What makes people hate their life?
Disappointments, failures and regrets are some of the things that make people hate their life. Didn’t match up someone’s expectation, you start to think what a disappointment I am. You ask out your crush, s/he rejects you, you think life isn’t worth living anymore. These are just to name a few, but in reality there are 50 more reasons for it.The lesson that we ought to learn from this that negative feelings shouldn’t drift us to hate our life. As a matter of fact, it is these experiences that help us learn various things in life and let us become a better person.For e.g., you aspired for a job opportunity in company X and have been preparing for it for 3–4 months. Your family as well is as excited as you when you sit for the interview process and believe that you will be selected because you had put in the effort.Next day, boom. You didn’t get selected. You get disappointed because you failed yourself and your family’s expectations, even though you had spent a lot of time preparing for it. Moreover, it was the one thing you wanted with your life that didn’t get into place and now it feels like life is unfair.This is the normal thought process that comes to mind. I would urge you to take things differently. Rewind back to a few days when the interviews happened, play the whole day in your life. You will find a particular moment/question where you can say that you could’ve answered it better. If it is not that then rewind back even more and ask yourself honestly, did you actually prepare up to the mark for it.The point that I am trying to make is that hatred is self-induced. Don’t let it consume you no matter what. Hatred is fueled when you get to know your own mistakes. So, always be ready to learn from all the negative vibes you get when you fail and be honest with yourself at owning your mistakes. You won’s come to a point wherein you hate your life.P.S. Even though I wrote it in first-person view, the answer is meant for anyone who has that slight feeling of hatred with his/her life regardless of the fact who posted the question.Peace!
Why do I hate people?
lol Laura. I wish it was that easy. I have actually kicked her out several times. Unfortunately she doesn't have anywhere to go. Short of having the police come and remove her there isn't much I can do. She literally wont leave. I have packed her stuff up and put it in garbage bag on the lawn. She gets home and puts it all back in. Honestly I think I am going to have to go to court to get legal custody of the kids and then I can have her removed. I really just needed to vent. I am having a very angry day. I did like the song Sam Hall.. lol I may change my name.
I hate my life what should i do?
I really hate my life, I cry myself to sleep almost every night. My mom is always mean to me, and my dad never makes time for me, It seems that God should help me, but doesn't I’m ugly, and no girls like me. The girl I have a crush on barley even talks to me I've been rejected by a girl, i've moved schools, the school I used to go to is where the girl I loved was at. I feel like cutting myself, and just dying Moving on to Heaven where there's peace, and happiness. Dying might be painful, but the life I’m living now can't be worse Sometimes I wish I was white and lived with a white family, with brothers and sisters that loved me My brother hates me,and always yells at me, I’m Fat, and I feel embarrassed to go swimming in public. Sometimes I just feel like doing it, choking myself, or just drowning myself. I just feel like ending it all, once and for all. I have no idea what to do, i've talk to my school's Social worker, yet nothing helps, If I just knew what heaven was like I would end it all, Sometimes I pray to God for a better life, but nothing is gonna happen. I’m not happy with the life I’m living, matter of fact, I truly hate it. My family is poor, and lives in a small house. Sometimes I even try to run away, or write a death note. Why Must my life be this way? Why must every girl not like me? What's wrong with me? I;ve had thoughts on killing myself, just doing it. I cant live this life any longer. I would do anything for a better life a better family I don’t really have friends And most people hate me What should I do?
I HATE my life!!!! no friends, no caring people?
First, take a deep breath and know that you're only 15, everything will be okay. I was an anti-social, depressed kid when I was a freshman, too. I am now a Junior, and I must tell you, I have to be the luckiest and happiest person ever. The main reason that I was depressed when I was younger is very much like the reason you've given me; my friends betrayed me, they made fun of me, and I took that as a sign of failure, failure to society and as a human being. I soon realize that acceptance from my peers weren't important, what's important is the fact that I like who I am and what I see in the mirror every night, because that's when you know you deserve better than what you're getting. First, you need to find yourself a better learning environment. What I did was I went to a new school and made new friends and discovered a whole new, and better me. Instead of taking out your anger out on your parents, have 10mins of free time everyday and just relax and take the anger out by exercising while listening to music of your choice. Sometimes the best relief is to sing a sad song and just let everything out! Remember, although life has its ups and downs, don't ever let your sorrow get in your way of success and self-approval. And all it takes is the first step, eliminate the bad environment, and know that the worse has passed. Just so you'd know, everything is possible, “The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in a man's determination.” -Tommy Lasorda Best of luck, stay strong and motivated. d:^)-/-< And smile.
