How to get over a celebrity crush?
I know this sounds stupid but I don't care I just need advice. So I'm 15 and completely in love with One Direction. (I'm seeing them in concert this summer and next summer!!!) anyways, I support all of them and their girlfriends. But for some reason I get super jealous of Louis' gf eleanor. He's my favorite member of the band and he is my biggest celebrity crush ever! He's literally all I think about most of the time...Today I was looking at videos and pictures of him and his girlfriend in new york this week and it made me super depressed. I know I'm never gonna have him and he's like 5 years older than me... It's starting to really bother me how depressed I get over it. Is this normal!? How do I get over it but still be able to love 1D?! thanks. oh and please no rude comments....
How to get over a really bad celebrity crush?
I know this is completely ridiculous and unhealthy, but I have this huge crush on a paticuliar member of a group. At first it started off as an innocent crush, but over time my feelings for him kept growing and growing. I got to meet him and hug him and he was the sweetest person ever. Here's my issue though. He's on my mind constantly and I have no interest in other guys and because of him I have unrealistically high expectations in guys. He's just so talented, genuine and adorable. My friends try to set me up with guys and I have absolutely no interest. This celebrity recently got a girlfriend and it's hitting me really hard. I find myself crying quite often and am in this funk. (maybe slight depression) Now obviously I need to get over this person and get on with my life. What's the best way to do this? I tried to stay away from social media involving him but somehow I come crawling back. I realize how pathetic this is I just need some advice. Thanks.
Celebrity Crushes gone bad?!
I can actually relate. I used to have a serious major crush on a celebrity that started from when I was a child. And the reason why is because in my fantasy I didn't have to answer to my crush and could get away from the real world. That's a very bad place to be in because it affected the way I grew up and developed attractions for other people. I ended up trying to link their attributes with the fantasy celebrity in my head in order for me to want to date them, and it usually spun positive results as far as wanting to date the real person BUT was very dangerous because now I only wanted to date that person and would try many things to get them to date me. I couldn't settle for someone just asking me on a date if I was not prepared to go out with them. I am now in a relationship where it's pretty damn normal and they are NOTHING like the fantasy celeb I once obsessed about. Just like if you had a crush on another person in real life, you have to allow yourself to feel the crush but then let it go. Feel your emotions but let it go after. Focus on the positives of your significant other and reject notions of your celebrity crush. Accept the imperfections of your loved one and draw your clear distinctions between fantasy and reality. Use, not abuse your fantasy and embrace the reality. It gets better with time, trust.
Please help i have a bad celebrity crush..?
Hi im 19 years old and my sister often watches the show victorious. after watching it for a while with her i kind of started having a crush on elizabeth gillies really really bad and i was wondering how i can get over it knowing that (even though i dont live far from where she lives) ill never be able to meet her..
How do I get over an unrealistic celebrity crush?
All I think about is how much I love Joe Jonas from the Jonas Brothers. It makes me borderline depressed when I think about the fact that I'll never get with him. I want him so bad its debilitating to think about my unfortunate situation. How can I possibly get over this crush but still remain a big fan of him and his brothers??
How do I deal with my boyfriend's celebrity crushes? Any advice? He says he has stopped ever since I caught him. How can I trust him?
By getting your ass into therapy. Can I ask something? Have you never thought a celebrity was cute? Did you never secretly wish to date or marry one when you were a kid? If the answer is ‘yes’ then why are punishing your boyfriend for doing them same? He’s not threatening your relationship by having a crush on someone he’ll never meet. But you are threatening your relationship by insisting on being the Thought Police and trying to control your boyfriend.Because that’s what this is about. Control. It’s not the crush it’s the idea that your boyfriend has thoughts and feelings that you don’t approve. It’s wanting to cut someone’s agency off so that you can feel better.This is abuse. Do NOT listen to people like Daniel who tell you this behavior is okay. It’s not. Acting like this will ruin your relationships and might land you in jail if you take it too far.