What does I'll keep your application on file mean?
It means you didn't get the job. It was a nice way of letting you down easy rather than being honest and let you know your qualifications and/or experience simply don't meet their needs. Your application won't be kept "on file", they will simply get new applicants to apply the next time there are openings. If you find the same place is hiring in the future then just turn in a new application rather than believing they will just look up your old one cause, that ain't gonna happen. And don't get discouraged and take it personally, it's just the way it works in the job industry.
Your age at your child's high school graduation?
i will be 49 when my son graduates and my hubby will be 56. both are ok - my parents were late 40's/ early 50's when i graduated - their age made absolutely no difference to ME - maybe it mattered to them, i don't know - we never discussed it. cuz what did it matter? it wasn't like i was taking them to college with me..lol. however, we are going to be trying for another (just 1 more) and i would like to do this before my hubby turns 40 in Dec. I want to be pregnant before then - because disregarding how old we will be when they graduate - i am MUCH MORE concerned about how old we will be when THEY have children and how active of a granparent we can be. My hubby can barely help w/ our child - he works ALL the time and has a bad back - so he will be of no help (in my opinion) w/ a grandchild. But i would like to be helpful and i don't think a 65+ or 70 year old grandparent (even in fair health) should be taking care of a young child. Just my opinion. My mom is 64 and can barely help me, she (as she just told me) is in bed for 2 days every time she sees my son, cuz she picks him up and pulls her back out. That should be more of a concern in my opinion, it doesn't seem like we will be young enough to be very helpful grandparents - and that makes me sad. I would hope to be more helpful to my kids then my parents are to me. ETA: ideally will all live to be 70 at least, but thats not always the case. I know someone who recently died at 41 and left behind a 20 year old, a 14 year old and a 5 AND 7 year old. BY FAR the most horribly sad funeral EVER! It was totally unexpected and it has me re-thinking having another child at all...the only REAL reason i can think of, is that if something DID happen to me and my hubby, at least my son would have a sibling to grow up with. OH BOY, this is a rough subject.
What is it like being pregnant in high school?
I found out I was pregnant the end of my junior year, I didn't tell anyone though. So after summer I went back to school more pregnant then ever. Of course everyone wanted to feel the belly but that was about it. Its not to bad, you know you get some teachers that will treat you differently, like their disappointed in you. But I have a great family that supported me and friends to. My daughter is almost 3 now and I wouldn't change anything. I guess it all depends on your family. I couldn't of done it with out my wonderful parents. Since I had her dec 28. I still had half a year of school I only missed 4 days of school, I had to graduate on time and my parents were wonderful. They watched her everyday because her dad had to work ( were still together) My daughter saved me. I was hanging out in I guess you could say the "wrong crowed" not no more, She means everything. Now I go to work and then go home. Im the youngest of 3 Girls and the first to have a child. My daughter really brought our family closer.
So my Dad isn't coming 2 my graduation do u wanna hear his exucuses?
I am so sorry that your father is not stepping up to the plate for you. I can tell you this, your story is almost exactly the same as my nieces, my brothers oldest daughter. Just met 2 1/2 years ago, and he has 2 other girls he has raised their entire lives, my niece will be 19 in June. My husband and I, (her aunt and uncle) have been very supportive of her. She used to live in Oregon, lost her way after hs graduation, and needed a change. She now lives with us on the East Coast, is working full time at my husband's business, and will attend community college in the fall. Her dad too, has not be very supportive, not visited her once since she has been here (over a month ago), and it is also very disappointing to me. The only thing I can tell you is this. You cannot change any person. That has to come from within "them". You deserve a supportive father, however, it sounds like you have support in other family members, which is a great thing. Know this........I know it is crappy, but IT'S NOT YOU! IT'S HIM! He may never come around, try and move forward, and rely on other male role models in your family to admire as that parental support system. He's obviously not being a father to you, and you deserve that, even if from an uncle or cousin, or grandpa. Congratulations on your graduation, NOW GO OUT THERE IN THE WORLD AND TACKLE IT!!!! YOU CAN BE WHATEVER YOU WANT! WORK HARD, AND GOOD THINGS WILL COME!
My family doesn't want to come to my graduation?
I feel the same way !! just do not bother to worry yourself. at my high school graduation, no body from my immediate family came and I was so hurt and shocked. you see; I was adopted and my adoptive parents wanted me to know who and what and where my real natural parents were and also they wanted to adopt me because then if my adoptive father died; I could get his social security to go to college. In 1968 they gave my adoptive mother permission to adopt me and every since then; I was in contact with them. I told them 2 weeks in avance that I was going to graduate on a certain day and they promised me that they would be there. On the day of the graduation they were not there and there was six of them. I was so hurt but my adoptive relatives were there to cheer me on and I did not even invite them. but they had tickets made and attended. a few days later; I went down to their house( on the other side of town) and asked them why no one appeared at my graduation, and they said no0 one wanted to go. The same thing happened at my college graduation -"No one showed up because they claimed that it was too hot( it was outside) At my senior college graduation; I did not even bother to invite them. and recently ( last week) I graduated from ministry school- I did not bother to invite them but I texted them the good news and they were disappointed that I did not give them a invitation- I never told them why!! I have not seen or tried to visit them on holidays for almost 11 years and they wonder why I always stay away. I just od not want to be bothered with them and I am doing very very very well.
Should I wait to divorce my husband until after my son graduates high school in a year?
It's funny how you say Danny told you the real truth and not Kurt. As a matter of fact you don't mention Kurt again as if after the initial meeting he just disappears. You don't have any confirmation that was given to us that Danny's version is true. Kurt could confirm that or atleast the mother. How is it possible for Danny to make you realize that Harry doesn't love you. You couldn't see that for yourself. You say that youand Danny are in love but that you may still be in love with Harry. Honey Love is not an emotion or a switch that you can turn on and off or switch from one person to the next. It don't work that way. Honey something don't smell right with Danny. I could be wrong but it's strange that he wants you to stay with Harry until he get out of med school. If he's so in love with you why does he want you to stay with Husband. Are or have you stopped sleeping with your husband. Me being Christian adultery is a serious thing honey and there is no justification for it. Nor is there none for switching from the father to the son. You don't seem to have thought any of this through. You are seriously double minded and unstable. You walked into a mess to begin with and you are making the mess worse. I pray that this doesn't end badly for you but it don't look good. If you think the father has played you the apple don't fall to far from the tree. Danny could be using you to get back at his dad. You've been with Harry for years and couldn't see nor did you feel that you were a prized possession, but Danny-boy has made you see things so clearly in just a matter of days, months? I don't think so. You say that you love him and you think you want to be his. His what? His prized possession because he has won you from his cheating dad. I don't think so. I don't think that the mother will give you her blessing unless she to wants to see Harry hurt like he has hurt them. Take two weeks from this disfunctional family. Get alone, don''t tell them where you are and don't talk to them for the whole two weeks. Go to a motel or something and stay. Get by yourself and pray. Talk to Jesus. Ask for forgiveness of your sins and let him show you the truth of the matter and what to do. He will speak to your heart. You will see things more clearly. Stop living the soap opera life sweety cause this is what this sounds like.