I no longer see the point to life and feel hopeless.
I often wish I could go back to being 19 and re-live these past. Im about to turn 22 and feel awful. I havent slept in about a week or ate. Ive lost 15 pounds these past two weeks because i cant eat. i try to go out shopping to make myself feel better but i end up crying in the car. im crying right now. I know i cant expect someone on yahoo answers to fix my life but i need to vent. I used to be such an artistic person, not only that, but i was passionate to a fault. no one could sway me. after so many years of hearing my dad tell me to be practical and calling me a loser i have lost my ambition and my dreams are dying. I have no friends, they are all married. i have no boyfriend. I never wanted to get married and have kids and seeing people so happily married made me wonder "Is this all there is to life?". Im having a hard time accepting that all life is is a means of securing a comfortable death. sometimes i get the overwhelming urge to drive with my eyes closed to hopefully die in an accident. My mom tells me ill feel better when im done with school and can afford nice furniture, ect. but she doesnt understand. If i could live in a hut with no belongings and be absolutely content and happy, i would choose that option over materialistic things every time. at 22, no longer pursuing my personal goals of music and art, i feel maybe i better jump on the wagon and get married. only i havent met anyone. My sister passed away in 2000, and i swear i simply feel like the wrong sister died that day.
I have lost faith in life and hate this world?
Your reaction is very normal and very understandable, in no way weird but healthily sensitive. It is said that the price of love is pain, and suffering is the price we pay for being alive! Not one of us escapes at some stage. You are experiencing what many of us have experienced - and that is - disillusionment. This is very hard to bear and to come to term with. I take encouragement, even a slap on the wrist, when I read about the courage and amazing endeavours of very brave people in horrendous conditions, the amazing thing is that they do not give up! Sometimes we feel it to be morally wrong to experience joy and pleasure in life when at the same exact time there are people in this world being tortured or suffering from permanent sickness, hunger and cold. But the human spirit can endure the most terrible conditions, such people make us think. The belief in the teaching of the Bible that somehow God is going to balance things out and bring Divine Justice one day, is the faith that keeps me sane. Many people have learned to deal with harsh reality by making a difference themselves, some have been moved to start charities at great personal cost, some have protested most of their life to improve conditions for certain groups, against much opposition: you will feel better if you can find a way or ways to help suffering humanity. A relationship with God can miraculously improve the situation of many, or they find a way to cope. Try to realize that it is our spirit which is important not what we enjoy or suffer in our body. I think of Jesus deliberately going to Jerusalem knowing what his terrible fate would be, not even God could find an easier way to bring salvation to lost souls and eventually, to a lost suffering world, this tells me that spiritual life and progress MUST involve suffering, but this endured with patience and with what faith we can muster, will some day bring glorious rewards more wonderful than we can dream of! Do not torture yourself by spending too much time on reading about the dark side of this world, there is much to inspire and cheer one's heart. Suffering DOES come to end with all those who aim to exercise faith in God. But please do ask Christ into your heart and life and then you will receive that Peace and Holy Joy that 'passes all human understanding' and even surpasses logic! Keep searching, the answer is on the spiritual level of life.
I hate my life, I have no motivation to do anything. What do I do?
Dear friend,Lavish dinner, live it fully!Bread crumps! live it fully!Live it fully in either case and in every case.Wish granted, live it fully!Wish denied, live it fully!Living fully does not mean that you have to add something to life. Living fully means that life is already full and you must not be disrespectful towards that fullness.Living fully does not mean that you have to go out and consume life. Living fully does not mean you have to enhance life. Living fully means that whatever is, is always full. There is nothing except fullness. Just go close to it. The separation is the issue.Eating fully means that every morsel is a great opportunity to know the total. It does not mean what you are eating, how much you are eating.Life is anyway always, already happening and whatever is happening, ‘whatever’ not some special happening, is a gateway.You get lot to eat, that is your opportunity, an opportunity to know through eating what is eating and what is it that is beyond eating and if you get to eat a little that again is an equal opportunity.There are two tables. On one is laid out a sumptuous dinner and on the other table is a measly piece of bread. Are the persons on these two tables having unequal opportunities?Just tell me.No.The opportunity is same because the Truth is one. Are you getting it?If you have lavish spread in front of you, then, that is your opportunity. Know here. Know right now. And if you have just dry crumps of bread, that is the opportunity. That is an equal opportunity.So, lavish dinner, live it fully!Bread crumps! live it fully!Live it fully in either case and in every case.Wish granted, live it fully!Wish denied, live it fully!Do not ask anything more, because it is already maximum that is possible.It is about depth, about the quality.~ Acharya Prashant (आचार्य प्रशान्त)You cannot get It through your effort.But you will not get It without effort either.Don’t resist,empty yourself, andleave the rest to Grace.”~ Acharya Ji❄❄❄❄❄❄❄Celebrate this Christmas, with the Master!Advait Learning CampThe Pink city, Jaipur22nd - 25th Dec'18Call:- +91-9555554772This Christmas,Be Really Blessed❄
What should I do if I hate my life and I feel like dying?
