Do you ever feel sad and empty after sex?
The last few weeks when I've come home, or after the guy has left my place I've been feeling kind of just empty inside. I have a good time, and it's fun, but I end up feeling more lonely and sad than I did before. I don't know if it's just me, or if it's just a phase or maybe because even after everything I'm still no one's girlfriend. That never used to bother me, and even if it does, it's not like a boyfriend just appears because I want one.
I feel empty , I have everything but nothing is so worth to cover the emptiness .Do you have any sudjestion?
From my personal experience I can tell you that it will pass away.Consult your doctor and he will probably prescribe some mild antidepressent. Try to reduce your stress levels. Join some physical exercise programme or a yoga class, do somebody a good turn, help some needy person.Life is a gift from god but we are expected to put some meaning into it. God bless you.
Why do I feel empty when everything is going fine in my life?
Thanks for the A2A.From what I have learned from my short life, we feel empty because we lack something that we want in our life. Something that might stay in our subconscious but does not come out from the inside to become what we call a “need”. Hence, we might feel that from the surface, we are fine but this thing that we lack eats us from the inside, consistently. It can be anything- a job that we could not get, a childhood dream that we won’t be able to accomplish, loss of someone that we called our own, not being satisfied with our own efforts even if we are giving fine results, a materialistic soul with an empty wallet… and many more.The best mindset to fight this feeling is to find the good things in what you have right now. Because these are the things that make you feel that you are fine enough. And live with it, because may be you were destined just for this. And keep believing, and trying, and fighting, with a smile on your face because that is how life is meant to be lived.
Why do i feel so empty and sad inside?
its like my whole body is hollow... i just feel numb and sad like everything is blurry... i can't laugh... i'm diagnoised with depression and other things but lately its just been so bad its like everything doesn't matter and all i want to do is cry. but i can't because i know if i start crying i wont stop. i have issues with self harm i cut since i was 13 im 14 1/2 now. i just can't take it any more. i just want to feel something, anything. i go to a therapist but it doesn't help. its not even like my life is that stressful i mean yes my parents fight constantly... they ignore me and my sisters going to boarding school and i've struggled with anorexia. but some people have it worse then me so it makes me feel so stupid feeling so sad. because i feel like i don't deserve to have credit for anything. i don't deserve to be here. i don't deserve my family or my health. i deserve to feel bad because im worthless. i just don't know what to do anymore with my life. i want to leave, or run away but i can't... i don't know where i would go and what i would do.
I feel empty, but not sad. Help?
A little background: I'm a 17 year old on the verge of graduating from high school. I shouldn't really have any problems as far as school is concerned as I'm a fairly good student. I have plenty of friends who I really like to hang out with. I live in a mid-upper class household, so there's really no problems with money. My family isn't the greatest, but they aren't evil. I'm working on getting a girlfriend, but its hard to find time. I feel empty. I'm not depressed or at least I don't think I am. I just feel like there's no point to life. I'm usually happy, but once I take a moment to think, an overwhelming feeling of emptiness comes over me. I feel like all of this is for nothing. There's no point to me living. I'm living just to breathe. Even with this mindset, I find myself filled with joy. Most of the time I feel like I'm on Cloud 9. Is there something wrong with me? Is there anybody who can give me some advise? Or should I try to seek help from a counselor or professional?
Sometimes i am just sad and feel empty?
It sounds like you have depression, and sometimes it can just hit you like a wave out of no where. Sometimes, it just cant be explained, and yeah that part really sucks! I myself am not on medication, but ive heard that it can really help! Going to a doctor/therapist would be a great thing for you. It may be hard to make yourself go get help (or to realize you need help) but its better than staying where you are. DO NOT KILL YOURSELF. please, you have friends and a family that loves you. A bright future with so much potential. These feelings, you say, have no source, so killing yourself would not benifit ANYONE. You are going to do so much in your life that you dont even know yet. You could save someone, meet the love of your life, have children.... they need you to stay alive. If you are suicidal, as you say they have all said, please talk to someone. Noone will think your crazy for crying. Find a best friend or two to totally word vomit onto. Cry and just let it out. FInd the friends that will listen, and even if they dont understand, that they will try to see things from your point of view. GOod friends will jsut encourage you and tell you why you are loved. If you would rather talk to a therapist they can help you so much. They will encourage you and help you find solutions to your problems. Please do not just do nothing. Take controll of your life, and do something. Dont let your depression controll and overwhelm you. Talk about it, write about it. Talking about it is only hard until you do it. Noone will judge you or make fun of you.. Life can be hard and there are people who want to be there for you. Dont be ashamed of how you feel, because you are not alone in feeling that. Find things that make you happy and can distract you, such as art, music, sports, even math. Whatever will distract you from your feelings and make you happy. WHenever you feel depressed go run or paint something. Vent your feeling through a hobby. If you dont talk to someone, it will bottle up, and that is the worst thing you can do. (i know from experience) you have to let all the pent up emotions or else they will implode on you and you will do something really stupid. Talk, medication, healthy distracting hobbys, and think of your future. Best of luck!
Why do I feel sad and empty even though I seem happy?
That feeling was an inward effect and facet in human sad experience. You must be a naturally happy individual who had just recently gone into a sad experience. For sure that is about a relationship to someone you were deeply attached with, but had to separate ways. Whatever the reason for separation, your mind was able to forget momentarily, but the feeling deep within you has not moved on. That feeling is a longing for someone gone in your life. The former presence in your mind is gone, so it feels empty.However, the mind has always been empty. Especially during the times when you were not together yet. So if that person you longed for is not coming back, you only have to accept that former emptiness, which you had been used to be filled when he she was with you. For long time. Years, maybe?
Everything is right in my life, but I don't know why I feel aimless. I don't understand this feeling. I laugh at times but don't feel genuinely happy, like I used to, nor sad. Why do I feel somewhat empty?
You have not given your age. If you are old, then it is normal to feel so at the end of one's career when one has achieved one's aims and wants to know 'is that all there is to life'? Then one goes in search of spirituality and find gurus who sell some apparently logical and superficially satisfying answer. If you are young or in middle age, your aimlessness may be due to everything being right without any problems or challenges to face or struggles to succeed. The only productive and genuinely satisfying suggestion I can give is when one feels empty, one should try to do charity to feel being needed by the needy folks and also being useful to the society. When one shares one's wealth, happiness and time with others who deserve it then one experiences an indescribable joy that fills the empty mind and heart. In fact, when you do that you exchange your emptiness for a fulfilling life. Please try. And be happy.