HELP I HAVE A SERIOUS ISSUE CONTINUE?
Your Open Question: HElP!!!!! Something is wrong with me? Okay from the beginning since I was about 4 or 5 I have had some issues with hearing things seeing things like déjà vu with like a dream that comes true that type of bs don't think I'm crazy or a wimp cuz I had been exposed to violence young and have not been scared by any movie ever, saw the exorcist at 6...... Ect. But I had always heard voices, some very odd sOme familiar like, but always implausible like when I was little one day I heard my dad scream "IM GONNA KILL YOU" but I had always loved my days and he had loved me so I ran bout 4blpcks away and stayed in some random persons back yard till late at night I went back and the cops were there and I ltold theme what had happened and my mom told me dad left on a buisness trip last night. Over time I had numerous traumatic experiences like this with people I know and unknown voices, always threatening and plotting to harm me us sully extremely bad on one day then gone for a while and coming back. The reason I am righting this is I am now 14 and I have learned to ignore it until tonight which has been very bad. I am hearing hundreds of voice chanting for my death and am hearing running destruction and chaos I am terrified please help me If u have a question for an awnser assume It is yes unless it is bout drugs or alcohol I've been up for three extra hours it it 1:30 Cont...... I am very religious romen catholic and am know as very intelligent but able to be extremely dangerous example a a kid did some horrible things to me and I beat th living **** out of him right now I'm in physical pain al of a sudden I love god hate the devil and believe in protecting the weak but am known to not take pity on those who harm others for no reason Thanks to those who have helped
Do I have a serious mental issue?
I don't think that the part about getting annoyed at liars means much. It is pretty normal so there is no need to get worried about it.The part about not liking tonne in crowds or talking to people could be a form of social anxiety. Do you feel very anxious when around others or do you just dislike it? I am not a psychologist (just someone a bit too interested with mental health) so please don't take this as a diagnosis. I suggest looking up social anxiety and maybe taking an online screening. If the test says that you may have it and you feel like it is something that affects your life considerably then please seek help from a doctor.Not liking people asking questions could just be part of your personality of maybe deep down you don't want to feel stupid by getting an answer wrong so you get distracted when people ask you things.You definitely don't have a serious mental health issue but you may have something that needs sorting out. If you are still worried just go and get yourself checked out and see what the professionals say
I have a serious issue. I have a friend that turned out to be a bad person, and I told them to come around more, literally yesterday, and this friend comes a lot to see me. Now I don’t want to see them again. What do I do?
Hmm, sounds like you got yourself into a pinch? A guilt pinch? In that you don’t like this person because they’re not a good person, but they had a good moment which made you think you might give them another chance because some reason you thought they miraculously changed over night?Not to worry it’s a common error.Regardless of how the mistake happened, try respectfully telling them the truth. Perhaps something like you made a mistake when you invited them to come over more. Now, not because of anything they’ve done, but everything to do with you, you’d like to correct your error in judgement and ask them to not come over anymore.If they ask why, elaborate just a bit by saying something respectfully like, Nothing to do with you, but everything to do with me, but I unexpectedly don’t have much time just now and need less interruption, so I’ll see you around.If you don’t make a big deal out of it, they will not either. But watch your energy when you do this and try to do it at a time you are not tense but at ease. So, if they show up and you are tense, just tell them Not now, send them on their way and wait for a better time.I mean seriously, you don’t have to open your door to everyone who knocks on it, just like you don’t have to pick up your phone every time it rings, much less accept every invitation you receive.Regardless, it’s particularly important that you wait for a time in which you are totally at ease because people who do bad things have a habit of blowing the slightest rejection out of proportion. But if you are at ease, and they try to coerce their way into more time with you, you will not react, but will respond instead.Unfortunately, if you don’t get it exactly right, they’ll likely ask if you think you’re too good for them. If they do, tell them No, I wouldn’t take my time allowances personally; but I’m suddenly very busy and don’t have time for new friends just now, but I’ll let you know when I am.If they want to know what is taking up so much of your time, tell them you’re working on a project and need time for it, but don’t have time to talk about it just now however much you appreciate their interest. Of course that project might be sweeping them out your life, but there is no reason to offend them with the truth.That should do it.Much luck with that.
I have some serious male dependency issues and I think i should leave my boyfriend but..?
You CAN, it's simply that you CHOOSE not to....there's a difference in being unable and being unwilling... Perhaps counseling would help you realize that you don't need anyone but you...and having a boyfriend/partner doesn't make your life great or complete...and think about it, it's so NOT flattering to find out your partner is with you because s/he doesn't want to be alone, not because they really dig you...it's unkewl to realize you've been settled for... Learn to like you and like your life w/o a guy there...that's when you'll be ready to be a good partner and to have one...
PLEASE HELP ME !!!....Serious Issue With Daughter Here !!!?
#1... talk to your wife about your concerns. Explain it just as you have here, where you aren't pointing fingers but you are getting the general point across. #2... I think what may be happening is your daughter is starting to get curious about sex and guys and I'm wondering if she has had "The talk" with either you or your wife or both yet? Maybe this is why she would like to shower with you, so she is able to, as weird as it sounds, take a peek, and see what one really looks like. I think you need to sit down with her and explain to her that it is normal to be curious, and you are glad that she is coming to you with her questions, however you can't answer them in that way for her. If need be, you can go to an informative (not porn- make sure you research a good site beforehand so you don't get embarassing pop-ups) website and show her examples. *Edit* also- make damn sure her mother or another female is present when you show her these websites so it doesn't come back on you that you were doing something inappropriate with her. Good Luck to you.
I have a serious issue with concentration, how do I stop this?
For a temporarily solution try this: Pomodoro Technique, go here > HOME - I don't do the official Pomodoro technique, but i set for 25 mins & get 5 mins reward, If I'm honest i haven't done it in a while, but it totally helps me with math, But when I'm programming i keep music going on with a beat & no lyrics. Even when I'm in google hangouts pair programming I keep music very low, so i can hear everything else just fine. Try this (picture below) It has tunes that keeps you focused & doesn't make you pay attention to the songs. And genres like it.
Do you believe that software piracy is a serious issue?
I believe software developers should get paid for their work.
What do you do when you have a very serious problem that you definitely cannot talk to anyone about without serious consequences?
A2AI believe everything has a solution. You might need a help of others to figure it out. The question is: how to get help in solving your very private problem and remain anonymous. Here is what I would do:Get on the public computer in the public place such as library, school computer lab e.t.c. Research internet and find an appropriate forums of people having similar situation as yours. After you know where to go to address your issue, create brand new email address with the fake name, register on the website and post your question on their forum. Make sure, your are using brand new email address and public access computer/internet network. Your other option would be to find someone you trust and respect their opinion, and ask your question/problem stating that the problem is not yours, it is someone that you know who has this issue. I hope, it helps. Good Luck.Just a quick add on: When you create a brand new email address, never use it for anything else and never check it on your home computer/network. While using computer and internet in the library, or school lab, you can't do it under your ID, or under someone else that your know ID. It is a hardest part, but it's a whole different question.