What if you hate your aunt?
Your aunt is scared to death. She feels she's not good enough and that no one loves her. She acts the way she does because it's all she knows. Rather than looking at all the negatives, try to approach her and her actions with an attitude of compassion and forgiveness. See her as an imperfect human being who needs help learning to love her self instead of a manipulating extortionist. That will be very hard for you to do because you have years of anger built up. I have found that when I try to see past a person's actions into their heart, I see a much different person. Try to do this and it will allow you to see her good qualities. Once you've found them, try to remind her of what a good person she is. In the meantime, it sounds like your Mom could benefit from setting some very strict boundaries with her sister. Your Mom has a right to say no to her sister and to tell her sister that she won't accept her behavior anymore. It's important to stress the behavior rather than the person. Unless your aunt is directly attacking you, it's probably not a good idea for you to get involved. It sounds like this is an issue that needs to be cleared up by your Mom and her sister. In all likelihood, your aunt is jealous of your Mom and some positive understanding and love couldn't hurt. Don't confuse love with allowing her to get away with her current behavior. They're two different things.
My aunt HATES me?
You know what...........dont even try getting your wicked aunt to like you!! She is a witch and shes jealous you are prettier than her daughter!!!! Don speak to her when she comes round!!! Dont try and make someone like that like you...........!!! Your mom or dad need to say something my mom would go mad if my aunt did something like that to me!!!!!!!!!! I would not like to think what my mom would say to her!!! Shes an adult and should not make her niece feel like this!! The stupid cow...I'm really angry and upset for you.
Does my aunt hate me?
Recently, my aunt came to visit my family and I, actually she came yesterday. I have a feeling she doesn t like but I don t know why. She keeps on hugging my 13 year old girl cousin and I am a 14 year old. She does t hug me or kiss me on the cheek like she does to my other cousin. She also says that my girl cousin and her 2 year old brother are her kids. And she says that in front of me. My aunt has a 4 month son, and she only cares about her son, her 13 year old niece and her 2 year old nephew, but not me. What am I doing wrong? I just want like a 5 minuet attention from her. Am I jealous? What should I do? I was the first born in my mom s family and my aunt simply doesn t like me! Is it because I talk about my dad s sisters to her and how much they love me? Please help ASAP
I hate my aunt because she hates me?
Hi ok so I hate my aunt so much she's rude to me and she bosses me around and hates me the most she likes my sisters and she always shows me and she used to hit me and yell at me few years ago I can't forget and I'm force to be nice to her I want to take advantage of her how and how can I show her that I hate her please help every time I see her I hate her more I see her every week please help and thanks every week she sees me she upsets and treats my sisters better than me I hate her I try to like her but I can't of the way she treats me like once she paid for me 2.50$ and she been unsaltting me for it until I gave her back her money to shut her up its only 2.50
I hate my aunt's boyfriend?
I'm 16 and my aunt has been off and on with her ex boyfriend, who is my cousin's dad, and they finally broke up last year. Right after that, she pursued her boss, who was 50 at the time, and they moved really fast. My aunt and I have always been extremely close. We used to see each other at least twice a week. Now, I'm lucky if I see her once a month, and we live in the same neighborhood. She is already annoyed with his 2 kids and him, but they're engaged already. But he's so fake with us, he acts like we're strangers to my aunt and he thinks he knows her better. He is too clingy and his sons have NO manners. It's making my aunt act different, too. Like she doesn't care about us anymore. I can't tell her without getting mad. I just don't feel the same happiness with him in the picture because he is ALWAYS around. What do I do? How can I just feel okay with this new guy?
Why does my aunt hate me so much!?
Ok so my aunt lives in our house, and she absolutely hates my guts. I have no I dea why. She's always calling me names and tells me how I dress and look a whore/slut. She is always snitching about me to my parents so that I will get in trouble. She's really offensive. Sometimes I will talk back to her and call her names too cuz it really pisses me off how she hates me for no reason. I've tried telling my parents about her but they won't believe me. I am a very good child. I get good grades, listen to my parents, and respect them. I just don't understand my aunt... Can someone help me?
My aunt hates me and gossips about me behind my back. She compares everything I do with her own life. How do I handle such a situation?
For starters, the best way to stun such people is to behave exactly the opposite from the what she expects to you react. There can be many reason for her to behave this way. Try to analyse them and talk to her about it. Maybe she is concerned about you, maybe she is jealous for some reason or she is just being her. It is quiet common human behaviour actually. For once, when she is alone, try talking to her calmly and tell her you dont like it. If she still continues, let her be bothered about it and you need not get affected by it. Infact if she points of something negative about you, you can actually use it to introspect. If we cared about what people said about us all the time, we wudnt be able to live in peace. Keep smiling :)
My mom hates my aunt. am I obligated to do the same jus cuz I'm her son?
My parents were the same way with my dads sister. When i was younger i only met her one time which kind of sucked for me, met my dads sisters son only once too ( my cousin ). A little later on ( 18 ) my aunt reached out to me on facebook and she came and visited me a few times which was nice, she sent me cards in the mail which made me feel good :) . I talk to her every once and awhile now which my parents don't approve of. The truth of it is, you're an adult, and your mom shouldn't have a say in wether you speak to her or not. Just explain to her that you're an adult and if you want to converse with your aunt once and awhile it's your choice. My family is insane and are all against eachother for one reason or another. I just learned to talk to whom i wish, i'm my own person and i'm allowed to talk to who i want to. To better understand your mothers point of view, i'd ask her why she hates your aunt in the first place. In the end it's your decision! Good luck, i understand the family drama :/
How do I get get over the fact that my sister hates me?
I know exactly how you feel. My sis is 2 yrs older and she has hated me (SERIOUSLY) since i was born. As a child i wanted to love her and talk to her but she never once wanted anything to do with me. Always negative comments and telling evryone my embarrasing moments to try to humiliate me and bring me down. And now we are both in our 30s and she still brings up past things to judge me as if what i did was tge worst thing ever. She tells people she was good and i wasnt. She lies about me all the time to try to get people to not like me. And all i ever wanted was to give her my love. So i have come to realise, the problem is her, not me. I have my own life and im very happy and alot of other people love me. I dont need her, and i have grown to not want her anymore. Blood is blood, yes, but when blood hates you for no reason, then i have no reason to stress over it. You should forget her and move on from wanting her. She will always be who she is, and who she is doesnt love you. You deserve love and plus it will make her hate you more when she sees you so happy. So, you win
Do you hate your sister?
Yes, I hate my sister. When I was very young, sge used to love a guy alot. She was madly in love wuth that person. The person used her often but she was blind folded in her live such that even though that man settled and got married to another lady on the pressure of his parents but never let my sister settle in life.I still respected her affection and love towards that man but least did I know that he has evil eyes on me. Not once, twice thrice he tried to physically abuse me. He touched me wrongly and when i showed resentment he pushed either me on him or himself on me. My world came cracking down, least did I know that Im insecure in my own house.One day when I was crying till inside, i walked up to my sister and told her all about him but to my surprise, she denied everything. she said it must be a misunderstanding. her statement was I can never believe this, even if God comes down and says I wont believe it and later to my surprise she asks me a proof. Less did I know that I will be physically assaulted so I should create an entire scene where I should have kept cameras ready. My heart cries out that my own sister didn't believe me.My eyes are filled with tears and my I shiver whenever i think, why me? Till date, Im not safe because that man knows he is trusted blindly and not me. Last but not the least Im filled with anger, why God, why with me? why was I born as a girl?