How do I help someone who hates herself?
If you can find out what is the main root of their self-hatred. It is usually one thing which that someone would change about themselves if they were given the chance by the creator, It’s something they feel causes their downfalls, whatever goes wrong in their lives it’s because of it. Mostly, they’d not talk about it because they feel people will never understand and they may use it to hurt them.This is as much as you can do.Have them realize their strength or good qualities, whether its physical appearance, personality, intelligence etc.Help them concentrate on positive thoughts and positive things such as smiling, laughing, interacting with a lot of positive people and doing what makes them happy.Make them understand that whatever they hate about themselves, someone somewhere lives happily with it. This may help them get some inspiration into loving themselves.If you can demonstrate or inform them about other people who suffer or find themselves in different misfortunes life threw them in yet still manage a smile and live happy life. They may be inspired at the way a rose strives to grow from concrete. They may understand how fortunate they are.Everyone has their own fortunes and misfortunes. Kids in orphanages, the homeless, the abused, the disabled, the disturbed, the rich, the poor. No one asked for anything, it was given, just like that, we have to live with it.Let them understand that whatever thing they hate about themselves they can not change because if they were able to they would have. They should rather look at the bright side, I may be blind but I have remarkable ways of observing and understanding the world in ways none else can. Its our defects, our faults that makes us perfect as a human. The sooner you realize there is nothing wrong with you and start loving your defects, you will be surprise at the disadvantage the defect brought you.Stop looking for excuses to hate yourself because you believe there is something wrong with you, find reasons to love yourself more because you have a lot of things special about you.Because such kind of people have a tendency of being perfectionists, make them understand imperfection is human nature and it’s a wonderful thing, it provide room for change, improvement and advancement, the essence of life is to live, experience, learn and advance.Recommend books which may help them to alter their thoughts of themselves and of life and world, Quora makes good recommendations.
I hate my home life...?
My family is the reason why i cry almost every night, My family is the reason i hate myself so much, My family is the reason why i dont feel important to anyone, my family is the reason why im so self cautious about myself, why sometimes i dont feel like living, why i feel like im not good enough for anyone, they are the reason why im like the way i am today... Nothing i do is ever right in their eyes, My older brother can sleep all day, not do anything and its okay, i take one nap, or not do one thing i get bitched at and told that i need to get stuff done, I cant stick up for myself without getting threatened or told to stop talking back. Tonight, i was basically told - never to talk again - i have the bitchiest attitude anyone could hear - that all i ever do is talk back - that i need to change who i am - that im too lazy - that im not important - that i dont anything right - and how my little sisters gonna grow up to be a bad kid all because of me.. Thanks mom and dad, makes me feel really good. I dont know how to handle it anymore? All i can do is break down crying. Even if i tell them how i feel itll turn out to be a 3 hour talk about how im lazy and dont do anything right... At this very minute im crying like the baby i am because i dont know how to handle things anymore..
I hate my life so much?
i'm 16 and i upset all the time. i get so mad at the smallest things and i just explode. i moved to a new school and i don't have any friends. i've been sleeping late every night, today i went to sleep at 11 in the morning and work up at 4p.m. today is also my birthday and all my friends from my old school forgot (and we've been friends since 2008???) and my parents forgot too. my little sister had to remind my mom then my mom told happy birthday and told me to clean the kitchen tomorrow. i cry all to time for no reason and then when there is a reason to cry nothing comes out. i'm almost never hungry and when i am all i want to eat is junk food/chocolate. whenever i'm about to go to school i have to give my self a pep talk just to make it out the front door and i sit at lunch alone almost everyday. sometimes i want to kill myself but i'm too scared because what if life gets better after i'm out of the house and out of high school. but then again what if it never gets better? i spend almost everyday in my bedroom on the computer and i now have a 2.8 gpa when I used to have a 3.7 gpa last year. i don't know what's going on. school gets me so nervous i always think someone is going to make fun of me and at home its no better. i'm always so bored that i start crying for NO reason, i just start to make up reasons like: i'm ugly/stupid/i have no friends. i dislike living so much and find no point in it. we're all going to die anyway so why go to college or have children or find 'love.' we're all going to perish and we'll nothing once we're in the grave.
I hate my life so much !?
Maybe gods don't care about spoiled, whining adolescents, if they exist at all. . Oh, boo hoo. Welcome to the human condition. The sooner you start coping with that fact the sooner you'll start growing up into an adult. Until then you're just a child, and who wants to listen to a complaining child? What do you think anyone here can do for you? It's time to start manning up, Kevin. The fact is that you have a better life than the majority of people in the world, and you live better than kings did a couple of centuries ago. Should we all feel sorry for poor you? . .
I hate life so much but I don't want to die?
It really does get better. Take it one day at a time. Try to get your assignments done. Put on some music in the background or something if that helps. Actually, if you hate life, doing assignments can be a way to pass the time without thinking about things. You'll feel better with every question you finish. Don't stress about wasting your life, and don't worry about having a boyfriend; it'll be later that you contribute to society. Just get through this time now. Go talk to your art teacher and get the paper. Um, and this might sound silly, but try going for a walk when you can and taking a multivitamin. The former definitely helps depression and probably the latter only helps some people, but if you're like me it makes all the difference in the world. You are awesome. Don't let people tell you otherwise.
