If you are kicked out of your parents house do you have a right to gather your belongings?
This would depend upon, what the reasons were for your being kicked out, your age & what you actually own within your parents house.Ultimately, if you were kicked out of your parents house, for no real reason, other than they were angry & wanted you out, then i’d ask them why they’ve chosen to do this.If you’re a minor, then what they’re doing is actually illegal & i would be speaking to somebody older & close to you, about this & about their behaviour.If you’re a non minor & you’ve created an issue that has greatly upset your parents, so much so, that they have literally thrown you out of their home, then i’d encourage you to wait until the dust has settled & approach your parents gently & politely.Ask them if you can collect all that actually belongs to you, because they’re your things & you require them urgently.Also, do you have somewhere to stay?It’s one thing to be kicked out of your family home, but surely your parents wouldn’t want their own son/daughter, sleeping out on the streets.Do you work, study, or live off temporary benefits?These are some of the important factors that you must consider, when your life’s been suddenly impacted.If you have somehow “hurt” your parents, then you should try to make peace with them, by apologising to them for your behaviour.If your parents have hurt you & you made the decision to leave their home, then with time, once you’ve all calmed down, you can let them know how you feel & that you too, demand an apology.Remember, you’re all family, so you should all show respect toward each other & you should all try to sort things out & make peace with each other.We humans are very complex beings & we most often allow our emotions to rule us & to get in the way of making peace.The good news is, it doesn’t have to be this way.You can make peace, if you “choose” to & even if your parents were at fault, you can still “choose” to take the higher ground & set some really positive examples/principles.All the best & take care! :-)
How did your parents kick you out of the house and why?
They didn't. I left. First at 14, staying with my sister and friends. I was talked into coming back for 4 years, was in the process of buying a house contract for deed with a friend only to find that my mother had cancer and her health quickly deteriorated so that I felt obligated to stay and care for her. Then, I finally left at 20 years old, her health having improved. At 25, my mother convinced me to let her move in with me. I did, but I moved out once she had her finances in order, moving out of state. I've stayed with her while moving around for work or she with me for health reasons, etc., but I've never been kicked out. Honestly, I shouldn't have moved back in with her at 14 after moving out. It had a deleterious effect on my health and a personal care assistant or home health aide without a personal relationship with her may have been a better choice considering her mental illnesses.
I might be kicked out of my parents house. Should I quit school and work full time?
I got kicked out when I was 18. I was a student in school for Computer Programming back when they were big enough to fill a room and a calculator was the size of an office desk. I dropped out of school and took my meager savings and moved into a Hotel. I took a job in a small Cafe across the street. I worked my butt off. I made it up to half-owner in a very short period of time. (I was able to triple the income and expanded into an additional Supper Club by leasing the building next door. The original Owner liked me). I went back to school with a different Major. (Something I wanted to do) I had my own place; two cars, and other toys. It really pissed off my Father. Then I got caught up in the Vietnam Draft Lottery. I cashed out of the business; sold everything off and never looked back. Use your experience as a learning tool. You will be stronger afterwards.
How do I survive if my parents have kicked me out of their house?
Step 1: IntrospectionTake a moment and think what all caused this to happen. The wrong habits or things you complied with, see if they can be beneficial for you now. If not, rule them and throw them out that very instance for the rest of your life and never return to them.Step 2: Gather all what you gotMonetary wise, sum up all what you can by selling. Don't borrow yet.Qualification wise: Get a hold on all your certifications and education.Step 3: The process initiationMake a list of all places you can see yourself working for, according to the qualification you have.Step 4: The application partApply for a job. The sooner, the better. There will be a lot of luck factor governing this step and a lot of hard-work too. So stay put, act bold and strive. Don't fear failure and rejection, instead make these your best friends. You will meet them often in the start and if you turn your back for them, neither will you learn from them, nor will you profit from the failures. You will be else running in a loop of same errors and that will take you nowhere.Step 4: Keep at itOnce on the job, realize it's importance and keep working at it with full dedication. Prioritize the work at hand as there will be plenty. Everything else, and mind you everything, apart from work, can wait.Step 5: EvolveDon't stop at any moment. Certification courses, part-time jobs, future planning.. keep at all this. Everyone has a tendency to settle down after a lot of hard time on small satisfying successes. Don't be one of them as none of them ever made big.You have an opportunity to cast your own life. Have a great one!I wish you all the very best. Thanks for A2A. :)
My Parents Kicked me out, for bad grades in school, i'm 16!?
I got kicked out from my parents, i'm only 16. The reason why that happened is because i'm not doing good in school "not getting good grades" they have warned me many times, but i just cannot do it in school, there is too much influence, i go to a ghetto high school. It's too late to even transfer somewhere else because my grades are terribile, i have told my parents that i could get my GED they don't want to hear about it. I work only on weekends, i'm at a cheap motel right now by myself, i've never been alone, i'm so scared. What help can there be for me?? Please only serious answers! If you're wondering i'm writing this msg through my phone!!! I do not want my parents to get in trouble, so help me please...
My friend was kicked out of house by his parents. How do I help him?
My serious answer is that you're right to think to offer family counseling but if even half of what you're saying is true about his mother then it probably will fall on deaf ears. I would still suggest it-even if just to your friend so he can have someone outside of the situation to talk to and maybe even get help from. This is a very hard time for him and he will need a strong support base around him-and the more people that are willing to support him and help him through this the better. If your parents are willing and can afford to let him stay for any amount of time then there's never anything wrong with helping someone. The four of you need to sit down and discuss exactly what your family can do and for how long-that way there are as few hurt feelings and unrealistic expectations as possible. And make sure that your friend understands that IF he does end up staying with your family for ANY amount of time that he will have to abide by your parents rules. I don't see this being a problem but its always good for everyone to be on the same page. And if his mom starts complaining your friend can always say 'Hey, I'm not the unreasonable one here. I have no problem getting along with people who want to get along with me." Hope it helps!
I got kicked out of my house?
I'm 17 years old and my parents kicked me out of the house. They told me to turn in my key and gave me a backpack with no food or water just a spare change of clothing. The reason they kicked me out is because I'm apparently too lazy to be much use to them. I'm not too sure what to do at this point. I don't have any friends that I can ask for help. What can I do?
I got kicked out of my house, and im 14?
my parents don't let me do anything EVER and all i do is sit home and watch t.v. and do what everyone in the family tells me to do, like a servent, and my sister is the one that cooks every meal... so yesterday, there was an END OF SCHOOL YEAR BARBEQUE at this one hang out place, so i wanted to go with friends, and i called my dad to tell him i was going, he said NO and i argued back, then he said that if i leave i can't come back home and stuff, but my mom picked me up from the place for some reason, and all she did in the car was yell at me and call me a bunch of names. when i got home that night, my dad was sleeping so i went to bed, then i woke up at like 5:30AM and my dad goes to work at that time, and i heard him asking my mom "why did you bring him?! he said he didn't wanna come home!" and stuff like that, and she just started calling me way worse names except it was to HIM... so i don't wanna live here anymore, and right now im home with my sisters (older)and idk what to do