I hate my family?????
Being the middle child, you're going to feel the most awkward about your siblings. You're older sister isn't succeeding well in life (and your parents might give up hope on her) and your brother is too young to understand anything. I think the reason why your dad is doing this is because of your older sister. You said that your older sister has flunked college twice. She might have ruined her life possibly because she was acting inappropriate by hanging out with friends who had a bad influence on herself. Your dad might reflect on this and try to protect you from ruining your life like your older sister because I think he has had enough of her (and your mom too). The one thing you need to do is prove that you're independent and since you're grown up, you should be capable of making mature decisions. Your sister is an example of what would happen if you ruined your life, and you already know it's a bad thing. You need to have a talk with your parents...alone. I am the oldest child (15) and I have a sister (who just turned 12) and a brother (3 and a half). My sister talks to me a lot about how she gets the less attention from my parents, which is probably because she's the youngest. Well, that's all I can say that the moment. I hope everything goes well for you!!!! Best of luck!!
What should I do if I hate my family?
I hate My family too :(I can remember feeling like an outcast as early as the age of 5. I remember my mom beating me and calling me a whore for discovering masterbation. I was 7 when I was ripped out of a room full of kids and verbally assisted by my mother. As the years went on I was Always looked at as the bad apple. At 11 my mom would leave me to watch my two younger sisters who had formed an Alliance against me. It was. Constant bullying. At 12 I was Labeled a slut. I wasnt Even sexually active. At 13 I was A whore and a druggie. Again never even tried either. At 14 a was told to stay home from school because some girls wanted to fight me and the school I went to was full of racists and druggies. Mind you I am A white girl. The racism was coming mainly from a group of Guamanian girls who hated me over a boy. At 14 my moms friend tried to have sex with me. He was 36. Guess who my mom blamed for that? 15 I finally Had sex. I didn’t know how to handle that at such a young age especially with no real sex talk other than ““if you have sex you are a whore and nobody will marry you and you will be a waste”I got Pregnant. I was About 5 months along when I finally Told my dad. He forced me to have an abortion that almost cost me my life. He didn’t care. I had To write goodbye letters to my family. It was constant abuse again. Because now. I really Was a whore to them. At 17 I koved Out. At 19 I got Pregnant. At 20 my daughter almost lost her future. I struggle every day to stay happy and to feel the love of my children and the love of the small percentage of good people still out there. I have No real home and I have No real family. Life is really hard for me right now.
I hate my family and being home?
I'm 16 and I'm a really happy person, don't get me wrong. I'm an athlete and I have good friends. However, I hate being home. My dad is a f-ing Nazi about EVERYTHING, my mood drops so much whenever he comes home from work. I can't even just relax with out him getting all over my case. My own mom doesn't like it when he's home. But my mom is a psycho about school. I really messed up my grades and I'm taking online summer classes and she won't leave me alone about it. I realize she cares, but she makes my life fricking miserable. I hate being home. I'm supposed to get my license in August and my mom said I can only have a car after 1st semester if my grades are good. She won't even let me borrow her car. Which means I'll be the only Junior who's mom still picks them up to and from school, and my friends can't drive me because they live in the opposite direction of me. We're also allowed to go off campus for lunch, and I'll be the only Junior who stays at school for lunch with no one to sit with. I hate my life and I was really looking forward to getting a car so I don't have to be home so much because I hate my home life. I was hoping I could just leave the house more to go to friends houses or drive myself to the gym, etc. I seriously hate being home. It's horrible, and I'm not just being an overemotional teenager, I've hated my family since I was 12 or so. What can I do? I always stay in my room to avoid my parents and they never drive me anywhere because they're too tired or are stuffing their faces with food. I just hate my life at home. I need to get out of here and I don't know what to do since I can't drive and none of my friends can drive yet
Why do I HATE my family so much?
Like I said.. I don't really like people in general.. but these responses comfort me.. I am no way suicidal so don't worry about me harming myself as I'm too scared to do so.. :p And as I type this my mom yells at me to go to sleep.... I really appreciate the time you guys put into reading this drawn out description and for replying. I just hate having that lonely feeling and I'm not much of a religious person or would feel comfortable going to a therapist and paying... I'd rather stay anonymous.. but Really. You guys made me feel better.. It's satisfying to know that there are some caring people in this world... but I have to go to bed.. thanks again all.
