I hate my older sister!?
I am 15 and my older sister is 17. Sometimes we get along, but for the most part we drive each other crazy. She steals my stuff ALL THE TIME and when i ask her to stop she just says "nope" because she thinks shes really cool and doesn't want to admit that she's wrong. Whenever i ask her about her life she says that i have to live through her social life because my life is so boring. On the day of my birthday party she actually said she wanted me raped and killed. Whenever i leave the table she immediately starts whispering about me to my mom and my mom whispers back. When my mom asks me questions like "why didn't they text you back?" out of no where my sister will scream "because no one likes her!" or "because she's so ugly!" I asked my mom what would happen if i didn't make her my maid of honor at my wedding and my mom freaked out at me saying that was total betrayal. But i hate her so much i can't ever learn to love her. She exaggerates stories about me to her friends to make me look terrible. And my mom sees me as the mean one in all of this. Also, my sister has been caught numerous times drunk and my mom found a video of her doing drugs on her phone. People tell me it will get better when we're older, but i hate her so much. Being around her makes me so uncomfortable and i don't know whats wrong. Aren't sisters supposed to be really nice and best friends? Can someone please tell me if it is okay or not to hate your sister? Because im starting to think i am the mean one. thanks
I HATE my older sister!!!!?
Omg girl ur post was so funny!. But seriously girl i don't think there is anything u can do because it sounds ur sis is the one that needs therapy. at ur school, there should have a guidance counselor and u could speak to them without ur parents permission....if u think ur life is screwed up...read my question http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmwOLiZXgkZKE8nikOvt_v7sy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20120810222732AAKOW5X
I hate my older sister?
SHES freaking 20!!! and I'm 16... I don't do anything and she constantly does stuff to bother me.. she is so so so selfish and it is ridiculous. She came home for like 2 months and I'm in school currently and I have finals to study for and she keeps whining how I don't do any cleaning when she has 10 hours to do this stuff before I get home. She says I'm a lazy brat but when our grandma was in the hospital I'd get home from practice shower anddo my homework, then wash the dishes at 11pm sometimes.. she does petty things. My oldest sister told her about a concert contest and she entered in. My 20 year old sister won because of my OLDEST one. And instead of taking her to the concert, she turns around and sells the tickets and doens't give half the money to my sister.... The other day I just asked for a streak in my hair and i wanted it in the back, but since I didn't want to put the color streak in the front she wouldn't do it for me. I know I shouldn't be complaining but these are just the little things. She'll keep screaming at me at 6am when I'm getting ready for school that I'm too loud...and I'm tip toeing trying to be quiet for her. I even wake 30 minutes before my alarm clock just so it doesn't wake her up when it goes off. It was my birthday a week ago and she didn't say happy birthday to me and she's like stop being so sensitive (because no one said happy birthday to me in my family) i told her i didn't care for the presents i just wanted to hear happy birthday and she said to get over myself and that it's not a sacred day. What should I do? I honestly can't stand her..sometimes I feel like if she were dead I'd be sad for 1 day and forget about her for the rest.. I know this unhealthy but I have considered like pushing her down the stairs. She irritates me so much.. I can't calm down, any tips how to calm down?
I hate my older sister, what should I do?!?
Ok, so I am 15 years old, but I am very mature for my age, believe me. Well, my sister is 17 years old and...literally, I hate her. She gives me absolutely NO respect at all! And it doesn't help that everyone at school thinks shes so cool so since she doesn't give me respect, then no one else will! She is VERY inconsiderate, narcissistic, loud, aggressive (she starts yelling at the simplest things instantly, I am not lying!) rude, and well I can go on for days. I am loud most times, usually perky, mellow and I am VERY sensitive so she constantly makes me cry in public. My sister doesn't know when to say things, so she will say things in public (usually at school and something very embarrassing like screaming how I text and flirt with a guy) and everyone around hears her and literally looses every drop of respect for me right then and there. She also talks to my friends' AND crushes' behind my back and tells them embarrassing, fake, and/or my secrets about me! She has ruined countless relationships for me whether they're friendships, boyfriends and/or possible boyfriends, etc. Not to mention she accuses me and starts yelling at me for accidentally wearing her socks right in the middle of chemistry. I just...I really need help. I hate her so much, its not even funny. I know that it is usual for teenagers to hate their siblings, but this is unnatural. I hate my little brother, but its not this intense, I still love him. I also hear a lot of "You'll regret it later in life when you and your sister aren't friends." And, well, to be quite frank, I don't care at this point if I ever see her again in my entire life. I seriously hate her, but I don't want to. I want to love her since shes my sister, but she has put me through so much pain and treated me so terribly that I just have had enough. I have tried to be civil, I have even talked to her several times, but when she starts making me crying at school right in front of my friends, and my crush, I think its about enough. I just don't know what to do. Someone, please help me...I really need it.
