Don't you hate it when people ask you for money?
This isn't about greed or selfishness. I just don't feel like I can trust certain people. I can understand if someone wants money to buy drugs, but after a bad experience when someone took advantage of my generosity to help him out of a gambling debt, it scarred me completely. I can help out family, like my sister and my parents (And no, like someone mentioned, they're not so uncaring, and I said that I have a sister, so I am not an only child). Donating money to charity, like for needy people is one thing, but people always asking for money to buy food and such, I find it annoying. I can see if someone left money at home, but I am careful with my money. I have been taken advantage of before, but I am trying not let it happen again. I know it's all in the past, but like I said, it scarred me a lot. But it annoys me so much when someone tries to guilt me into giving money. I may be a nice guy, but no person should take one's kindness for weakness.
I hate when people ask me to do things?
When anyone asks me to do something, ESPECIALLY my mum and older sister, it makes me mad and I don't want to do what they ask and usually I don't. It makes me feel like they think they're in control of me and I'll do what they tell me. Actually I don't like doing things when my mum asks because she just nags me all the time, doesn't even ask she just tells me in an angry tone like "WHEN WILL YOU CLEAN YOUR ROOM" instead "please clean your room" so I hate doing things for her. As for my sister, as I said before it makes me feel like she thinks she has control over me, like she can make me do whatever she wants. She has always been a ***** to me, maybe if she didn't treat me badly I wouldn't care so much. As for other people I'll normally do stuff for them because they actually say please and don't ask that often. I just want to know how can I stop getting mad and pushing away the anger and just do the things my mum asks and maybe my sister.
Do you hate when people ask if you're okay?
I mean, if you fall down some stairs or something, then it's okay to ask...but otherwise, no! I'm a girl and almost EVERYDAY in class, this guy nudges me and says "You okay?" I say yes everytime and he still asks. It makes me feel weird inside. I hate that question. What does he want, for me to be smiling all the time? I'm shy, but geez, after saying I'm fine for so many times, you think he would get that I'm freaking okay. Anyone else hate this?
Don't you hate when people ask to borrow a pencil from you?
And they never give it back? And they ask you again the next time? T__T im a really nice person so I always let people borrow a new awesome extra mechnanical pencil with cute pictures on them and IDC if they don't return or whatever ( maybe a little but idont CRYY bout it ) but the next day they ask me ," Hey can I borrow a pencil?" OMG and I'm not just talking about 1 person, I lent like 20 over the first 4 months!!
Don't you hate when people Ask if your eye color/hair is fake?
My friend is like your mix, and she has gorgeous hair and eyes. I think people are not used to exotic features put together and when they see it, its kinda like...IT must be fake.!!! cos u dont see it alot. Take it as a compliment, maybe ur just too pretty to be real..lol. ...but seriously people are gonna ask, and prolly will in the future all you can do is change how you perceive it.
Why do I get anxious when people ask if I'm OK?
Are you not OK when people are asking you?If generally, you are OK and get annoyed when someone asks you if you are OK. Externally you do not feel the need to be validated or a topic of conversation to another person. You feel otherwise independent and do not like anyone to infringe on your independent-ness. However, this is all in its perspective. It is way easier on yourself and others to not direct your attention to the negatives of how you feel about it. It is more simple to let questions like “are you OK?” and “are you hungry?” roll off you by simply answering them without feeling negative towards it.You cannot change what someone is going to ask you, you can only change your behaviour and how you react to things.Think of someone you truly care about and run a scenario of you asking them if they are OK. Let them give you your behaviour in return that you would otherwise use if it was you being asked. Reflect on that behaviour and think about how you would like to change the scenario.Because unfortunately, the scenario is always going to exist unless you plan on walking around taping everyone's mouths shut to prevent them from asking you if you are OK.
Artist do you hate when people ask you to draw something for you for free?
Yes, it does annoy me. I design tattoos, tees and other merchandise for money. It's more the assumption that art should be free that annoys me. The kind of people with that assumption obviously have no idea of art or any respect for the people who do it. You wouldn't get a plumber to sort out a sink and assume it's free. I find people who know me are exactly the same, think they can get it free. People don't understand the hard work, effort and value that goes into art. Though generally I won't bother answering a question if they mention anything about it being 'free', I just don't waste my time. Unless it's a really nice idea which I would enjoy drawing up.
Why do I hate when people ask me out? Is this common?
Possible theories: You are not interested in that person. It could just be that the person asking you out is not the person you WANT to ask you out. You could be waiting for someone specific, and since that person is not asking you out, you are getting aggravated, annoyed, upset and/or frustrated. You could also just be in the phase of your life when you do not want a relationship. I completely understand you if you don't (I am going through this phase lol). Sometimes when you're busy with school, work, social life, church (or other religious agenda) thinking about a relationship can be time-consuming and annoying. You can also ask yourself this question: How are they asking you out? If you are a beautiful person (which I am sure you are both inside and out) some people take that as an invitation that you are easy. This might not make sense, but listen in for a second... Normally when a person has the type of personality that is easy to get along with paired up with beauty, this sends an invitation for people to want to ask you out. Some people have no tact and are very blunt or rude in the way they ask because of this (they assume you won't get upset because you're so easy-going). I know if someone asked me out in a way I thought was rude or innapropriate, I would be very upset as well. Especially if I recieve these on a regular basis. But, in order for you to remedy this you have to find a cause. Analyze these answers, if you think one (or more) of them fits you then we might have found a cause. You can then try to find a way to remedy it. If you don't find any that fit your description, then hopefully you have gotten enough of an idea to find your own unique cause. Hope I helped (sorry for beign so wordy :-S ) Good luck!!
I hate when people ask if a free solution exists, but here I go... Can anyone please recommend a high quality Pinterest analytics/reporting tool that exists for free?
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Why do I want to cry when people ask if I'm okay?
I was just wondering the same thing. I randomly gave my ex a hug, for no real reason other than I needed some human contact. He asked if I was alright and I bust into tears. Totally not expecting that. I swear I was just fine before the question was asked.But there is a lot weighing on my heart. I have buried a lot of my pain trying to be strong.But it seems whenever that question is asked, “are you alright?”, I have a hard time keeping the tears away.Normally people ask “how are you?”… not much to that. “I'm good. I'm okay. eh, things could be better”. But the question “are you alright?” is much deeper. And I think it really gets us thinking about if we are alright or not.In my case, Obviously no, I'm not.