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I Have No Friends. I Feel So Lonely.

I feel so lonely no friends?

Definitely find a club or sport that you'd be interested in. I'm a senior in HS and I really wish I had joined something because people seem to make lots of friends with teammates and stuff like that. There's bound to be an activity that you're into at your school.
If not, try to look for an extracurricular outside of school. Just try to broaden your horizons and always be friendly and open to people. You can never fully know a person by their outside appearance, don't let that dictate whether they're going to be your friend.

Best of luck

I feel lonely, like I have no friends?

I know how you feel. High school, especially sophomore year, is tough. It isn't how the movies make it look, and it isn't the best years of your life. That's ok. If these friends aren't treating you Iike you should, then find new ones. You don't have to completely abandon them, but find people that actually care about you. It's fine if you don't have a boyfriend. I don't plan on ever having one. There's so much more to life than that. Do things that make you happy. Join clubs thatinterest you at school, sit at a new table at lunch. If you don't make friends right away don't worry. It won't always be like this. Your family cares about you and you'll find friends that do too. Other's opinions of you do not define you.

I have no friends, I feel so lonely?

Recently I have lost all of my friends. My suppose to be bestfriend hangs around a new crowd of people now she doesn't even speak or acknowledge me. She talks about me with them and is trying to go after the boy I been through so much with. She isn't there for me at all I will text her and she won't reply she doesn't even talk to me. My highschool is like in cliques and groups. I feel like I don't fit into any, I barely talk to anyone. No ones tries to talk to me either, its like I can't make friends. My other friends just go out and do there own things and I'm left alone. When I go places like the mall I don't like catching the bus or walking places by myself but it seems like I will have to. I really have no one to talk to help with advice or to depend on. There's no getting my friends back I already tried and I can't seem to make new ones. I basically live in the ghetto my school is ghetto the people just like to be loud and fight and I don't like to be around drama. I've already had my share of that. I don't know what to do I feel so alone. I'm 16 by the way

I have no friends and I feel so lonely?

You need to rebel. It is called fighting for your freedom. You have to make the time to hang around with people you want to hang around with. If that means upsetting your parents then you have to upset your parents.

However, there are three rules you must obey. Observe your parents morals, get enough sleep, eat and drink correctly.

Good manners also dictates that you let them know who you are with, and what you are doing, and obviously it is much better if you are going to an organised event. I think it stands to reason that you cannot make friends unless you are with people to make friends

Even so you will find that people do tend to form cliques, and you are only aware of it if you are excluded. It is nothing personal. Once the novelty of you has worn off, you can quite often be on your own. This is one reason why joining a volunteer group is highly commended, because then you are given a role that others can relate to, and you have a purpose.

I would suggest that loneliness has little to do with friends, and has more to do with being fulfilled or unfulfilled, or complete or incomplete. Being bored is painful, but it does show that you are alive and intelligent. I am certain that loneliness can cause depression. However, I would not dwell on that. You are young, you need challenges.

You have both parents out working. They have made a statement that work life is more important than home life. That is possibly an oversimplification, they may be working for the bank to repay what they have spent to make home comfortable. Do not overlook them as source of advice and experience, but you have to start making your own statement, and to do that you need a dream.

Who do you want to be, what do want to do with your life? Don't deny a secret longing if you have one. What I am saying is if you have a dream, that dream will give a purpose to your life, that will set your priorities, you will know what challenges you have to face and it is meeting those challenges that will give you fulfillment, you will be more content with yourself and surprise surprise a better person with whom to be a friend.

I feel so lonely but I have friends?

Maybe you don't trust them enough, you can't fully be yourself around them because your worried they won't except you? You can't express how your feeling or you feel they won't understand.

Every person will go through this stage in there life, some when there older, same age as yourself or even younger.

I'm 18 (female) and felt exactly the same way just before I turned 18 and when I was about 15/16, didn't matter who I was with (friends,family or even best friend) I still felt alone, depressed and isolated.

It might just be something is going on in your life (something has happen or happening) which is effecting the way you see things effecting your social life/making you feel depressed and some what isolated.

I started feeling this way and honestly took me awhile to get out of feeling like it. It effected my relationship with my mum (you may not even have what I had but I'm just saying) you've hit a time in your life where your becoming an adult now meaning you have responsibilities whereas maybe friends around you don't - isolating you from them in such away therefore making you feel the way you do.

What I would do: sit down and write how you are truly feeling, this may help you realise why you feel this way don't think just write! This might pin point the reason.

Learn how to enjoy the loneliness.You don’t need a best friend/partner always around you to be happy. You just need to learn how to enjoy the company of yourself. No one in this world can understand you better than yourself. You’re your best friend.You can spend time by doing the things you love. You can just go to a movie alone. If you like kids, you can visit an orphanage near your home and spend some time with them there. You can read books or listen to music.There are plenty of things out there in this world we are yet to learn/experience. Just being sad doesn’t make progress or take you anywhere.Explore yourself and the world.Thank You :)

I have no friends and I feel really lonely?

It's good to use the internet at the start since you don't need to fear rejection so much. Once you are more comfortable then you can find some friends in the real world.
Find a topic that you like to talk about and then visit a forum about that topic. You'll be bound to meet some people and learn small things about each one. Eventually you'll be able to create your own little group of online friends.
I believe it's My Little Pony that says "Friendship is Magic". As much as I don't care for cartoons there is certainly some sense behind those words. That magic is just out of your reach for the moment, and only you can be the one to change that.

I feel like ‘loneliness’ is a by-product of being unable to truly ‘connect’ with something.What do you think?Could it be that you don’t really feel like you ‘connect’ with any of your friends?Can you talk to them? I mean really talk to them?About the things that matter to you; ideas that interest you, concepts that you enjoy exploring.Can you be vulnerable with them - with any one of them? Let them see you for you - in all your imperfect and flawed magnificence?Do you lack emotional connection, intellectual connection, or spiritual connection?It would be impossible for any one person to fulfill all those needs.Sometimes, even a group of people - or many people.What’s missing? What’s the thing that’s calling to you and trying to tell you that it feels neglected?We give people an impossible amount of expectations and ideals to shoulder.Would you be able to bear all that weight?Diversify.There are so many places and ways to find real connection.Some people find it in hobbies, in volunteering, and in the pursuit of a self-defined meaningful aim.Others, find it in art, literature, and music.They find it alone, in nature.Some find it right here, on Quora.They may even find it in the brief, fleeting gaze of a stranger.We all know at-least one person that always appears to be alone, but never lonely.Look: they’re proof - proof that connection and magic can be found everywhere, all around you.It’s hard to be lonely, when you have so much to keep you company; so much to connect with.Find things you connect with.Diversify.Related:Dushka Zapata's answer to What is the opposite of loneliness?

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