunday I got in a big fight with my friend and it's making me depressed, I have bipolar which makes it worse. Basically she was trying to get me to talk her mum into homeschooling and at the time my parents were having a big argument so I asked her if I could just not talk about it for a bit and she called me a liar because she thought I was trying to lie about the situation, she started winding me up and I told her eventually to F off, I did apologise and now she is getting everyone to have a go at me while cursing at me, I've tried apologising and only 2 people get why I'm upset. I texted her this: I'm done with fighting Jenny, it's stupid that we argue over little things. I don't want to be friends but I don't want to be enemies, it's upsetting both of us. I know it's all my fault and stuff but can we just end this argument, and as I said I don't want to be friends but none of us are ever going to be happy if we keep fighting, there's just no point, please can you just agree we should end this and yes I know it's all my fault. It isn't all me by no means but I don't want to fight, she's starting to send constant mean things like go die in a hole and I hope your dead soon, it's really affecting me and I've been skipping lessons I'm lost for hope, I don't even want to be friends anymore I just want to stop the argueing what do I do