Gay crush on my personal trainer...?
Hi guys, the title tells pretty much what's going on with me. Okay, long story short, I hired this trainer in one of the biggest gyms in here 2 months ago, who I did not find attractive at first. All I wanted from him was his advice on working out. But then, after a few weeks, I started to have feelings for him, partly because of his physical attributes and his adorable personality. I tried my best to keep my feeling inside me and not to show anything in front of him, because I want to keep our relationship professional. However, he did sent me some signals at times, like, he would help me stretch or lift weight in a way that involve body touch (i.e. putting his legs on my lap or sticking his chests on my back), at one time, we had eye contact for a few seconds, although he turned around embarrassedly. He always look at me with a caring smile on his face and put his hand on my shoulder (in a friendly way) etc.... Maybe I misinterpret things (yes, I saw him checked out other girls), or maybe somehow he know that I am gay, so he used my vulnerability to keep me as his client... All I know is, I have this huge crush on him and couldn't get him out of my head. Should I just let him know and get this over with or should I keep hiding it from him? Please help!!
How do I stop crushing on my personal trainer?
I've been working out with my pt for 2 months now and I have a crazy crush on him! I've never really been big on crushes. There's definite chemistry between us and we have alot of common interests. I find that I'm always dressing up to go to the gym on the chance he'll see me looking pretty before our sessions. I can't stop thinking about him. Problem, he has a gf and I have a bf!!!!! I don't want anything more with my pt(only in my dreams) so how can I stop crushing on him so I can focus entiry on my bf? My bf and I have been dating for 3 years. I'm physically attracted to my pt, he's not one of those gym jocks and doesn't have a perfectly ripped body. I'm not really physically attracted to my bf though despite him having a better body. I think it's cause my bf is too metro while my pt is quite manly. I know my ptvis just being nice to me, he's not leading me on and having a crush on your pt is so cliche. But I can't help it! Should I tell my bf so we can work through this together? I do love him, I just can't get rid of this 'schoolgirl' crush!
I have the biggest crush on my personal trainer, what do i do?!?
My PT is super attractive and super nice and everything about him i enjoy. I've heard of PT's and their clients liking them and what not because of how intimate training another person can be. BUT, i feel like this may be different. He's the one always asking questions about me, personal questions. At first i thought it was just daily client small talk for him but now that i've done more sessions we seem to be hitting it off more and more. We joke around and talk a lot during training and i feel like i may be pulling him away from his professionalism. My friend told me to get another trainer so i can focus, but if he wasnt my trainer i wouldnt see him at all. I really like him, and dont know if i should pursue it or just wait and see if he does?
I have the biggest crush on my personal trainer and I think he does too. I want to tell him how I feel but scared of rejection. What should I say?
Step back and observe!Why do you hurry? He is not going anywhere. And I want to tell you something it's my doctor does the same to me and I might fall sooner for him but since my visits are repeated in a small circle of time I recognized that it's his job to relax me with the lovely words and acts you know. He's the best in here and people can't find his free time to go to him. So if I did fall and opened up myself I could lose my best doctor ever. Crushing my doctor is no big deal but my health is priority. So your training too I guess.Life is like that sometimes and we feel like we are falling but it's not what we think. Its just a sympathy. I won't encouraged you as you wish like “okay go on tell him, he will go crazy, he's in love.”…How your training is going? How long do you need it? How long do you know him? Do you know everything you need to open up your heart? I'm sure there are others around him like you. He may also has his girlfriend sharing same home too. Or a boyfriend.. İt's also his job to keep the people happy with lovely actions.So be observer. Be sure you are not creating a dream world and be realistic. Then if he's still interested in you and everything you thought was real, he or you will take the first move. I mean he will be the one strike first because since he's an trainer I do the think he's an introvert. You know what I mean.Just observe and go with the flow. Or you will be seem like a little girl who is crying over a chocolate to her daddy all the time.Noone likes it.
I have a wierd gay crush on my personal trainer, what to do?
I have a girlfriend of two months who has said she would like to come to the gym with me, I have told her I need 'guytime' but really there is this guy there who helps me train who is really a bit of an adonis. I don't really admit to such feelings a lot; but there's just something amazing about how toned he is, and he's cool, he's australian. We've been for drinks after the gym too. I love my girlfriend, but I feel a bit dirty thinking about my personal trainer. advice?
Help, Im attracted to my personal trainer?
Find a quality about him that you don't find very attractive...for instance maybe he sweats too much, has bad breath, is a little arrogant, etc., and focus on it. If you focus on it everytime you see him, you might eventually lose your attraction. You might also want to try setting up a strict list of fitness goals for yourself (if you haven't already), so that you focus on achieving those goals and not the trainer. Make your fitness your #1 priority. Of course, if you really do like him, ask him out, and if things don't work out, get a new PT. Hope that helps.
Does my trainer have a crush on me?
Maybe? Just keep in mind that trainers try to develop a strong rapport with their clients to Foster a long-term commitment. Often times, that procese can be misconstrued into romantic intentions. Furthermore, he or she may be attracted to you but has no intention of crossing the line. In my experience, if he or she wants to take it further I'm sure they'll let you know. My hope is that he or she can remain professional and discharge you as a client and then pursue you or be aware of their own nonverbals that are giving you the wrong idea.
I'm attracted to my FEMALE personal trainer?
You don't LOVE her, you are sexually infatuated with her. And it's not all that unusual that you find out, at 19, that you can be attracted to women as well as men. Not all bisexual people are aware of that immediately - we're all raised to be heterosexual, after all. And most of us were raised with the idea that being LGBT is wrong. We each have to deal with that as best we can. There are lots of helpful websites out there; I've listed one. As for not wanting to have sex, just make out...? If you find a woman who is interested in you sexually, drawing a line like a high-school kid on a date seems kind of immature. It's understandable, since you're very new to the idea of a relationship with another woman, but this sounds more like a crush than actual love. I suggest you do two things: One, get a different trainer because you're not going to get what you're paying for -- TRAINING -- while you're distracted. And, two, either ask her for a date or just enjoy the crush while it lasts. If she isn't bi or lesbian, asking her out will probably result in her suggesting you get a different trainer, which is not a bad idea. It isn't fair to someone to put sexual pressure on her while she's trying to do her job.
Do u find Personal trainers attractive?
Do you find the job of being a Personal trainer attractive? I'm a qualified Fitness Instructor and now going to be a Personal Trainer. Was wondering what people thinks when they hear the word Personal trainer. And would you ever date one and why would you? Sorry just curious lol.