Why do I hate life so much?
Someone once told me, human beings feel happy in two ways.You can either be truely happy with your life or look at other people, who are more miserable than you and tell yourself that I am better than them. Probably, this is what life is about. “Being less miserable than others”.If you are living a life that you hate. People around you, might tell you that you have much more than others. It is just psychological.Most people settle for this thought, since majority is doing it. They get busy, being busy. Live an ordinary life.But if you are courageous, take the road less traveled. Find your happiness, find your life. You create a life that you can love.The fact that you hate your life is an indication, that it is time to make a change. Reality is, people will give you thousands of suggestions on how you should live your life, but eventually you have to live it.Go out explore the world with an open mind. Experiment with new things. Find out things that excite you. Based on what touches a chord with you, decide what you want to do with your life.Another reason that I can think of is deep emotional supression. We often supress our emotions deep inside because it is not right to say certain things to certain people. Over time these emotions get more intense and supression become a subconscios habit. But we are unclear about the direction they are coming from. Hence, hatred towards life.The best way will be to explore catharsis and other methods of emotional cleansing.You can try a session and if you feel lighter after that. It means you have found the root cause of this problem.Wish you all the best
What should I do if I hate my life and I feel like dying?
I am going to do away with the zen thinking bullshit and ask you just one question:How much do you hate everything?Because I hope you hate a lot.Look, I will lay it on you straight, no sweet coating, no fudging, life fucking suck. Life is out to get you. Life is unfair. Life is an amoral bitch that only want to see you suffer, and will actively try to make you stupid and be useless so she can get rid of your pathetic parasitic existence off of her.That is why you have every god damn right to hate Life.Hate Life. Hate Life with all your being, with all fibers of your existence, down to the core of your very soul. Hate Life for what it is, and never avert your eyes away from that hatred. Look at the ugliness that you were forced into.Now embrace that hatred. Hold it tight to your black, wretched heart. Go to the dark side. Feel the fire burning inside you. Can you see that energy? Use it.Use it to fuck Life over.Life only has power on you if you let her do it. She will step over you and crush you if you do nothing and lay there. SO DON’T FUCKING LET HER.Hate life, and DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN TO FUCK UP HER EFFORT TO GET RID YOU OFF HER.I will teach you this simple gesture:Yes, that one.How to use it?Whenever Life makes you feel worthless and tell you that you should go die in a hole, give her that middle finger, tell her “FUCK YOU!” then go off, make money, get friends, do stuff and make yourself feel better, because FUCK LIFE!Let her know she isn’t going to fuck you over anymore. You are not getting off her that easy. You are going to fight her all the way to the grave with middle finger raise high and eyes staring down on her.You are going to screw up her plan of screwing up your life.She wants you to be shitty and feel shitty. Stop her from doing that. Go get help, cheat life, make yourself a better person, clinging on to her like a fucking immortal tick. The best revenge you will ever get from life is a long lasting life, successful, happy with friends and family and laughing all the way until you die.Get that last laugh.
What makes people hate their life?
Disappointments, failures and regrets are some of the things that make people hate their life. Didn’t match up someone’s expectation, you start to think what a disappointment I am. You ask out your crush, s/he rejects you, you think life isn’t worth living anymore. These are just to name a few, but in reality there are 50 more reasons for it.The lesson that we ought to learn from this that negative feelings shouldn’t drift us to hate our life. As a matter of fact, it is these experiences that help us learn various things in life and let us become a better person.For e.g., you aspired for a job opportunity in company X and have been preparing for it for 3–4 months. Your family as well is as excited as you when you sit for the interview process and believe that you will be selected because you had put in the effort.Next day, boom. You didn’t get selected. You get disappointed because you failed yourself and your family’s expectations, even though you had spent a lot of time preparing for it. Moreover, it was the one thing you wanted with your life that didn’t get into place and now it feels like life is unfair.This is the normal thought process that comes to mind. I would urge you to take things differently. Rewind back to a few days when the interviews happened, play the whole day in your life. You will find a particular moment/question where you can say that you could’ve answered it better. If it is not that then rewind back even more and ask yourself honestly, did you actually prepare up to the mark for it.The point that I am trying to make is that hatred is self-induced. Don’t let it consume you no matter what. Hatred is fueled when you get to know your own mistakes. So, always be ready to learn from all the negative vibes you get when you fail and be honest with yourself at owning your mistakes. You won’s come to a point wherein you hate your life.P.S. Even though I wrote it in first-person view, the answer is meant for anyone who has that slight feeling of hatred with his/her life regardless of the fact who posted the question.Peace!
I hate this life it sucks so much! What can I do?
Hand your life over to someone who wants it more than you do, and who will transform it into something beautiful. Clearly, you don't want your life because of all that you see going on in life today. So, get rid of it, and receive, in return, a new life, real life now and - in the future - eternal life in glory. Jesus Christ is just a prayer away.