Why am I so nervous around my boyfriend?
My boyfriend and I have been together about 2 and a half months but I still get super nervous around him. I guess you could kind of call it butterflies but it feels kind of different than that. I'm comfortable talking to him and we talk on the phone and text all the time but there are times when I don't know what to say. Luckily, his personality is the exact opposite from mine and he never lets the silence last too long but I want to feel 100% comfortable around him and I cant. Around my friends, I'm loud and silly and outgoing but I feel like I almost need to impress my boyfriend which is stupid because he tells me all the time that he just wants me to be ME around him. I think it may have to do with the fact that in extremely shy around people I don't know completely. It took me over a year to be completely comfortable around my best friend. My question is, if I'm not completely comfortable around him at this point, will I ever be? How long should it take and what can I do to help move it along?
Nervous or Sick Around My Boyfriend?
I'm sooo glad you posted this question haha i have the same problem sometimes :/ What I've been trying to do is just if i end up getting sick i stop doing whatever we're doing and just talk to him. I know it sounds like really lame haha but for the most part it's been working. and it deffinetly is because im so nervous and i start to think that im going to mess something up. soo yeah listen to the other people on here saying that your nervous because you completely are and that's fine(: hope this helps :]
My boyfriend gets so nervous around me?
so my boyfriend gets super nervous around me I feel bad I tell him not to its okay bu he still does also Im going to say he's very experienced and had many long term relationships but he never got so nervous around me and idk how to help it effects him because he doesn't pore out his heart ir tells me how he feels because he doesn't want to say the wrong thing he just says he wants to do everything right for me and make me very happy and I am I just wish he'd stop being nervous he even is starting to *** so fast ge used to go for hours but now he cums under a minute
I am always nervous around my boyfriend's mother. I barely do or say anything when I am around her. How can I stop this?
I dislike the blunt and deep answers other Quorans posted.It’s common to feel the way you do because you feel judged (and frankly, you are being judged). Don’t feel you have to be super talkative or impress her or it might come off unnaturally, trying too hard.What all moms want is for the girl to be nice to their son and for her to make the son happy. I wouldn’t expect a girlfriend of my son to converse extensively with me. What would we talk about? Our hobbies? I think it is more on the mom to converse with the girlfriend than for you to have to start conversations. But some moms don’t want to ask the gf questions because it seems too interrogative. You can add on to conversations, such as, “The movie is at 8:15 so we are leaving at 7:45.” Just do general chitchat like you would with anyone. Most likely, you’d talk about what you guys are going to do: go to dinner, a movie, etc. Think of her more as a friend rather than an authority figure, have a good attitude when you speak, and remember to smile.
Why am I so nervous around my girlfriend?
I feel the same way sometimes, and let me be clear: I am in a wonderful relationship with a girl whom I intend to stay with. I don’t have much to complain about, so why do I get anxious?Well, part of it is that I’m just anxious, so anything that gets my emotions going strong tends to make me anxious. In this case, even if I’m really really happy, I’ll still get anxious because my emotions are hitting an extreme and my body thinks that’s weird.Sexual arousal could also play some sort of role; if you’re feeling really attracted to your girlfriend, your body will show a lot of the same signs that it does during an anxiety attack; your heart rate increases, your pupils dilate, that sort of thing. Having the same physical reaction to two entirely different feelings can be incredibly confusing, so that may be why you feel anxious at the time.If it’s a new relationship, you may also feel pressured to impress her. It’s natural, but that’ll make you anxious too.Bottom line is, no matter what the cause, taking a deep breath and relaxing around your girlfriend should help. I know that’s easier said than done, but if she really cares about you, then she’s someone that you can feel comfortable with and be yourself around. I used to be paranoid of having a panic attack while my girlfriend was around (which only made my anxiety worse), but now that I don’t try to hide my anxiety from her, it’s not as much of a problem.I hope I was able to help somehow. If you need any more info on coping with depression and anxiety, check out some of my other writing Dealing With Depression Archives - Stuck With Me Now.Best wishes,Donovan
How do I stop getting nervous around my girlfriend?
First thing is to ask yourself, “What’s making me nervous?”Second is to remember that being nervous all the time will increase the likelihood of you breaking up unless she REALLY loves you. :) I mean, you wouldn’t want to be around a nervous wreck all the time, would you?That said, you have to be honest with your feelings. If you’re getting nervous, I imagine it’s because you want to impress her, make a favorable impression. But since she’s already your girlfriend, shouldn’t you be past that stage already? If you’re in a communicative relationship, you may consider risking it, opening up and saying something like, “I like you so much, it’s making me nervous.” But some people might say that’s too honest, so you could also play it cool! Pretend not to be nervous, it just might work! The choice is yours.Good luck!