Me and my best friend got into a HUGE fight?
Me and my best friend got into a HUGE fight over something and she won't even tell me what's wrong. Me and jamie have been friends for most of my life, but she deleted all pics of us off her social media. We're going to the 9th grade. I'm scared that she's never gonna talk to me again and it really hurt me when she took the pictures calling me her "best friend" off her social media. I've been really sad all this week and doing things that usually make me happy makes me more sad because I always end up thinking about her. I don't know what I would do without her. Should I stop trying? Does she even care? Is she as upset as I am? Please help :( Thanks
Huge fight with my best friend, what to do?
You have 2 choices. Either you two talk face to face OR you let go of this kind of friendship. If you choose to talk face to face with her, do be prepared for her to hurl you harsh words. Firstly, your friend and you have both to calm down first so that you two can talk calmly with the situation. Tell her that you have something to say to her and you would appreciate if she would listen to what you have to say and let you talk till end. Tell her that you hope that she won't get mad first and let you finish before you let her say what she's thinking. Tell her what you feel (about her attitude of being bossy and using people). Then tell her that this fight is between you two and you would appreciate it if she didn't dragged in your personal life. Tell her how you feel when she called you names and would she like it if you have been the person who called her those. Tell her that you're sorry too for fighting and scolding back but you only did it to protect your family. After you finish speaking all these to her, ask her whether she have anything to talk to you. After all these, tell her that you hope that this fight would not happen again and you hope that your friendship with her would last. But, if you choose to let go, then do so. (DO NOTE: I'm not trying to take side or anything, I'm just trying to say all these in 2 perspective. Not contradicting what I've said and what I'm going to say next.) Such friendship may be a bit difficult to continue if only 1 person is trying to hold on to this friendship. Friendship should be about both side tolerating one another and if you guys have problems, you should work it out together. If your friend only called you names just in a rush of heat, then you should forgive her. But, if she have always been doing that, then maybe you should think twice about saving this friendship. All the best <3 I hope I've helped you two :)
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There are really two issues, going on here. 1. Is the friend a friend to you? Does this friend treat you right, or use you. Is the friend toxic? Can this issue be fixed, and should this issues be fixed? If so, 2. Try to resolve the issue by talking first. Apologize for anything you did, that you regret, and this will get a weight off your shoulders. Then if this friendship is fixable, you'll want to help her.
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