I HATE my life!!!! no friends, no caring people?
First, take a deep breath and know that you're only 15, everything will be okay. I was an anti-social, depressed kid when I was a freshman, too. I am now a Junior, and I must tell you, I have to be the luckiest and happiest person ever. The main reason that I was depressed when I was younger is very much like the reason you've given me; my friends betrayed me, they made fun of me, and I took that as a sign of failure, failure to society and as a human being. I soon realize that acceptance from my peers weren't important, what's important is the fact that I like who I am and what I see in the mirror every night, because that's when you know you deserve better than what you're getting. First, you need to find yourself a better learning environment. What I did was I went to a new school and made new friends and discovered a whole new, and better me. Instead of taking out your anger out on your parents, have 10mins of free time everyday and just relax and take the anger out by exercising while listening to music of your choice. Sometimes the best relief is to sing a sad song and just let everything out! Remember, although life has its ups and downs, don't ever let your sorrow get in your way of success and self-approval. And all it takes is the first step, eliminate the bad environment, and know that the worse has passed. Just so you'd know, everything is possible, “The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in a man's determination.” -Tommy Lasorda Best of luck, stay strong and motivated. d:^)-/-< And smile.
Life just sucks. I'm 15, have no friends, and no life?
I know somewhat how you feel in that I used to think that life had no purpose. There was only work. I was also a loner in high school. I had people that I would say hi to as I walked passed them in the halls, and would accept it if I sat near them in the cafeteria, but I would mostly be ignored. I would spend my weekend and breaks indoors, playing video games and listening to music, and often ate my lunches outside (I'm assuming girls washrooms smell a lot better than boys washrooms) even if it were freeing or raining. Because I would hate hearing about how my friends went to so many parties over the March Break. High school can be your best or worst 4 years of your life. The thing about high school is that you spin the wheel of fortune and no matter what you get , you're stuck with it. Life might suck right now, but don't base your whole life on this short period of time. I'm just here to tell you that life does get better. One day, after I graduated, the rest of my grade was going to prom. I told anybody who asked that I hated the idea of prom, that I hated the loud music, the dancing, and the bad food, and I actually did, but hated the fact that I was so lonely. That night I headed out and walked around in the park near my neighborhood to cool my head, but I was so sad that I just sat down on the grass with my head between my legs and cried. Suddenly I felt a hand on my shoulder, and I looked up to see a middle-aged man looking back at me. At first I thought I was being mugged (he was black and I was a bit racist) but he just hugged me. That's how I met my first real friend. Just remember that someday your life will start to get better. I can't guarantee when, how, or where, but I can guarantee that if you hold onto that hope, it will happen. I know you wont believe me (I wouldn't believe me when I was in high school) but please hold a little piece of hope in your heart that it will get better.
I literally have no friends at school & I HATE it !?
I feel for you girl!! I had the same thing when i was exactly the same age! If you know in your heart you have done nothing wrong for these girls to go and be bitchy (all girls do it at some point, must be in our DNA) then stand up to them! I ended up moving schools because i was being bullied EVERYDAY and my education was dropping. Once i moved schools i was shy and nervous but its funny how quickly you can make friends - but after being there a few days i started to get bullied again, and this time thgere was no way i wanted to be in that position again, so when i saw the girl that was bullying me, walking alone i walked up to her and said 'do you have a problem with me?' (believe me this was so hard and i was scared shirtless but i had to do it if i didn't want it to continue) and funny enough she said no, 15 years on and we still talk!! You could go to your new class and sit near someone you think seems nice and say hey or just say 'hey' to some people, nice people will talk to you!! If you really dont want to change schools, try and confront the girls when they are alone, its hard but so worth it - and just remember it seems like forever now but school doesnt last forever, its only a short time in your life. Good luck darlin!
I want to die and have no friends?
NO!!!!!!!!!! ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!!!!!!!!! i know exactly how u feel. after my best friend and i had a falling out, i felt like i'd never make friends. i was so alone and so depressed for the longest time. but it turns out, all i needed was confidence. now, about five months later, i'm happier and have made new friends and even though i have never had a bf (i'm 13), i've been asked out twice this year and it's helped boost my confidence. it probably has nothing to do with yer personality, or anything. it's probably the fact that u inevitably aare closing YOURSELF off. do u talk or make jokes? or do u keep to urself? wat u need atm is ssomething truly amazing to happen in ur life to shake u awake from ur depression. go to school one day and talk a lot and make jokes and see where that gets u. talk to a counsler, or ur parents. they'll understand. hang in there. things WILL get better. God loves u and the world wud miss u. u can do it :)))
Im ugly, have no friends, parents hate me, no life, no strengths. Help!!!!!!?
If you really hate yourself then do something about it! I'm not kidding, I use to be a lonely homeschooler with no friends, really bad acne (no joke, I still have acne scars/pits). I was very shy, scared to knock on doors and I couldn't have a normal conversation with anyone. And you know what happened to me? Now I am a Senior in college, looking for an internship, I have had people been extremely surprised when I slip that I use to be homeshcooled because they say I don't act it. My acne is almost gone, I have a beautiful girlfriend I met on a college bus, and I have self confidence in myself. That only happened because I really wanted to change, if you want something bad enough then go after it. I have no sympathy when someone complains of their life and I see they are doing nothing about it. So this is what you need to do. Try to find acne solutions, some work for some people, while others work for others, keep experimenting. If you don't have friends then go out and talk to people out of the blue, what would happen if someone naturally talked to you while you were waiting in a line? Would you think anything of it? No, and neither will anyone else, because of that go out and talk to people, be outgoing even if that's not your nature. If you say you don't know how, then google it, I'm not joking, that is what I always would do and I still do till this day. If you no fun, then work on trying to be fun, if you get bad grades then work on it. If you wake up to late on weekends then set an alarm or have someone wake you up. Basically if you see something you don't like about yourself then work on it. It won't be an easy road, but if you truly want to change then you will. And please don't kill yourself, I don't know if that was an exaggeration or not, but your only in 8th grade you have your whole life ahead of you. As far as no one loving you, well not to get spiritual on you, but read Romans 5:8 if you don't have a Bible then google it... it's the truth whether you believe it or not. Anyways good luck, and I hope the best for you.