I am going to do away with the zen thinking bullshit and ask you just one question:How much do you hate everything?Because I hope you hate a lot.Look, I will lay it on you straight, no sweet coating, no fudging, life fucking suck. Life is out to get you. Life is unfair. Life is an amoral bitch that only want to see you suffer, and will actively try to make you stupid and be useless so she can get rid of your pathetic parasitic existence off of her.That is why you have every god damn right to hate Life.Hate Life. Hate Life with all your being, with all fibers of your existence, down to the core of your very soul. Hate Life for what it is, and never avert your eyes away from that hatred. Look at the ugliness that you were forced into.Now embrace that hatred. Hold it tight to your black, wretched heart. Go to the dark side. Feel the fire burning inside you. Can you see that energy? Use it.Use it to fuck Life over.Life only has power on you if you let her do it. She will step over you and crush you if you do nothing and lay there. SO DON’T FUCKING LET HER.Hate life, and DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN TO FUCK UP HER EFFORT TO GET RID YOU OFF HER.I will teach you this simple gesture:Yes, that one.How to use it?Whenever Life makes you feel worthless and tell you that you should go die in a hole, give her that middle finger, tell her “FUCK YOU!” then go off, make money, get friends, do stuff and make yourself feel better, because FUCK LIFE!Let her know she isn’t going to fuck you over anymore. You are not getting off her that easy. You are going to fight her all the way to the grave with middle finger raise high and eyes staring down on her.You are going to screw up her plan of screwing up your life.She wants you to be shitty and feel shitty. Stop her from doing that. Go get help, cheat life, make yourself a better person, clinging on to her like a fucking immortal tick. The best revenge you will ever get from life is a long lasting life, successful, happy with friends and family and laughing all the way until you die.Get that last laugh.
I'm 15 and I hate my life... please help?
This is late, but I want to extend my deepest sympathies to you. I, too, had a perpetually angry and bitter language teacher when I was 15. Played favorites, would freak out if you so much as slouched in your chair, held you after class just to get pissy at you, etc. The other teachers I had agreed with the students about how unpleasant she was because somehow she would get in their hair as well. I ended up dropping the class, and did not regret the decision later. Think about it, unless you absolutely must take these to pass. Try to stick with it. High school is terrible, but if you can make it through you'll have a lot more freedom to do what you want with your life. Don't listen to the people who try to put you down. I don't care what their qualifications are, they don't know anything. I can tell by your writing skills that you're a smart guy, and the ability to make complex, easily readable, and well-organized paragraphs with good grammar will take you very far academically. Mst ppl ur age rite leik this n no 1 can understnd them so they r totally fked in cawlledge lol. Just survive high school, all the bullies that lack the brains to follow you to higher education, all the teachers who base their grades on how much they like you (unfortunately, this sometimes occurs in college...), all the greasy mystery meat in the cafeteria, the stupid rules and the stupid classes and the stupid people, just pull through and leave it behind. Life might get better if you can do this. I would suggest experimenting with other forms of entertainment when you are unable to use the computer, but from the sound of it you have a very strict home life, so I do not know how practical reading a book or exercising would be if your parents are helicoptering around making sure you're doing something resembling useless homework. Again, I think you will be a much happier man in three or four years when you can move out and take charge of your own life. It won't be long. On how to make things better: I wish I had better ideas. I withdrew completely around middle school and didn't give a single crap about school again until well into college. High school to me was reading and occasionally scribbling on things when I had to. I don't actually recommend this to others who are not hairy, isolated, repulsive cave trolls. Other than what I've already said, I can only extend sincere hugs to you and wish you the best. Hang in there.
I hate my life. plz help!!?