I simply hate people. What do I do?
I have felt something similair to this before, i had been mentally abused to near suicide, beaten up by over 30 people at one time, i heard one of my “friends” raped my sister, i had to suffer through 2 family feuds that were directed at me. I reported a coworker for punching a girl i work with, who was smaller than 5′3. The guy who punched her was a psycho meth addict who worked out i was the one who reported him and would try to make my life at work hell.The icing on the cake was that no other guy who was there manned up and admitted to what he did to this girl. I later discovered she was dating him and got off when he would beat people up she didn’t like.I got PTSD, anxiety, anger problems,and trust issues from all of these things that happened to me.I started to hate most people and hatred was all i had, it was all i recieved to.I couldn’t see the good in the world, the news, the elite, the society they had sculpted to trick citizens into thinking a certain way was in full swing for me. Society wants you to feel scared, it wants you to feel hatred, and most of all people in power want you to be divided, for if you ever unite with the people around you, this would spell the end of their tyranny.I deprogrammed myself from this way of thinking and i stopped destroying myself with alcohol to deal with my pain.I joined AA and i could see the good in people and the power god had to offer me! I have been sober for 2 years now and i am the happiest i have been in my life.AA taught me to seek out the similarities in others and not the differences. You might say there are non, but you would be wrong, we are all human and we all feel the same emotions at one point in our lives!I learned about the scientist who gave the polio vaccine out for free! It was valued at over a billion dollars potential profit and he put human life as the biggest reward! He saved millions of people with his heroic actions!I look at my nan who raised 9 children as widow, refusing to give them up. She was Irish during the IRA years, she got a lot of hatred and was even spat on. She worked 3 jobs to give her family a life, she is one of the strongest people i know and my inspiration, i love her very much.The news wouldn’t tell you about people like this, they would bombard you with propoganda and misery, extinguishing your hope and happiness in humanity!Hope is not lost, fight this bullshit!There is good in this world, deprogram yourself and experience the positivity for yourself!
Why do people hate themselves and their life?
Well, maybe its because they are insecure because some people are cruel. When I was, like 12, I hated myself because I saw myself fat because sone idiot told me I was fat and slow, so I felt bad, and quit gym. There were even sometimes I considered suicide, I didnt even try it cuz I KNOW there´s more to life. See, I try to be happy even though I maybe going through hell, but there are some people who are not capable of that. And to the one that said Rich and Glam, there are some rich people who hide in all that bling, and not show how unhappy and destroyed their lifes are. There was this one time, when I moved back to Argentina, where I lost everything, but I was still happy, because my family was never more united than that, I enjoyed the warmth in the house. But, some people cant stand the pain, so just hate and hate, without even trying. a very good question of yours though
Why do I hate people so much?
I have been to jail and i have met people in there just like you. You have a mentality of a killer. they hold sh*t in and explode on people and end up killing them because they held so much anger inside. All you can do is accept it and learn how to deal with it. You have gone mad because either a) you are lonely b) people have done you wrong c) you hate yourself but don't want to accept the truth so you hate others to cover it up I am similar to you but im mad because people have done me wrong and i had lived a lonely life all growing up which isn't my fault so i do have the right to be mad but i realized that it isn't worth hating people or beating up people. Do you really want to feel mad and feel like **** or end up in prison or forgetting about it and moving on and dealing with those problems for your own safety. To be honest, i have met very wise old men who lived a hard life and they all say that they would rather hurt a human than a animal because people are very rotten, their no good and that is just the way it is. There's nothing wrong with you, there's something wrong with those people who put you in that bad position and now all you can do is climb out the whole society or whoever dug that deep whole for you that got you stuck. The problem with you is that you care about people tooooo much, that's why you are mad. The reason why they aren't mad is because they don't care about you so they don't care what you do which doen't bother them. that shows how rotten people are, not all but most are like that.