I don't have any friends at my new school?
Hi. I'm a 16 year old girl, I'm average-looking and awfully shy. I recently started a completely new school. It's been a few months now but I feel like things are awful. I literally have zero friends. There are a few girls I kind of hang out with. They let me sit with them and eat lunch with them, but they don't say a word to me. They never ask for my opinion or ask if I wanna hang out with them after school. They only talk to me if they want something from me. And they ALWAYS leave me behind. If I try to talk they often talk over me, interrupt me, or simply act as if they don't care about what I have to say. I try really hard to be nice to them but obviously they don't appreciate my company and it makes me feel sooo bad because I have no one else to hang out with. I feel nervous about school all the time, especially in the morning, because I know I'm about to spend like 6-8 hours around people who treat me like air. I feel so ******* lonely. I can't talk to my parents about it because I'm not close to them in that kind of way. I miss my friends in my previous school so much. And my grades are dropping too. It's so hard to study when you're feeling nervous all the time. I have 2,5 years left until I graduate but I don't wanna feel like this about school any longer. What do I do?
I miss my old friends, middle school, the past? :/?
i know that i shouldn't be saying this, for i am only 14. i really miss the past a lot, and don't know how to deal with it. i am now a freshman in high school, and ever since i left middle school, i just realized that those were the best years of my entire life. every single day, i can't help but just stare straight into the sky and think about all those great times. i'm very very depressed about this. all my other friends have been so glad to move on. i'm the only one that still misses it. I'm the only one from middle school that goes to this high school i'm going to, and the rest go to the same school, they all have their own friends now , not even bothering to contact me.. its pretty lame and sad. feel like everyday i am living in hell, just wanting those great times back. i know that the right thing to do is to just move on, but it's not that easy for me. i just don't know what to do. i feel like everyday i'm slowly breaking down inside. what should i do? By the way, high school isn't so ... amazing. I feel like I'm forcefully having to make new friends, no matter how boring or lame they are... Theirs not one friend in my high school that i'd want to hang out with outside of school.. How can i enjoy high school more? People here are so immature still, and just..tough.
I have no friends at my new high school. I moved...?
I've been living in Oregon just about my whole life, ironically I was born in California, and all my friends are in Oregon. There's a HUGE group of people I know and we have so many family friends that are super close to us, I even love my friend's parents. I moved this summer and I sometimes cry to myself quietly alone. I moved down to California this summer and go to a new high school. I am a Sophomore and I talk sensible people there but I don't really have any friends. It's been about 4 weeks since school started (starts pretty early where I know live) and still nothing. I eat lunch alone and in class I'm pretty quiet. I miss my friends so much, and it's not just 1 of them, it's ALL of them. I really cannot concentrate on my grades right now and I keep thinking of them and it brings me to tears. As I am writing this a couple of tears go down my cheek. How do I make friends in this new school? How long will it take? Anybodys help is appreciated, I love all of you guys for helping thanks. I really do, it means a lot to me.
What can I do if I miss my old friends?
If there would be a girlfriend or boyfriend thing here, I would have suggested you to move on but since this is a friend, you should definitely let him/her know that you miss him(I am taking him to avoid writing / and her everytime ahead.). He will understand, that's what friends are for. They know you and no matter what is the reason you guys have a disagreement now or he is away, he will accept the face and believe me, you won't have to say second time that you miss him. This is what friendship is about. Me and my friend fight all the time. There was a time when we didn't had a conversation for 2 weeks. That was the longest time I have felt lonely. In the end, your friend will be one standing with you. Whether it be a career jolt or your girlfriend dumping you, he will be the one you can pour your heart out.So, be a bigger guy or girl, and tell him. You will get to mock him later that I was the one who said sorry or called later and the best part is you won't ever feel miserable about it.
First day at new school and no friends,help?
Today was the first day at my new high school. It's really huge and there's a lot of people. Problem is, I have no friends. I am so lonely and it basically made the first day the worst for me. I felt like crying. I even lied to my mother and told her I had a great day and met some new friends. I didn't. I hate it. I miss my old friends and my old school. And you know what sucks? Today was only the first day. im going into 10th grade...
Why do I love my old school friends so much?
Old is gold. Old school. Old songs. Old books. Old habits. And most importantly ‘Old friends’.This post pretty much explains my feelings. I’m one such lucky person who yet hangs out with those school besties almost every week.You love them so much because they are simply the best and crazy people you’ll ever meet.I say that because -You almost spend 10 best years of your life with them.The once you call the golden days of your life are spent with them.They have been with you all through your earlier good and bad experiences of your life. You might forget those experiences but they won’t!Birthdays! How can I ever forget those crazy, wonderful birthday celebrations took place in recess time! These last 4 birthday celebrations were so dull without them.They are one of the biggest reasons of why we still love school so much. Because it was never just ‘school’. It was always ‘school friends’.They never judged us for whom we were. (this might not be true for some people but atleast I didnt have judgemental friends)We could literally share each and everything with them no matter how bad, embarassing, shameful or stupid the matter be. (With other friends its difficult to be that friendly)The relationship with them will always be the most transparent and pure you’ll ever have.You can totally be yourself. No need to pretend or fake anything.No matter how long its been to have met them but once you get together, its like you have never been apart.Most of the best childhood memories are associated with them.You never forget those idiots.And the list is never ending. I can never get over those school memories I had with them.They are the reason which makes me believe this phrase -True friends make us believe that blood relations are not only true relations.Guys, I miss you so much.
First day at new school and no friends,help?
aww, it's okay! i know it's really hard for you right now. just know that every single person who transfers school has to go through the same thing! give it a few days, you'll definitely make new friends! you've got friends from your other school so you've got no prob befriending people. :) just try to strike up a convo with other people sitting near you in your classes, maybe ask them about the homework or about their shoes or top or something! i'm sure you'll settle in fine within the week. it's probably just the nerves of the new school, plus missing your old friends and school. don't worry okay babe, you'll be fine, after all it's just the first day! :) looking back at this situation in a few weeks' time, you'll laugh at yourself :)
I really HATE my new school.. i have no friends and i cry every night.. I HATE HATE HATE IT!! :'(?
I recently moved countries.. It is a big change for all of us.. Im in grade 8.. in my previous school i had sooo many friends and now im like the loner in school... i dont have anyone to talk to and im always counting minutes till school is over for the days.. im frantically await weekends and dread going back to school.. i missed many days of school after i started mid way through because i didnt want to go to school.. i pretended i was sick and couldnt go etc etc.. teachers are trying to help but its just not working.. i miss my old friends.. i feel lost at my new school and i im just sitting there like a loner... its a huge change from having dozens of friends to being so lonely.. i feel out of place and i just sit in class fighting back tears and sometimes i cant take it and i have to wipe them away in class... i have been going for 2 months but its still the same thing since day 1.. please help me.. what should i do? i dont want to live in hell....
I miss being at my old school. advice?
it has been 12 school days for me as a new student here. i have one friend that i don t actually want to be friends with.... we don t click together.... but she let me sit with her and follow her around so i feel really bad. but anyway not the point. i have no friends here. no interest at all. i thought that just because the school was pretty big and nicer than my old one, that i would have a blast there. nah. my old school was home. and i took it for granted. i went to that school for seven years. and my parents don t let me go anywhere without them so i can t visit my old friends or anything. i try to stay strong and hope for the best. but all of my friends will probably forget about me. i m no longer there. i don t exist