I honestly hate my older sister?
I hate my older sister. She's bossy, rude, and acts as if she's my mother. Please don't tell me that this is how older sisters act; She does it because she thinks she superior despite being honestly stupid. If she ever becomes homeless, I honestly would never help her, if fact I think I would laugh and slam my door in her face if she ever had the audacity to show up and expect assistance. Once I turn 18 I plan to cut off all contact with her. How should I go about doing this? And do you think it's natural for me to hate her?
I hate my older sister, is that wrong?
You're not wrong in hating your sister. I've learned that hating someone does nothing really to that other person though, that other person will just think you're overreacting and that you're the "problem" not that person. It's a waste of energy though to hate someone. For me, I rather just not deal with the person period. I can relate to you not having a good relationship with your sister though as I have two sisters-my eldest sister is 36 while my other sister is 33. I am 28 years old. My sisters treat me like garbage but they treat their friends and my cousins better than them. One of my cousins was born two years before me and they treat him more of a brother than me. They hang out with him and hug him. Both of my sisters are embarrassed that I'm their brother. My sister who is 33 years old, would be embarrassed to introduce me to her friends/coworkers when I was a teenager. Both of my sisters are arrogant and just plain obnoxious. My eldest sister is the one person I probably ever wanted to kill. She's called me a loser along with her husband whom I met when I was in fourth grade. I was not even invited to their wedding 5 years ago. My dad tried to bribe me with money just to attend her wedding but I refused to go and ended up going to the job I worked at the time, on the day of her wedding. When it's my parents birthdays, my sisters birthday and holidays (Thanksgiving and Christmas), I avoid being around my sisters and my brother-in-law. I just don't want to be miserable being around my sisters and my brother-in-law and I don't want to be fake towards them. It sucks when a person like you or I, don't have a good relationship with their siblings but life moves on. My mom's siblings don't like her. One of them, only calls her up to gossip and give bad news. My mom's other siblings have used her to help babysit their kids and for a place to stay. One of my mom's brothers verbally abused her while another brother of hers, pull a gun on her. My dad only talks to one of his brothers. I suggest just keeping out of your sister's way as she's not worth getting angry over. You just have to accept that your sister and you may never get along. It's messed up though when you have an older sibling who doesn't respect you. I hope that I've helped answer your question and take care of yourself. I mean it. ~ Alan
What can I do so that my two older sisters don't hate me anymore?
Ask them why they hate you and what they think you can do about it.
Is it normal that I hate my older sister?
Depends on your age and what she does to tick you off.Is she annoying, bossy, a know-it-all, etc? If it is just small stuff, you are annoyed or in temporary dislike. Sit down when you have cooled down and tell her what she does to annoy you. If it continues, just quit interacting. If that upsets her, explain that her actions have consequences.THAT YOU REFUSE TO INTERACT WITH SOMEONE WHO TRIES TO CONTROL YOU, TRIES TO BE YOUR MOTHER (BECAUSE YOU ALREADY HAVE ONE), IS ANNOYING ALL THE TIME!
I hate my 6 year old sister and im 14.?
Every first child got to face that problem. Just stop fighting with her still she grows up. And just try ignoring the bad things she does. Complaining to parents won't work because they look at the problem in your little sister's perspective. That's natural as parents. You have to understand that. 1. Stop fighting with your siser 2. Don't do any thing to make things equal:such as breaking her toys when she breaks your stuff 3. Don't compain to parents. Then, when you start ignoring her, she will do more mad stff and ultimately your parents will notice.