Why do I hate my family even when they are so nice to me?
When I went home for winter break last year, I remember feeling similar things. At one point in time, my mom and I were alone driving back from some store. To prevent silence she began barraging me with questions about how I felt about my grades, my friends, my extracurriculars. The questions that were being asked were mundane and boring and a waste of my time. I would rather there be silence. I told her so, and explained how when I am home, I feel like I get annoyed a lot because her and my dad were boring.My mom was silent.“Mom?”In between tears, she explained how she and my dad miss me a lot, and when I get home, I’m always so silent. When they try and talk, I get irritated and shut them out.She told me she missed how close we were, and how we don’t joke around and how I am always grumpy. She said that she and my dad are only doing their best to talk to their son, and how I’m expecting way too much from them, and being too hard on them.It opened my eyes to the fact that I’m being really hard on these two people who raised me and cared and nurtured for me. I’m being closed off and quiet and giving nothing, when they’re kind enough to pay fully for my education. And they’re not even asking for that much.Since then, I still have my moments of annoyance but, overall, a little understanding and empathy went a long way.Now, my home situation is good. I’m not sure what yours is like. But odds are, your parents miss you and just want to be with you. You may have discovered that your way of having fun is very different than theirs. Ask them to do more things with you, and have family trips. Explain how you feel frustrated being cooped up (keep them out of it), and that, while alone time would be good (if that’s what you need), also explain you wish you all could do things together. Whatever you say, though, make it from the heart, and this will figure itself out. Best of luck.
Why does my family hate anime so much?
Even before I started watching anime, my parents have hated it and called it stupid. My mom constantly undermines ANY anime/manga related thing. For example, I have several mangas in the bottom drawer of my bookshelf. My mom happened to be looking through that drawer one day, saw them, laughed, and asked if she could toss them. Once she heard me and a friend talking about anime and just tossed me a dissaproving look. My dad claims that there's a lot of "content" that he doesn't want me, at 14, to see. It's funny how "content" doesn't seem to bother him when I'm watching a "normal" movie or TV show. My elder brother goes to a different school than me and is part of the "cool" crowd that thinks manga/anime is stupid. I'm not even obsesssed with it! I watch it about once a week, whenever my parents aren't around (like right now, lol). My family wants me to make friends, because now in high school I'm sort of a loner, and I do try. It's just that when I do meet someone I like and enjoy talking to (anime-geeks), I'm scared to pursue a friendship because I know my parents won't approve. I don't want my family to always sit in front of the computer screen, watching old Bleach episodes (my fav :). But I do want to be able to read a manga in the family room without being ridiculed!
Am I a bad person because I hate my family and want a new and better family?
Depends of the reason of your hate. We all know that we do not choose the family we have. In some ocassions, and I say this from what I've seen, some families can be very mean and destructive, some of our relatives can be bad with us, in the way that they treat us and in infinitive forms... in those cases... it's just normal the feeling of hate... it's normal in humans.BUT if you wish to have another family... just because you "think you deserve something better" , more affection, attention, love, money, food, etc... so, yes, you're a fool and it's bad to feel hate.
My family is always teasing me!?
i know how u feel. well about the part with all my brothers and sisters teasing me. two fo them did tease me for a long time (the rest were older adults or almost adults) but they eventually stopped because i think we got closer in age. but im still the only kid out of them so at times they can tease me. but wat i do is i tease back! lol!! when i get mad at whoever lives in my house that gets me angry, or anyone i write down a story cause i love to write and i write about wat happened and then i read it over and rip it up. it makes me feel better and it gets the stress out. u could try to queeze a stress ball or write down ur feelings on a piece of paper and throw it in a box. or u can confront ur parents(family) and tell them its hurting ur feelings. maybe u all can go to a councelor. or maybe if ur parents dont wanna go u can ask if only u can so u can tell someone else how u feel, they are usually good with helping people out. or try a school councelor. i really hope i helped!! good luck, and remember dont let it get to u!