I feel like i have no purpose in this life. i cry myself to sleep every night because of school and my family. I am a boy in grade nine and i constantly get picked on. Ppl say i'm gay and an nerd and make fun of me. I don't have friends and normally ave nothing to do and no one to do something with. i am never invited to parties or movies. I have constantly been trying to do something of my appearance. I am rathe chubby for my age. i have glasses, braces, short at 4'10 and don't have much talents. I am only really good at playing guitar. My paents are always pushing me with my grades. I will bring home 80's then 90's and even higher but it still isn't high enough. My younger brother and sister constantly torment me at home. Everyone I'm my life is always pushing me around. I need some hemp, i have lots of thoughts of suicide and don't like the idea but it is the only thing that keeps popping in my head. was i suppose to be born like this? plz give me some advice
Why do I hate life for absolutely no reason?
My life couldn't be more perfect. I live in the most amazing place in the world. Perfect weather, perfect beaches, mountains close enough to drive to, even just the surroundings are a made life a paradise perfection. This comes from someone who used to live in Arizona and, I'm not sure what that might mean to you, but let's just say I basically moved to my dream vacation. I wake up most mornings with a strong dislike for life. I don't get it. My family is the most amazing family in the world! My siblings are some of my best friends and my parents love to have fun and take us to Disneyland and the beach and so on all the time. It's great. Lots of fun. Yet I can't seem to enjoy it. Not in the slightest. Life used to be filled infinite possibilities, now I don't even know who I am. I woke today feeling like I forgot something of great importance. I felt lost. Why? I have no clue. My friends are amazing, I'm on the cross country team at my school and I'm pretty good. I made the long distance track without having to try out based on my xc times. I'm a straight A student because it used to mean so much to me. I still won't let my grades drop to a B... It's just different now. I don't see what good the next few years will do for me. I don't see life. I look around and see the fog of my mind's own confusion and I just don't understand. I'm a freshman in high school and pretty much a year younger than most everyone in my grade. I want to learn so many things constantly. I write books and am so, so close to actually finishing a novel of mine. Yet I can't really see. My head hurts as does my stomach and I just don't know what to do. Today a car came flying across the intersection and hit the wall in the center right in front of us, flipping and sliding. It could have slid into us and who knows what would have happened. Afterward I found myself wishing it had. I don't know what to do... I just feel so lost. My happy, cheerful self has disappeared and people have noticed. I've fallen into a funk and when people ask me what's wrong so that they can help me out of it, I don't have an answer. Nothings wrong. Everything's wrong. Is this normal? Do most people feel like this? Like living is death in itself? I don't really have anything else to say other than help. If you can. Please help me.
I am 28 years old and lost in my life? I do not have a career that I love and feel like I'm failing. What can I do to figure out what exactly I want to do with my life?
Come closer young padawan, let me share with you a secret. Shh. Don’t tell ANYONE. Do you see all these people giving advice, they have no idea what the hell they are doing either!I know, crazy, right? To read all their answers, you’d think they had it all figured out, but just like you, they have no idea, even the ones who have an idea, have no idea.Life is a lot about luck and momentum.If you ask 100 people if any of their plans worked out exactly like they expected, you’ll find that 100 of them say…wait for it…no!10 of them will say they are happy about how said plan worked out. 10 will say it was a disaster. 80 of them will say yes and no, but they made the best of it. 1 of them will say they were never good at counting and 1 of them will say it was very close and almost what they expected.This is just for various little plans. If you ask those same 100 if they are where they planned to be when they were 28 (or 48), unless they are still 28 (or 48), they’ll just laugh.We can’t predict the future, we can’t predict how others will act, we can’t even consistently predict how we’ll act.Life is about living, if it was about being happy we’d use a word more like happying. Focus on living, warts and all.Look, you can say you want to marry a person who is x, y, and z, but the reality is that you’ll run across maybe 100–200 people in your entire life who you even would have the opportunity to explore a relationship with. Of them you might date 10 of them. Likely all 10 will result in a break up.You can say I want to do this with my life, but then the actual opportunities that you have will be that.This is why the wise focus on attitude and emotions. Success in life is a lot about just dealing with all the shit life has in store for you, good and bad.Two things you can do now: 1/ Try a lot of different things (especially giving yourself permission to fail). 2/ Focus on momentum.Life is best lived with a three year perspective. A year is too short for anything meaningful and five years is enough to see if the momentum you are building is working out.To read you’d think everyone knew what they wanted to do since birth, but they didn’t and they don’t.Wait until they lose their jobs, their health, their relationships and suddenly they’ll admit things weren’t as clear as they advised and they’ll be over to Quora asking similar questions.:)