I have no friends anymore?
This might be a little long but please read. So theres my best friend and this other girl were friends with. Me and my best friend would pretty much do everything together (well we would sometimes hangout with other people but most of the time we were together) Now these two have started hanging out a lot this past month. (this happened last year to but i had a lot more friends) They've been together all week leaving me nothing to do. My best friend didn't even text me ONCE. I mean I know she might be bored of me because this other girl always parties and gets high and hangs out with older kids so she probally wanted to do that but I'm leaving the country for the the whole summer in like 20 days. I would think she wanted to hangout with me? So next week I was supposed to hangout with the other girl and I get a text from her saying " hey sorry i cant hangout next week i'm busy" & i was like "uh im not stupid i know you ditched me bye" I shut my phone off because I don't want to hear what she has to say because I know she is ditching me because she has done this before. Anyways I'm honestly so depressed right now I started cutting and I haven't been able to stop crying. Don't tell me this will pass over time because I've been depressed before and It keeps coming back all the time. This week is the last week of school though and the week after that is fun week and If i don't have friends that week Idk what to do. We have semi for graduating the 8th grade and it's on this nice cruise. My " best friends" mom is doing my hair, hers, the other girls, and one of our other friends. What am I supposed to do if I have no friends? I spent 300 dollars on the whole but do you think I should even go? Also what should I do about my " friends " ?
I have no friends anymore?
I had the same problem years ago.... What I did was turn my feelings/fears into music....I took up the piano, and now everytime I need to get away...i just play....my little world...just me and the music...NO ONE can take that from me.... Friends will come and go...just remain confident on what you want to become.... Hope this helps... Tim
I feel like I have no friends anymore. What should I do?
If they were really your friends, things shouldn't be like that any more. Welcome to the been-left-alone-because-of-mistakes-you-did-or-did-not-do club ! I'm always here if you need to talk.EDIT:Ok I wrote that trying to hide the feelings I was going through exactly at the same moment. You know its EID today. (Muslim festival of celebration: where all your friends and family gather and chat and have fun) I am sitting here in front of my computer. Tears streaming down my face. I used to have friends and lots of them. And then they left me because by the time I grew up I faced shit . Constant shit. This made me crazy. Literally. I am in depression. Been there since the last so many years. I lost my friend recently. Its been 3 months since we spoke. I kept begging him to come back he barely replies. Even though I am so much hurt by his actions, I texted him in the morning today because I was receiving texts from every one and I though hey its a time of the year when one forgets all the sorrow so lets try to reconcile.Unfortunately his reply of who is this plummeted me deep down into the abyss of misery and I ended up being a loser and attention seeker asking him to not give up on my friendship and to not abandon me. And here I am without any reply although its 3 hours now since I sent the last text.So what do i do now? I don't have friends. It is lonely. Terrible lonely. The contractor guy wrote the exact description of what I have been going through. The worse part. I don't have a job at the moment. So I'm cramped up inside my apartment for the whole day. Its been a month I've hardly ventured out anywhere other than the market for stuff. I have my cell phone but the only texts I receive are the ones from my subscriber network for promotions. I wake up and I cry. There is no family to support me. I cook and try to cheer myself up. I write. That's what I'm good at these days. I cook and I eat and I write and I listen to music. Sometimes I sit in the balcony or go for a walk. Sometimes I drive to the beach and stare at the ocean.I feel hollow and I cry myself to sleep every night. I feel angry every few days of how my friend left me and that I should not contact him but then again I end up being a doormat for him. Life is miserable when you don't have friends.
I don't have real friends anymore?
I've experienced the same thing, so I know how you feel. I have a family and friends who care about me, but because they're away from me, I only get to see them once in a while. Where I live I don't really have any real friends. My real friends are all away, so I'm left with either loneliness or being with fake friends. I go through times where I wish to die, but killing yourself means running away and that's not the right thing to do. Maybe people around you don't want to hang out with you because they're looking down on you or don't think that you're cool, so I think you are the one who needs to stand up and help yourself. I'm not sure what you currently do, but if you're a student at school or university, try to prove yourself by studying hard and aiming at high grades. If you're working, then do your best at work. Or just do anything good sport, language, or another thing that you think you can prove yourself in. Show everyone that you're good enough, and don't ever look down at yourself. Be brave, change your bad habits if you have any, and believe in yourself. At that point, you're naturally attract others, and have friends. And of course if you want real good friends, you have to be a good person as well (not necessarily referring money or a high position in a society, but just good manners and a self-confident to achieve what ever you want). By the way, your English is very good!...Good luck! ;)
I don't want/need friends anymore?
so I'll try to make this short. I've never really had a lot of friends, just a few close ones. as I got older and into HS I started losing them, then it was down to 1. we were friends for a couple years, we recently started slipping. nothing major happened, no argument or anything. we just sort of stopped talking. I started to realize stuff after we stopped talking. she wasn't the greatest friend to have. I'm not gonna get into that. but yeah. anyways, while we were friends there were times that I just wanted to be alone. for some reason this always happens, I just want to be alone. I'm not sad, mad, etc.. I'd just rather be alone. Recently, I started feeling like I just don't need any friends. I think it started after I left public school to go to independent studies. I just don't want any friends. well, friends would be nice I guess but I just feel like I don't NEED them. especially not the ones I had before. if anything I want to meet new people that are actually into what I like(acting, modeling, making youtube videos, not partying every weekend, etc.) is there a reason I'm like this? Does anyone else feel like this? No rude answers please ...
If people want you to die, and you have no friends anymore, is it better to get it over with?
There's this…. beautiful sentence my friend told me about once.“Suicide may take your pain away, but it only returns it ten fold to your loved ones.”I'm sure you have a family, and a group of friends. As for the people who you say “want you to die”? They never deserved a say in your life to begin with.First, you cut such people out of your life. If that's not a clear way of saying “I don't like you”, I don't know what is. So don't give such people a place in your life. I'm sure you have atleast one friend. Guess what? A parent, sibling, a relative; you forget that anyone can be your friend. It could be your mom. Your dad. Your brother/sister. Your grandparents. Your uncles. Your aunts. Unless you've been physically isolated from the world since child birth, it is literally impossible for you to not have a friend. This is how human beings work. And this is how you work too :)Look around you, everyday. Observe the people who interact with you. Interact more with people who don't ask of such crazy demands to end your life. Find things to do with the people who don't demand stuff like that.If you feel like you have no place in this world, you're not alone. I have thought about this too many times. I have felt like ending my life just because I feel the exact same way (except I wasn't told by anyone) But you know what? Life isn't a straight road. And I you realized that every single person in this world has had a bumpy ride into old age, I feel challenged. And I want to take on that challenge. So should you!Accept it and take the world on. Show them you're not going out without a long, well drawn out fight, cause you definitely have that fighting spirit in you.If you didn't have that spirit, you wouldn't even be asking this question. Guess what? You've already started fighting back.:)Stay safe friend. Find a reason to live your life.
What should I do if I have no real friends? I have some friends, but they are circumstantial friends or acquaintances and they don't really care about me. I feel very lonely and depressed even though I'm surrounded by people.
Let me try to answer this for you from my point of view. To me, friends are baggage. And like every baggage they come with their own particular weight, only it changes by itself depending on their mood and environment.What do you really need a friend for?Tossing a few shots together every once in a while and listening to them bitching and moaning about how miserable their lives are? Yup, that's what you get when you need a friend to "share." You unload your baggage, get ready to take on some extra from them as well. Honestly, not my cup of tea. Sadly those are considered true friends of BFFs. Sit on the sidewalk and start crying, any decent guy would ask you what's wrong and maybe even listen a little. So, anyone can share your frustrations, even a total stranger. You don't need someone in particular to do that. So, let's cross off the sharing part then.Do you need a friend to go to the ball games, movies, theaters, concerts? Well, movies and theaters are no places to chitchat, at a ball game anyone can be your friend for that period of time, and concerts, well, sing dude, sing along.You need a friend to call late at night when you're miserable and feeling that melancholy slowly crawling upon you? Have a hobby, for Pete's sake. Start getting not good, very good at it. Or just put some music that makes you wanna jump up and down, or just for calming your nerves. You know, we humans are so lucky, cause we have something miraculous called music. What's left? Ooh, those dreadful holidays and weekends. Well, you said you have some circumstantial friends or acquaintances, so I'm sure they will have some plans which would fit you. Choose one of them, tag along, and go home exhausted to the blissful peace of your own space, away from any human interaction, which I'm sure you'll hate after that long day with so much of it.Human beings are in constant change. You are always changing, they are always changing and let's be honest, it's too much to ask for in these times for any kind of relationship to last that long and stay solid. Embrace the everyday change and accept that others go through that as well. That way, you won't feel the need to get too attached to other mortals and also, won't get frustrated when they, so rightfully, walk away. Space, my friend, space. Everyone needs it. Have it, and let others have it as well.
I have no friends and no social life anymore?
a few years back i had a great group of friends and everything was great but that group kinda fell apart due to some drama.. so i ended up always being around my best friend and very rarely anybody els...but my best friend moved away and im all alone ..making it more frustrating is im very well liked by some people i know out of necessity ..i try to act nice and polite to not hurt anybody's feelings but the only people i get to interact with now are people i really cant stand for many reasons..ive tried having hobby's* specifically i tried getting into trading card game tournaments* and what it came down to was they became single purpose acquaintances that would be like il speak to u here but besides this we have nothing in common so outside of this we really are not gonna talk ... so yeah my days the last 4 months have been go to class try to maintain being friendly with people who are very grading then just wonder around the city aimlessly listening to my ipod ...i don't attract the kind of people i want the kind i do know at all we just cant get along at all everything is starting to feel like purgatory ..any advice to get out of my rut?
How I tell my mom that I have no friends?
I'm in the same situation girl... I'm 15 and I have no close friends anymore. High school is a huge, lonely place if you don't have anyone to talk to or laugh with. I used to have several best friends but since they all go to a different school now we've kind of drifted apart. I'm not good at meeting new people without a friend there already. My mom has done the same thing too, asking me why i don't go anywhere or invite anyone over. My dad has even yelled at me to get out of the house because I haven't done anything this summer and he says, "You can't live your life in this house! Get out and go do something!" I know he had good intentions, but at that point I went into my room and cried and had my own pity party. It really sucks! You should do what I did. The next time one of your parents mentions something about going somewhere or about you having your friends over, create an arguement. Make the conversation tense. Reply with a, "No!! What is your problem?" and your parents will ask why again, you reply, "BECAUSE I DON'T HAVE ANY FRIENDS!" It made it easier for me because I just ran into my room afterwards instead of having to look at their dissappointed faces staring at me, ya know? It just takes the akwardness out. The arguement gets the point across and now your mom knows about the situation. My mom has actually offered to introduce me to some of her friends' daughters and take us shopping wednesday... I'm not sure if I will. Good luck to you!